Under the influence of the baton of the college entrance examination, the main examination subjects are hot and the non-examination subjects are cold. This will inevitably lead to the narrowness of students' knowledge, the mechanical and rigid methods of learning Xi, and the simplification of intellectual development. Therefore, extracurricular tutoring should cooperate with classroom teaching, give full play to the main role of students, overcome students' passive learning Xi, and learn to take the initiative to raise and solve problems. Otherwise, relying only on a large number of super-strong Xi and excessive fatigue training is not conducive to the physical and mental health of young people, let alone the cultivation of students' comprehensive quality.
Finally, we should make the parents of students have a correct understanding of the role of extracurricular tutoring, and should not rely too much on it. Parents should first pay attention to their children's in-school learning Xi, fully communicate with the school and teachers, fully understand the child's learning Xi situation, rationally consider whether the child needs extracurricular tutoring, and then choose the appropriate extracurricular tutoring content and method. In this process, parents should first respect and care for students' interests and hobbies, and encourage them to give full play to their strengths. Doing so can promote students to learn Xi effectively, creatively complete the content of the Xi, and achieve all-round development. Otherwise, students will be bored with learning and will not be able to realize the original intention of tutoring.
Secondly, the cognitive structure of primary and secondary school students, especially those in the middle and lower grades of primary school, is not perfect, and some counseling content is not suitable for them, which is easy to produce negative migration. Finally, after determining the need for extracurricular tutoring, parents should conduct a full investigation of the institution to be selected and choose an institution with good social response. When choosing a tutor for college students, you should pay attention to the ability, experience and sense of responsibility of the tutor, and give full play to the subjective initiative as the student's parents, communicate with them frequently, and make timely adjustments in the tutoring process to achieve the best results.
Generally speaking, the existence of extracurricular paid tutoring is a new product of education adapting to the conditions of the market economy, and it will continue to exist for a long time before the fundamental change of China's education and teaching evaluation mechanism. However, primary and secondary education is basic education, and it is a critical period for students' development and education. Educational management bodies should complete all kinds of systems and regulations for extracurricular paid tutoring services, clarifying the scope, content, and fees of services. We should guide correct and reasonable extracurricular tutoring to become a useful supplement to the school curriculum, and an important measure to adapt to students' individual differences and teach students according to their aptitude, so that students can develop good learning habits and achieve the purpose XiXi of "teaching is not (need) to teach" as Mr. Ye Shengtao said.