"Examples" cited
A certain celebrity (Weibo Top Ten Influential Education V) has a Weibo, summarizing a few points: 1) Dr. Zhang Chaoyang recently posted a **, and after reading it, I feel that I have ushered in a new life;Zhang is talking about the research results of brain science, the human brain can be reshaped and continued to develop, its important concepts are called firing and wiring, which means that the old neurons can slowly disappear, as long as you no longer fire about the past experience, the cranial nerves can not maintain continuous wire, you will forget about it, and then you can be completely unaffected by the past events. 2) Freud has been scientifically proven wrong, Freud's set of methods, continuous analysis of the family of origin, will make the brain continue to firing, continue to wiring the old neuronal architecture of the past, will make you indulge in the trauma of the past, unable to get out of it, unable to start a new life. 3) The best way to deal with trauma is to no excuse, mention less, **, build more new lifestyles and Xi, and start a new life more.
There were hundreds of comments on the Weibo, a few dissenting and most agreeing, some of whom expressed their excitement at being empowered and receiving the gospel.
is mapped, and questions worth pondering.
1) "Reshaping the brain" and "psychoanalysis" seem to be narrow roads
Obviously, "examples" reflect a therapeutic theme of how to get rid of "indulging in traumatic memories". The two opposing views presented in the theme can be called: the success theory of reshaping the brain, and Freud's psychoanalysis.
Obviously, the "case" unconsciously creates a picture that I don't know what to call it, or a strange phenomenon: in the face of a patient who asks for help, the "successful scholar" and the "Freud" meet in a narrow wayIn the end, the success theory of reshaping the brain triumphed over Freud's psychoanalytic theory.
2) The theory of success is "complete victory", reflecting the fast food pursuit of people to get rid of illness.
I don't want to question the development of brain science, just as I don't want to question a i beyond human intelligence, so I am not curious about what Zhang Chaoyang said, I am curious and ridiculous about the words of Feudian psychoanalysis while advocating Zhang Chaoyang's brain research.
Reshaping the brain" has excited so many people, and perhaps it predicts that it will "completely change bad memories". This prophecy symbolizes a kind of magic to get rid of the disease, and it is right in front of the narcissistic fantasy of absolute safety and power in the subconscious of countless people. You can't help but admit how much people really yearn for this kind of "no more pain" ** technique in order to be reborn. This is very much in line with the mentality of the Chinese people under our reappearance and utilitarian culture. You can't help but admit that psychoanalysis, which focuses on spiritual exploration but is slow to act, is helpless and helpless in the face of people's desperate need for "success".
3) The question is, what is the premise of "traumatic memory"?
The core idea of reshaping the brain or success theory: thinking more and doing more positive things will slowly turn the bad self of the past into a new good self.
Such correct nonsense, people in life not only understand, but also do it. Who hasn't had trauma in the past, and who hasn't slowly achieved themselves in the process of moving forward with a heavy load?Those who are really "addicted to traumatic memories" are actually some psychological patients who can no longer bear the weight, or people who are in a major real-life predicament.
So the key to success is not reached: how to no excuse, less mention, less past trauma?For example, how do you make an athlete with an ankle injury forget about the pain and set a hurdle record?How to make a depressed teenager less pessimistic and more committed to Xi and future?It seems that those who are indulging in pain only need encouragement, and do not understand the importance of letting go of the past and living in the present.
Obviously, success theory focuses on behavioral outcomes and concerns about whether you fly high or notPsychoanalysis focuses on psychological reality and cares about how you are doing
However, the "example" reflects the serious misunderstanding of many people's essence points, and even obvious resentment, such as "I really think that people who blame everything on their original family are wasteful!".Freud's set is like a ghost hitting the wall." Therefore, it is necessary to say a few more words about psychoanalysis.
First of all, Jingfen is not simply digging the past for no reason, digging ancestral graves or something. The client has compulsively repeated symptoms, so the subconscious things related to the symptoms need to be explored, they need to be conscious, and then they need to reintegrate their personality, raise awareness, and so on. In addition, psychoanalysis has undergone more than 100 years of expansive research, and has developed dozens of new psychoanalytic techniques such as self-relation, object-relation, existential humanism, postmodernism, etc., and Freud's classic refinement is only one of them, and the psychoanalysis he founded has always been the cornerstone of modern neo-psychoanalysis and psychological theory.
4) Is there a way out of "indulging in trauma", and where?
Although this question is a bit nonsense, because depending on the opinions, doesn't the reshaping of the brain give an exciting answer? But this question is still worth considering, especially the one we should think about: Who is the initiator of "you indulge in trauma"?Who is the driving force behind "you get out of addiction" and drive towards the road to happiness?
The ultimate task of humanity is two-fold, one is the pursuit of nobility and ideals, and the other is to investigate the culprits that cause our suffering. The latter is collectively referred to as the ** one. Fortunately, regardless of the field of study, people are trying to work tirelessly towards the ultimate goal. Unfortunately, it is inevitable that we always think that we have reached the truth in our own limitations.
For depression and anxiety, the theory of success is nothing more than the day when "the day does not understand the darkness of the night", and the song of sunshine, happiness and motivation is constantly sung. If you really want to get out of the quagmire of pain, you must foretell the dragon, know the context, and allow yourself to cry first and then be strong. However, this is back to the psychoanalytic path of knowing who I am and who I am, or the way of introspection.
For anyone, to be freed from the pain of indulging in trauma is not to forget the sins of the wounds suffered, but to face, acknowledge and accept the past self.