Hello, I'm Eun Xiaoxi.
Recently, a variety show [Love's Study Trip] was launched, and several pairs of CPs have attracted much attention. Especially the combination of 42-year-old Jin Sha and her 23-year-old boyfriend Sun Chengxiao.
Last year, Jinsha used Jiugongge food to expose her relationship: love is to cook a lot of meals together.
A year later, I finally pulled my boyfriend out to meet someone, and I wanted everyone to see that my boyfriend was really good.
He even bluntly said: "Good men are not circulating in the market." "Show the goodness of your boyfriend in your heart.
As a result, it has become the least favored love.
In fact, sibling love has never been new in the entertainment industry, and if you can find a boyfriend in your 40s who is more than ten years younger than yourself, if you are someone else, I am afraid that it will be full of "envy that my sister can experience Xiao Yaxuan's happiness".
Not to mention, a few months ago, 36-year-old Xiao Jingteng married a 50-year-old agent and won a blessing.
Then why did Jinsha hear "ridicule"?
Jin Sha's little milk dog, 23 years old this year, only graduated from the drama in June this year. After graduating from the play, he is tall and big, with a face that has not been bullied by life.
Jin Sha, a famous female star in the entertainment industry.
If you say that in the early years, Jinsha also had a masterpiece, she is a singer and an actress, but in recent years, Jinsha's biggest presence in the entertainment industry is: I want a man, I want to be in love, I want to find a man to marry.
Jinsha's daily routine is: When can I get married?
So, I finally have a boyfriend who is 19 years younger than me and is tall and handsome, who has been dating steadily for more than a year, and I originally wanted to show off to everyone and be ashamed.
To be honest, the two of them stand together, and it's no problem to say a word about their appearance and height.
Jin Sha said on the show that the two met because of a dinner.
Sun Chengxiao saw that he stayed for a full 2 minutes, and in order to chase her, he cooked dishes for her for more than 50 days, and each dish was not the same.
She danced with her hands and threw out a series of rhetorical devices, trying to convince everyone that this feeling, as she said, was "begged before the Buddha for 500 years before begging" precious.
Unexpectedly, when the show was broadcast, netizens discussed it moreHow long is the time of two minutes, and whether Sun went to New Oriental or Lan Xiang to study the technique.
Floating in the barrage:"This guy really understands that he doesn't want to go to work all day. "The realistic version of "Auntie, I don't want to work hard". ”
It is no wonder that netizens questioned Sun Chengxiao's impure motives, and his performance in the show was really ......It's hard to put into words.
The intimacy presented in front of the camera of the whole show is not like a coupleIt's very similar to the old mother's sense of déjà vu with a baby.
Usually, how to call people, how to speak, how to wipe your mouth when eating, and what to do have to be taught by Jinsha by hand.
Zhu Dan, who was on the opposite side, looked normal.
When I was asked by everyone to tell my love experience in person, I also looked like I couldn't say three words.
I saw him pretending to be stupid and stunned throughout the whole process, and when other guests asked him about the details of his relationship with Jin Sha, he would only hesitate, and then looked at Jin Sha helplessly.
What is the smoothest output of Sun Chengxiao?
He said: This is my girlfriend Jinsha, 43 years old this year. Jinsha: 42 years old.
Just ......I can't even remember my girlfriend's age wrong, aren't you familiar with each other?
He kept emphasizing Jinsha's age, saying that the year she became famous was the year I was born.
Regarding marriage, Jin Sha said that she had considered it and thought that the other party was quite suitable to be a husband;And the man's attitude is "I don't know anything about marriage, I have only seen it in **".
When Jin Sha expressed her desire for marriage, Sun Chengxiao sat next to her and let her thoughts wander into space.
Occasionally when he comes back to his senses, he will also confess to the camera:
I want to prove that I love her, and that a relationship that is not aimed at marriage is a hooligan.
Jin Sha listened to it more lovingly, but outsiders only thought that he was painting a big cake for his sister.
What's even more explosive is that Sun Chengxiao has been wearing the necklace given to her by her first girlfriend, knowing that Jin Sha is very mindful and unwilling to take it off.
Experts reminded that it seems that Sun Chengxiao needs some help from you in order to enter the world.
Subtext:This younger brother is not mature enough and looks unreliable.
Jin Sha immediately retorted in a cub manner: He is not usually like this, this time because he came to ...... unfamiliar environmentbalabala……
Uh, sister, are you sure he's 23 years old and not 3 years old?
Netizens commented: "I like little wolf dogs and small milk dogs, but I don't understand if I like stupid dogs." ”
It's okay if it's just that the couple gets along in a strange way, the two love each other and enjoy themselves, and outsiders don't have much to say. What really makes this relationship questioned by the outside world is their seemingly unequal relationship-She loves so much, he doesn't.
The difference of nineteen years is not nine years old, even in the entertainment industry that is open per capita, it can be called shocking, The younger brother who can accept this age difference is definitely not an ordinary younger brother,
For example, Sun Qian's ** is obviously like this.
Netizens ridiculed him for his poor acting skills, and wanted to set up an innocent and ignorant innocent young man, but he forgot to play the eyes that love her.
Jinsha's boyfriend pretended to be naïve" and even liked to mention the first hot search.
These performances,It's really easy to make people wonder if the little boyfriend really loves her.,The more pompous she behaves.、The more she wants people to believe that she is loved.,The more it seems that she is not confident in this relationship.。。
In short, this pair makes everyone look awkward, but only Jinsha herself, happy and satisfied, happy and unconscious.
In fact, to sum up, everyone's complaints about the relationship between Jinsha and his younger brother are nothing more than those two points1 He doesn't seem to love her that much
2 He wanted to take advantage of his sister
In fact, love has never been about age, and it is not an excuse for women to be strong and men to be weak. Although there is a gap in age, social status, and economic income in sibling love, the important thing is that both parties are "adults" on the basis of loving each other, and they can reach a consensus on future planning.
Many siblings die in the middle of their love, not because they don't have love for each other, not to mention their age and income, in the final analysis, they can't agree on their concepts, or they use love but don't care enough. I have fantasies about the future, but you don't care about it at all. Over time, when one party loses their sense of security and trust in the relationship, love disappears.
A truly beautiful "sister and brother love" needs a self-aware, independent and mature younger brother, in other words, two mature, self-complete people in love, the age difference is just a condiment, and whether the mind and soul match is important;After all, many people's age and mental maturity do not match.
Like He Youjun and Xi Mengyao, this pair is quite good, Xi Mengyao is 6 years older, but it can't be seen if it is well maintained;He Youjun has seen a lot, and there will be no spiritual generation gap between the six-year-old gap, but they are still a good match and can take care of each other.
And the age gap between Jinsha and Jinsha is too big to be classified into the category of sister and brother loveNo matter how brave love is, it will not be two generations of people(Personally, the maximum age difference I can accept is within 10 years.) It's the same with those fathers and daughters who love their grandchildren, don't talk about true love and intellectual sexuality. In terms of physiological structure and life experience, there is not much difference between men and women. Therefore, sister and brother love must also be equal. Otherwise, the difference in physical aging and the generation gap in thinking are enough to disturb the heart.
Moreover, a relationship can blossom and bear fruit, and it can never be paid by one person and enjoyed by the other. After the passion of mature sister and brother love, what really touches people is the sense of responsibility of the other half.
I'm sorry,At present, Sun Chengxiao has not seen such a responsibility.
But on the other hand,There is no need to use ordinary people's standards to measure the marriage and love relationship of female stars.
We ordinary people need to be cautious in love, because ordinary people don't have so many family backgrounds, and once they are deceived, they will instantly fall from the middle class to extreme poverty.
If it is said that Sun Chengxiao deliberately pretends to be naïve, in fact, Jinsha also has two faces.
Jinsha has always been very sober, whether it is career or love, she knows that her point is in the **, resolutely stay in her comfort zone, and never overstep.
I don't want companionship, but soul mates", she actually said the hearts of many older unmarried women.
If it's just improvised, getting married is very simple. However, if a girl really survives the age of 35, her family relationship is handled well, she has a career and friends, and she will not lower her standards to give in.
It's like Jinsha saidIf you lower your standards, you will betray your past self.
Jinsha is just a love brain, not a brain. She may not know her brother's mind, she can roll in Vanity Fair for so many years, and how many people are not human spirits?
I think Jinsha is the kind of woman who knows very well what she wants in a relationship. In my opinion, she is generally very satisfied with her relationship with Sun Chengxiao.
At least, Sun Chengxiao looks like Jin Sha's girlish fantasy from the outside.
There is no doubt that there is an instinctive attraction between men and women, and the other party is willing to saddle her up and provide her with strong emotional value.
That's enough for Jinsha.
At the end of the day,The milk dog boyfriend that the sisters chose in the end is actually nothing more than Sun Chengxiao:
A little handsome but not too handsome (top handsome guys are a scarce resource, and they can probably get out without being praised). Weaker than themselves, obedient, willing to provide emotional value, and most importantly, the initiative is in their own hands, and they are themselves.
Sun Chengxiao covets Jinsha's maturity and resources, and Jinsha has nothing to do with Sun Chengxiao?
She pictured his youth and strength, his youthful vitality, and the clarity of his little boy.
But if you watch a few more love dramas, you will know that falling in love with a little boy is much more fragrant than falling in love with a greasy middle-aged man.
Some people are happy to buy bags, and some people are happy to have a sweet relationship with young boys.
Even if his innocence is pretended, it is pleasing to the eye.
You need to know what is the purpose of a woman's financial independence and financial freedom?
It's just that you can choose the person you like without being bound by reality!
Netizens who ridicule people for finding a stupid son and falling in love at the age of menopause really don't know how cool it is for women to live freely.
Since whoever I fall in love with doesn't necessarily come to the end, then whoever makes me happy now I talk to whom.
Jinsha's Weibo probably means the same. She knows that fate is difficult to say, and she is willing to enjoy the moment.
My life screenwriter is myself, and I'm going to get my pen back. I want to run like a madman, I want to lie freely on the lawn, I want to walk hand in hand with my lover in the sun. ”
Everyone said that people in their forties are still so naïve, in fact, I chose naivety from the world, if I was still an innocent and sweet-eyed grandmother in my old age, it would be really cool. ”
Although many people have recently said that they want to have a career and not love, I still wish you to meet someone who dares to love with an inexplicable courage in your heart. ”
The central idea is still those four words:The old lady is willing, it's your business.
Isn't it too common for a male artist who has achieved fame and still maintains a young appearance to choose a fledgling pure woman, why can't you go to a woman?
It shows that society is still progressing, and more and more women have resources and advantages, and they can choose men in the same way that men choose women.
As for what you have to say, my brother is just trying to get your money and use you as a springboard!
Do you really think that the sister who got into this status is a vegetarian?The initiative is on the sister, what you can give and what you can't give, how much to give, how to give, it all depends on the performance of your younger brother, it depends on your ability.
The sisters are just trying to have fun with a big gamble.
If you don't want to be happy, what's the picture?Figure to get married?If it were to be knotted, wouldn't it have ended long ago?
If she's happy in the relationship and doesn't hurt anyone, why not?
Jin Sha also said that "there will be no love between two smart people, only a smart person can play with a fool to have love."
Feelings don't have to be too serious, good luck to draw a true love, bad luck to picture a really cool, pattern open!
Writer Lin Wanyang said that of course we ordinary women will be pragmatic, because when we open our eyes, we will spend a lot of money, and money comes from the first, which is a real problem that needs to be solved.
We don't feel happy just because a man can cook, say something to make us happy, and have some very innocent expressions (even if it's pretending), because we haven't solved the real problems of life.
Only those who have come here know that they can still insist on being themselves at an age, which shows how smooth real life is.
Jin Sha is a typical only daughter in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai, and a well-off Shanghai girl.
Although he "hates to marry", his parents do not urge him to get married.
pampering his original family and making a smooth debut on the road to fame gave Jinsha a rich soil for girlish fantasies.
In a sense,I never know the cruelty of the world and the complexity of human nature in my life, and it is not a kind of happiness.
Who doesn't want to be romantic all the time, what do you have to live so sober and mature, who doesn't want to get drunk occasionally, I also want to find a young handsome guy to coax me to love me and accompany me.
If conditions permit, it is good to be able to create a dream in reality and live in your own dream.
What's more, she has already tasted the sweetness of variety shows, how can she not know the best degree and controversy, that is, the traffic and opportunities that can be clearly marked.
Returning to the public eye and getting rid of the unknown silence is far more attractive for a female star who has experienced the ups and downs of the entertainment industry for more than 20 years than whether a sister-brother relationship is reliable or not.
You don't see how many hot searches there are on the entries of this show.
Now that the two of them are on a variety show together, whether they praise or scold, the topic traffic is full, and the money has arrived, why not do it?
Just like Sun Chengxiao, other classmates are still playing tricks in obscurity, playing small supporting roles, he has already been the first male in the short drama, and he has been on Mango's variety show, and he has won at the starting line.
Come to think of itThis is probably what Guo Qilin refers to when he said "Dad's happiness you can't imagine".
So, there really isn't a need to worry about Jinsha, before the game starts, it is already destined to be a well-informed and well-thought-out two-way rush (traffic). You don't understand the happiness of others.
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