If the child's view of money is incorrect, he only knows that money is a good thing, and thinks that he can have everything with money, so he will blindly worship money, be selfish, and seek profit. At the same time, if the child's view of money is not correct, he will not understand the truth that if you want to get money, you have to pay hard work. Let children establish a correct view of money is to let children grow up healthy and positive.
1 Let your child know how to make money.
Children in the rebellious period know that their food and clothing are bought with money, so if you want to help them establish a correct view of money, you must let them understand the function of money and the way to make money. For example, you can tell them about your job, tell them how much money you earned after working hard for a month, and what items you can buy. At the same time, you can also take your children directly to their place of work, so that they can see the hard work of adults.
2 Encourage your child to shop on their own.
Children in the rebellious period have grown up, you can give them some pocket money, or encourage them to use their own pocket money to go shopping, so that they can learn to use their pocket money reasonably. Sometimes it is also possible to let children participate in the consumption behavior of adults, for example, you can make a shopping list before shopping, and tell your child what they must buy and what they want to buy. In short, many of the trade-offs involve the rational arrangement of family expenses, and this kind of decision-making ability cultivated from an early age and the education received by the ears and eyes can not only give children a sense of joy and accomplishment in shopping, but also cultivate children's independence and judgment.
3 Teach your child to distinguish between "need" and "want."
Rebellious children have a concept of money and spending, and it is important to guide them to know what is necessary. For example, tell your child that what they "need" is the necessities, and that what they "want" is not necessarily the necessities. Be sure to let them know the difference between "wanting" and "needing" and encourage them to spend their money more wisely.
4 Let your child develop the Xi of saving.
Children in the rebellious period are already able to spend money independently, plus their parents will also give them some pocket money. Therefore, in the face of this kind of pocket money management, parents should tell their children to develop the Xi of saving in addition to the necessary expenses, and do not spend it recklessly.
Money is important to everyone, but it can't be anything centered around money. This is the first thing parents need to teach their children about money. Children in the rebellious period are easy to misunderstand the role of money, so parents should guide them to correctly understand money, use money reasonably, do not indulge in money, do not be a slave to money, and treat money in a "proper way and in moderation".