After 13 years of marriage, I was forced to become a depressed person by my lazy father-in-law and mother-in-lawThirteen years ago, I left the countryside with my wife and came to the city to start my ownStart a businessway. I work hard and strive to make life better for my familylifeI paid for my father-in-law and mother-in-law to build a new building and decorate the house, and even the paper they used was bought by me. However, over the years oursMarriageBut I was gradually worn out by the laziness and demands of my father-in-law and mother-in-law, and I suffered from depression. Under the torture of sleep disorders and stress accumulation, I often wanted to give up, but the love for my wife and children made me choose to endure. However, it was clear to me that I needed to change, that I needed to rediscover my life.
Married for 13 years, we have all come to the city from the countryside these years, and we have come through our own hard work and hard workStart a businessChangelife。We went from a monthly salary of seven or eight thousand at the beginning, to a later oneStart a businessE-commerce,lifeThe rhythm has completely changed. I lost my mother, and my father couldn't take care of the family, so in order to devote myself to work, we left the children in the care of my father-in-law and mother-in-law in the countryside. Although paid to them 4,000 yuan per monthlifeMy wife and I also gave them money privately, but my father-in-law and mother-in-law never shared the burden of the family for us. The mother-in-law even said that the father-in-law didn't take a shower for months, and they completely treated us as suchRetirementtools, only concerned with money.
Over the past few years, my father-in-law and mother-in-law have been constantly asking us for money under various pretexts. My wife's younger brother bought a house with our help, but he came again and again to borrow money. I have refused his requests many times, but my wife has privately transferred a large sum of money to him for the sake of the family and his future. For the sake of the father-in-law and mother-in-lawRetirementlifeI built them a new house, renovated the house, and bought it for themRetirementInsurance. However, when I went home to visit them, I found that they were living a lazy lifelifeThe room is messy, the child's clothes are dirty, the father-in-law does not take a bath, and the mother-in-law does not care about the child's food and clothing. They treat us like banks, concerned only with their own pleasures and demands. This kind of oppression and inconsiderate makes me feel very painful, coupled with the current business difficulties of the company, I often toss and turn at night and cannot sleep, anxiety and stress make me fall into depression.
After a period of ** and reflection, I gradually found myself. I decided to stop being shackled by my parents-in-law's laziness and demands, and find my own direction in life again. I want to protect myself, protect my family, and rediscover happiness and joy. I will go to find my dreams, pursue my career, and work together with my wife to give my children a great future.
Despite the many difficulties and setbacks I have encountered, I believe that as long as I keep working hard, I will always find a solution to the problem. I was determined to regain my faith and move towards a happy life. I hope that my wife and I can go through the hardships together and create a better future together.