Dear readers, have you ever been troubled by your parents' feudal ideology?Maybe you've had a similar experience, as netizens shared, some of your parents' ideas may make you feel helpless or confused. For example, the parents mentioned by netizen A bought too many ingredients at one time
Resulting in waste;Netizen B's in-laws have obvious prejudices against men and women;Netizen H's parents forcibly interfered with their children's career choice ......All kinds of feudal ideas and concepts seem to inadvertently affect our lives. These ideas may have been commonplace in my parents' generation
But in the current society, it has gradually turned against it. The ideology of the parents' generation really needs to keep pace with the times and be updated with the changes in society. For example, feudal ideologies such as male superiority and inferiority, patriarchal preference, and not being able to sit at the table should be thoroughly advanced with the progress of the times. Absolutely
We should also understand that the ideology of the parent generation is influenced by traditional culture and social environment, and it takes time and patience to change these concepts. But we can try to communicate with our parents so that they can understand the changes in society and our way of life, and gradually adjust their perceptions.
In this process, we also need to learn to respect our parents' views and communicate with them in an equal and open manner, rather than simply confronting them. After all, parents also have the best wishes for us, but because of the changing times, their practices may no longer keep up with the trend.
In general, the feudal ideology of our parents has caused us a lot of troubles, but we can resolve them through understanding, communication and patience. It is hoped that every family can accept contemporary changes while respecting traditions, so that family members can grow together in a harmonious and inclusive atmosphere.
It may take time and effort, but it's worth the effort. Because everyone should grow up healthy in an open and inclusive environment, and this is also the goal that every family should pursue. "One Man's Birthday, One Man's Silent Film" is an annual birthday,
are all important moments in life. However, sometimes we find that even on our birthday, there is one person who faces this special day alone. This person, perhaps because he is far away from home, is unable to spend time with his family
Maybe it's because life is too stressful to be with friends, or maybe it's because you have lost someone important and you can't celebrate anymore. This is a person's birthday, a person's silent film. In this story, our main character is called Little C. Little C is a creative talent
He lives alone in the city and has been fighting for his dreams. However, on this special day, Little C felt lonely and lost. He didn't want to make the day special, because no one was around him to share the joy with. Little C walked down the street, looking at the expressions of passers-by
He felt more and more helpless until he met an old man in a small alley. The old man looked kind, he looked at Little C, smiled and said, "Young man, your eyes are full of loneliness and helplessness, do you need someone to accompany you?".Little C's heart moved, and he nodded.
The old man held a bird in his hand, and he handed it to Little C and said, "You can talk to it, it will bring you joy and warmth." Little C took the birdie with a smile on his face. He walked down the street with the birds, chatting about his life and dreams. The bird can't speak, but it listens, it accompanies it, and it brings infinite warmth and care to Little C. In the company of the little bird, little C had a wonderful birthday. He understands that in this world, there will always be people or things who may not be your closest people, but they will bring you companionship and warmth when you are lonely. The silent film of the birthday stopped, and Little C got up again and walked back to his familiar life. However, he knew in his heart that he was no longer lonely, because he had the company of the birds, and the people who were by his side silently supporting him.