It is not until we really face life that we understand what youth and ignorance are.Almost from the day we left the campus, we combed our hair into adults, put on straight suits, and went to various jobs in high spirits. At that time, we were full of enthusiasm for life, and we were determined to become a person who stood up to the sky in life and dominated the workplace.
In the next two years, we abide by our duty, humbly seek advice, and complete every job conscientiously and responsibly, we firmly believe that as long as we do our job well and get along well with our colleagues, we can be discovered, reused, and understood. Gradually, however, we found that those efforts were not worth mentioning in the eyes of others, and they valued emotional intelligence, eloquence, and relationships more. But we were born and grew up in the countryside, and if we are not given the opportunity, how can we get the connections, resources and connections?
So it was divided into two groups of people, one group of people gradually became the person they didn't want to be in the past, left and right, like a fish in water;A group of people still think that as long as they are down-to-earth and willing to work, even if they don't deliberately please, they can reach the pinnacle of life.
Year after year, both groups of people have gone to their respective positions, the first part of the people has reached the height they want, and the remaining part of the people, who are over thirty years old, have achieved nothing.
Written to you who are over 30 years old and have achieved nothingOver thirty years old, he still hasn't achieved anything.
So his wife began to complain, obviously they were rural people who married together, why did other people's families drive luxury cars to live in villas, go in and out of high-end places, and don't even have to cook their own meals. And he guards this home every day, washing, cooking, and cleaning up the house, and he doesn't even have a decent set of cosmetics.
The child also doesn't understand why his classmates eat and wear famous brands, and they can only buy things that cost a few dollars
Every time the family gathers for dinner, they pile up the stubble to the most successful person, but they can only sit with their family members in obscurity and pick up the rice.
We go from being afraid, uneasy, and overwhelmed at the beginning, to finally being content with our destiny and going with the flow. After countless mental struggles in the middle, in the end, I could only choose one person to swallow all the bitterness into my stomach and digest it slowly in the dead of night.
Looking back, the light boat has crossed the Ten Thousand Mountains.But don't be angry, don't be sad, my dear, we live in this world of all kinds of things, and we will definitely face a lot of problems. We feel like we're getting nothing done, but we're not.
First, we don't have a very high salary, which is not enough to support our family's better and more upscale consumption, but 80% of the world's wealth is in the hands of 20% of the people, and we are only that 80%, which is no different from most people.
Second, we do not have a high position, there is no way to dominate like a child's dream, but we are also shining in the post, not slacking, and still contributing to the development of society.
Third, we don't have very good resources, and we don't have access to very good resources. However, the connections, resources, and experience we have accumulated in the process of our own efforts will become resources for future generations in the future
Many years later, when we look back at our own experiences along the way, we can still read it calmly: "Looking back, the light boat has crossed the Ten Thousand Mountains." ”