Introduction:
In the adult world, socializing is not a simple matter. In fact, adults often have a certain threshold for socializing. This is not to say that adults are snobbish or realistic, but because everyone's life experience and values are different, there will be different criteria for the choice of social partners.
Body:
1. Common interests or topics
Adults often need common interests or topics to socialize. Adults have their own lives and interests, and they prefer to communicate with people they are interested in rather than forcibly inserting topics that they are not interested in. Therefore, if there is no common interest or topic, then it becomes difficult to socialize.
2. Mutual respect and understanding
Adult socialization often requires mutual respect and understanding. Adults have experienced a lot in life, and their values and opinions are formed through the accumulation of life experience over a long period of time. Therefore, if you want to have a deep communication with them, you need to respect and understand their point of view, rather than force your own point of view.
Third, it takes time and effort
Socializing as an adult often requires time and effort. Adults have their own jobs and lives, and they don't easily waste their time and energy on meaningless socializing. Therefore, if you want to build a strong friendship with them, you need to put in the time and effort to do so.
Therefore, socializing as an adult is not a simple matter, it requires shared interests, mutual respect and understanding, and dedication of time and energy. Only when these thresholds are reached can true friendships be established. Therefore, if you find it difficult to socialize as an adult, then it may be because you have not found the right threshold.
Conclusion:
In adult socialization, we need to understand and respect each other more, find common interests and topics, and devote time and energy to building deep friendships. Only in this way can we find our own comfort zone in adult socialization, build true friendships, and make life more fulfilling and meaningful.
Wen Yuchen
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