My name is Xiaofang, I am 30 years old, I work in a bank, and I am unmarried.
My mother's name is Lin Rong, 50 years old, a retired employee of a company, but because she has a good figure, looks good, and can dress up, and looks more than ten years younger than her actual age, I followed my mother, and I am still a good kind of person in the unit.
My mother is very cheerful, popular, warm-hearted, and at our relatives and friends, my mother is always very likable, and everyone gives her a thumbs up.
My dad died of cancer when I was 15 years old, leaving me to live with my mom, and I had a good relationship with my mom when I was a child.
I told my mom that if she found her crush again, I would support her and tell her not to think about my feelings, she said"You don't have to worry about your mother's business, you are my backbone, you are good, your mother will be good!You are the greatest meaning of my life!"
And I, I seem to have seen through a lot of things, I'm always older than my actual age, it's not that I don't want to find a partner, I always feel that the object is too simple or too naïve, and it's not worthy of me, haha, that's it, am I a little floating?
As for my mother, she didn't urge me to find a boyfriend, she said whatever I wanted. I think it's because she has experienced it over the years, and she is relieved, women, not to get married for the sake of marriage, but for the sake of happiness.
Mom thinks that I am her daughter, and her daughter just needs to be happy and happy, and nothing else.
Actually, I once had a crush on a guy for three years.
It was a boy from my high school days, Zhang Lei, tall, good at Xi, good at basketball, and the captain of our basketball team that year.
Every time I played, I stood in the far corner and silently watched him. Looking at his sassy and heroic posture and skillful movements, everyone applauded him, and I was proud of him.
Despite this, I still didn't confess to him, and this pure affection was hidden in my heart until I graduated from high school.
Later, when I went to university and worked, the traces of these green years slowly faded.
One day, my mother told me that she was getting married.
I am very happy, happy for my mother, she can finally untie the knot, slowly find herself, and live the life she wants. I persuaded her like this many years ago, but she always said that she would wait until I grew up.
But when she told me who his boyfriend was, I was stunned, he was actually my high school classmate, and he was actually Zhang Lei. My mother actually wants to marry Zhang Lei, a high school classmate I have had a crush on for three years!
Mom is a fitness expert, she will go to the fitness center every day to exercise, it is here, she met Zhang Lei, Zhang Lei loves sports, because of participating in club activities, I have more contact with my mother, and I get in touch with a lot, so I have feelings.
Zhang Lei's parents were absent when she was very young, and later he was always taken by his grandfather, since he was a child, he was independent and strong, so that he was so good in school and Xi and in life.
I guess that he lacked maternal love since he was a child, and my mother is the kind of person who is very warm-hearted, such as bringing Zhang Lei breakfast or something, Zhang Lei has never felt his mother's care and love since he was a child, and slowly, their relationship was cultivated.
After graduating, Zhang Lei also joined a state-owned bank, and is currently working as a deputy in a first-class branch in our city, with a good salary.
He walked with my mother, and others would really think it was a couple, and my mother was dressed a little younger, and I really couldn't tell that she was fifty years old.
They finally settled on a relationship, and I couldn't accept it for a while.
Think about it, this is the male protagonist I have had a crush on for three years, if he wants to become my stepfather, in the future, I will not look up and look down, this kind of life will be difficult in the end, how should I face it?
However, my mother was so happy to prepare for the wedding, and I had never seen her so happy in all these years.
I have always encouraged her to find her own happiness, and now, she has found it, and she has finally found her true love after being widowed for me for so many years, how can I bear to interrupt her happiness?
So, I tried to accept it slowly, it was hard, but I restrained myself. I pretended to accept my mother's decision and blessed her, but my mother came up and hugged me, and I couldn't stop crying.
Don't worry, your mother will always love you, and you have grown up, and next, you also want your mother to plan your own life. "
Yes, Mom, bless you and wish you eternal happiness!"
On the day of the wedding, I hid my sadness and smiled and blessed them.
It was said that it was a wedding, but in fact, it was a meal between the two families, and the ceremony was very simple, but my mother was very content.
Zhang Lei bought a house and invited me to live in it together, but I refused, just right, I don't have to look at him all day, so it seems that it will be better.
Let's get used to it slowly, otherwise what should I do?
After another two years, my mother suddenly told me that she was pregnant, I was shocked, of course, I was most worried about her health, at such an old age, she actually gave birth to a child, is it not fatal?
I expressed my concerns, but my mother still insisted, saying that she was fine, that all the tests that should have been done had been done, and that she would be very careful.
I had a big fight with her, and I resolutely did not allow her to give birth to this child, and my mother ignored my quarrel and did not listen to the persuasion at all.
In desperation, I called my grandmother, and I asked her to help me persuade my mother, but it was useless for my grandmother to say it, and my mother also said that this child came because of fate, and we can't be so ruthless.
We can only let her stick to her own ideas, and then keep telling her to pay attention and pay attention.
Later, my mother gave birth, a younger brother, a big fat boy, and the whole family was very happy.
Looking at the picture of the family together, I seemed to understand something ...... again
It's a story about family, love, and growing up. Xiaofang's mother experienced the pain of losing her husband, raised her daughter alone, and finally found her own happiness.
Xiaofang also gradually matured in the process and learned to accept and bless. In Xiaofang's heart, Zhang Lei was a high school classmate she had a crush on for three years, and she suddenly wanted to become her stepfather, which she felt unacceptable.
However, she understands that her mother has been widowed for her all these years, and now that she has found true love, she does not want to interrupt her mother's happiness. At the wedding, Xiao Fang held back her sadness and blessed her mother with a smile.
Later, when her mother suddenly told her that she was pregnant, Xiaofang was shocked and worried again. However, she knew that she could not change her mother's decision, so she could only tell her to stay safe.
In the end, Xiao Fang looked at the picture of the family together and seemed to understand something.
She realized that the happiness and integrity of the family was more important than the emotions of the individual. She has learned to accept and bless while also being happy about her growth. This story teaches us that family is the most important thing and that we should cherish and love it. At the same time, we should also learn to accept and bless the happiness of others, which is part of growing up.