The loneliness and helplessness of older people is thought-provoking. According to the United Nations Population Conference, as of 2021, there are about 7400 million people are aged 65 and above, and there are more than 2500 million elderly people. These older people play an important role in their families and societies, but they also face many challenges, such as illness, financial problems, and social isolation. And the status and role of older persons in society also need more attention and respect. For them, dignity and socialization are what they need most, not embarrassing moments of isolation and neglect.
Therefore, we should pay attention to and support the elderly and create a healthier, happier and more fulfilling living environment for them. When people move into old age, life often becomes lonely and boring. Uncle Wang is a mild-mannered and introverted old man, and his retirement life is like that of other elderly people, busy traveling, watching the news, and teasing his grandchildren. However, Uncle Wang found that these ways of passing time had lost their freshness, and he began to feel that life was boring. He was too reserved and not good at interacting with people, which made him feel even more lonely. He craves the warmth of intimacy, but he doesn't know how to find someone to lean on.
Another voice in his heart was criing - longing for intimacy and warmth, but his daughters were against him remarrying. Uncle Wang began to pay attention to the older women who lived alone, imagining that maybe they were as lonely as himself, but when he actually got closer, he didn't know what to say. Data shows that the number of elderly people in China is increasing year by year. In 2019, China's elderly population has reached 2500 million, nearly 18% of the total population. This means that more and more older people will face loneliness and loneliness. According to statistics, 80% of the elderly are in a state of loneliness.
At the same time, more and more elderly people are starting to use the Internet, and they are looking for connections and interactions with others through social software and communities. However, these modalities do not meet the need for intimacy and warmth in older adults. In fact, older people have different social needs than younger people. Older people need intimate, genuine relationships more than simple social activities. Studies have shown that older people are prone to psychological and physical problems, such as depression and illness, when they lack intimacy.
Therefore, for older adults, building intimate relationships not only increases their well-being but also boosts their mental and physical health. For seniors who crave intimacy, there are viable ways to find like-minded people with whom they are longing. First, seniors can join volunteer groups to connect with other volunteers through volunteering. Secondly, seniors can participate in community activities such as dancing, singing, tai chi, etc., which can not only exercise but also meet new people.
Thirdly, the elderly can find like-minded people through online social platforms, such as "Friends", "Elderly Friends**", etc. Finally, seniors can join senior clubs to share their experiences and interests with other seniors. In conclusion, older people need intimacy and warmth, which can improve their quality of life and physical health. Although older people face loneliness and loneliness, there are some feasible ways they can find like-minded people and build intimate relationships. Computer dependence in the elderly is a new problem in modern society.
As the elderly population increases, more and more elderly people will become addicted to computers due to loneliness and lack of socialization. They may browse some undesirable** or become addicted to games, which can lead to a lot of problems such as mental health issues, physical health issues, and social isolation. Data shows that the global elderly population is currently growing rapidly. By mid-century, 22% of the global population will be aged 60 and over. In China, the elderly population aged 65 and above accounts for 12 percent of the total population6%。This figure is expected to rise to 25% in the coming decades.
As the elderly population increases, more and more seniors will face loneliness and social isolation. In recent years, computer dependence among the elderly has become a new problem, which can lead to a range of health problems. According to the survey, 20% of the elderly use the computer for more than two hours a day. Prolonged computer use can cause damage to the eyes and can also lead to health problems such as cervical spondylosis, obesity, cardiovascular disease, etc. Additionally, older adults may lose contact with family and friends as a result of computer use, leading them to feel lonely and socially isolated.
In order to alleviate the loneliness and social isolation of the elderly, society should take measures such as encouraging the elderly to participate in social activities, providing more community services, and training the elderly in the use of new technologies. In addition, the elderly should use the computer properly, avoid over-dependence, and pay attention to protecting their eyes and physical health. With the help of society, the elderly can better enjoy their old age and not indulge in the world of computers. Sexual needs in older people are also normal physiological needs and become more acute with age.
However, due to the negative attitude of mainstream society towards the sexual needs of the elderly, the sexual needs of the elderly have been forced to be suppressed. This long-term repression can lead to various psychological problems in the elderly, so we should adopt an understanding and supportive attitude towards the sexual needs of the elderly. When we put aside our prejudices, we will find that the behavior of the elderly is not an active "choice", but an instinctive response to inner needs in loneliness and helplessness. Therefore, we should correctly recognize and treat the sexual needs of the elderly, give them due care and support, and make their later life more fulfilling and happy.
According to the survey, the proportion of elderly people in the country who are single has reached 20%, and the proportion of women exceeds that of men. In this case, we should strengthen social care for the elderly, provide them with more ways to communicate and entertain, so that they are no longer lonely and no longer lack warmth. At the same time, we should also strengthen sex education for the elderly, so that they understand that their sexual needs are normal, and at the same time, they should have correct cognition and rational behavior. Only in this way can we truly create a social environment full of love and respect for the elderly.
With the development of society and the intensification of the aging trend of population, the loneliness and inner cry of the elderly have become a serious social problem. Many elderly people feel lonely and helpless in their lives, longing for care and support from their children and society. While many of us can't really understand how they feel, we need to think differently and imagine whether we will crave intimacy and care as we grow old. According to data, more than 600 million older people around the world are currently facing loneliness and social isolation.
In China, more than half of the elderly feel lonely, and less than 25% have children who visit them weekly. This social phenomenon not only has an impact on the quality of life of the elderly, but also has a negative impact on their physical and mental health. However, the needs of older people are not complicated. All they crave is a little care and companionship in life. A study on the quality of life of older adults has shown that high-quality relationships have an important impact on the well-being and life satisfaction of older adults.
For example, intimate relationships between older people and their children and friends, as well as social activities such as community activities and volunteer work, can reduce loneliness and improve their quality of life. In order to solve the problem of loneliness among the elderly, countries have taken measures.
For example, the United Kingdom has launched the "Friends of the Neighbours" program, which encourages young people and community volunteers to accompany and help the elderly; Some states in the U.S. have implemented social welfare programs for seniors to provide social activities and support services for seniors; Japan has established a "silver network" that allows seniors to communicate and socialize with other seniors through the internet and mobile apps. In China, some nursing homes and communities have also begun to pay attention to the social needs of the elderly. They organize activities such as dances, choirs, and crafts so that seniors can interact and share with each other.
In addition, some volunteer organizations are also actively involved in the care of the elderly, providing them with companionship and assistance. In short, the inner cry of the elderly needs to be heeded and answered. Each of us will face the process of aging, and there will be times of loneliness and confusion. Therefore, we should look at the needs of the elderly with an understanding and supportive mindset and provide them with care and companionship. This is not only a respect and concern for them, but also a kind of relief and protection for our future selves. Let's work together to bring warmth and happiness to the elderly in their old age.