I like the state of my life now, like a breeze in the valley, free and light.
Looking back on the past few years, I have heard these voices ringing in my ears countless times. "The general environment is really bad this year, it's good to keep my current job, don't think about it. "If you work hard and work hard, you can live a good life." "It's better to be more stable, and it's better to take the civil service exam." ”
It seems that everyone around me is telling me that the outside world is very dangerous, and only this small world in front of me can ensure my own safety, and it is good to look up at the outside world, and don't always think about seeing the bigger world. To some extent, these words were indeed for my good, so I did follow these outside voices at that time.
However, I found that having a stable and easy job did not seem to give me a sense of inner stability, but rather made me pale and powerless at an age when I should be in high spirits. I wasn't happy because I couldn't find my worth in this kind of life all along. The confusion and tearing in my heart made me start to lose internal friction, and I began to slowly lose the fresh power in my heart, and became numb and sluggish.
It wasn't until this year that I plucked up the courage to quit my business naked. It can be said that the changes that entrepreneurship has brought to me are huge, just like after regaining my life, I have a sense of strength to regain control of my life, and become brave and tenacious.
No matter what you do, it seems that there is always a sense of confidence that rises from the bottom of your heart. Believe that you can do it, believe that you deserve it. It is not easy to be inexplicably affected by emotions because of some trivial things, it is not sensitive to internal friction, and many things in life can also be treated with an accepting attitude. This kind of inner power that arises spontaneously may be mental power, which allows people to break through many shackles, become brave, and bloom.
This year is destined to be extraordinary for me, a year to shatter my past self, reorganize, and rekindle that fire in my heart. Reborn from the fire, what comes out of the cocoon is a completely different and new self from the previous hesitant self.
In my career, the changes I have made are earth-shaking, not only starting an online light business, but also meeting many like-minded people. There are many, many first breakthroughs, such as earning the first online income, attracting the first batch of their own fans, designing the first product of their own, and forming the first online community of their own. What touched me the most was that I found that I could also use my power to influence a lot of people, whether it was through words or short **.
Every time I see those words of gratitude and affirmation to me, I feel that the background of my life suddenly comes alive. It is no longer the pale and powerless feeling of fatigue in the past, but more like the joy of finally climbing to the top of a high mountain after hardships and seeing the magnificent sunrise that appears in the clouds and mist.
And all this extraordinary, perhaps all of this comes from the current strong self, in the continuous progress of the efforts to create.
This year, there have also been great changes in interpersonal relationships, some people who have been with me for a long time have left, and many new people have entered my life. In the past, when there were many people around me, I still felt a kind of loneliness that was not understood, and I always felt torn and consumed in various relationships.
Later, I finally realized that the feeling of emptiness in my heart was not satisfied by simple companionship, and I finally learned what true love is. Whether it is the relationship between parents, relatives and friends, I have a more thorough understanding, and I can see the experiences and feelings behind them. No longer judge others arbitrarily by subjective standards, nor will you easily doubt yourself because of other people's standards. It seems to understand on a certain level why you should allow others to be others and allow yourself to be yourself.
The chaos and fragility that had always been in the heart was replaced by a clear sense of order and boundaries. I think it is precisely because of this continuous mental energy that this kind of self-reinvention from the inside out can be brought about.
This year, the biggest breakthrough in my cognition must be in terms of wealth. He has deeply participated in a series of high-energy million sales, and witnessed the realization of high-order product traffic that shocked again and again.
Like a thunderbolt, it exploded in the barren world where I used to have to earn wealth only through labor. And those preconceived notions that have been instilled since birth have been completely shattered and destroyed. The new cognition is like the bamboo shoots after the spring rains, crazy and enthusiastic wild growth. This is no less than a comprehensive upgrade of wealth cognition, not only a change in the mentality from a worker to an entrepreneur, but also like opening a door to wealth creation.
A real, vibrant, challenging and exciting business world has unfolded before my eyes in this year. So much so that I am so glad that I have enough mental strength to be able to summon the courage to venture into this new world. To have the opportunity to discover the waves and magnificence that have never been seen in the past life!
Many people say that this year is a very difficult year for everyone, with a wave of unemployment, an economic situation that is not optimistic, and artificial intelligence is menacing. A grain of dust of the times, weighing on every individual, is a mountain. I also deeply feel that people in this era have unprecedented anxiety and confusion.
And this state is different from the turbulent era a hundred years ago, because of the existential anxiety caused by the war and reform, and more psychological and spiritual anxiety. This is a more far-reaching anxiety, because once a person's heart loses its strength, then it loses faith in life and loses hope for the future. Our heart is the ** of all our energy, only with a strong enough heart, can we change the environment we are in, only with a strong enough heart, can we guide ourselves to make the wisest choice, and support ourselves through the darkness before the dawn breaks.
Hundred Families Help Plan 2024, perhaps for everyone, the way to break the game is to improve their mental strength. Because when people have enough mental strength, they can regain control of their own life and take back their own time pricing power. This life is so short, every minute and second of your time should not be wasted, let alone let too many outside voices make decisions for yourself. What you have to do is ask your heart what exactly do you want?Then you continue to improve your mental strength, because you were born to create your own life!
In 2024, I also hope to use my life to influence more lives, for this reason, I have set up a mental strength improvement experience camp, if you want to improve your mental strength and change your life status, you can reply to 111 in the comment area.