As a parent of a student, it was not easy to send the beast into primary school, I thought that primary school was stricter than kindergarten, and all teachers were experienced in battles, what kind of children had not seen, educating children, always more professional than parents, and the so-called professional things were handed over to professional people to do.
I didn't wait to breathe a sigh of relief, and I found that after several assessments, the child missed the question, wrote the answer correctly, and answered the wrong position of the low-level error, which was simply infuriating.
It is suitable for this father to preview in advance, and Xiao An has basically mastered the learning content of this semester, but this missed question is simply more headache than not being able to do it.
I can't do it, it's just two reasons, one is that I really haven't learned it, and I can't teach it if I can't do it.
The other is that the examination is not strict, and the key words and sentences are not well understood, and I don't know what the requirements of the topic are.
The reason for the former is nothing more than not listening carefully in class, through the parents to accompany the reading, you can basically find out what the children will not do, at this time you only need to explain, and then record the questions in the wrong question book, every three or five to review, basically can prevent the child will not do it at all.
The latter is to improve the child's comprehension ability, parents think that it is very simple logic, such as and, quotient, poor or which is more, which is less, these keywords for parents, have been often encountered in life, there is no incomprehensible situation.
But it is completely different for children, they have no life experience, you and he said and, business and other words, they are completely confused, at this time, it is necessary to replace the words that children can not understand for the words often used in children's life and learning, and the meaning of natural is the addition of several numbers, of course, this is just the simplest vocabulary conversion, playing a role in throwing bricks and stones.
From not going to the meeting, and then to being familiar with the different changes of the same type of questions, parents need to be accompanied all the time, find and solve problems in time, especially mathematics, one link after another, the foundation is not firm, and the ground is shaking.
Mathematics and Chinese in the first grade are basically simple, but in the first and second grades, the focus is not on exams, but on the cultivation of learning attitudes and learning methods.
The so-called lack of concentration is ultimately due to the incorrect attitude towards learning.
The attitude towards learning is not only a problem for children, but also the attitude of parents.
If parents don't care about their children's academic performance, the children themselves will naturally not pay attention to it.
People who can read this article believe that they are all people who care about their children, but sometimes, parents themselves don't realize that they don't care as much as they say.
To cultivate children, we must first start from cultivating ourselves.
This is not a slogan, how many parents never ask their children about their homework, or just simply check it, and then see that the child can't do it, just open his mouth, it won't be so simple, stupid, and then brush and brush to make the question, think it's very smart and say, this, that, it's not okay.
God, children are children because they don't have the logic at all, a blank space, you say one plus one equals two, they accept it, they just execute it mechanically, they don't understand the logic of equals two.
In fact, most parents don't understand the logic, but the teacher teaches like this, and everyone learns like this.
If you don't understand the underlying logic, it is not a big problem in the lower grades, but in the upper grades, it will inevitably have serious consequences.
Back to the issue of attention deficits.
In the case of excluding not being able to do it, reviewing the wrong question, still doing the wrong question, this can only be attributed to lack of concentration, I rarely say careless, because carelessness is a very neutral word, who has not been careless?However, life is a lot of exams, and I have only heard of the lack of ability in the face of life's big exams, but I have rarely heard of failure due to carelessness.
Lack of concentration lies in the child's attitude to the exam, why is the child's attitude problematic?
Quite simply, they don't know what it means to study, and for them, they may have a vague understanding that test scores are important, but that is important, in fact, is only for parents, themselves, and they don't know what the test means
But can parents not be clear?
Children are inattentive, and parents need to let their children understand why they are learning
It's a pity to say that most people are actually in the learning stage, not because of their own future, but only because their parents ask them to learn, their teachers ask them to learn, or even just because they are not willing to fall behind others. But they didn't really learn for themselves.
Without self-driven learning, you can't go long.
Lack of concentration, on the surface, is just a certain habit of children, but deep digging is that children do not know why they are learning.
Why do you want to learn?It is recommended that parents take their children to work together, so that children can see the boring screwing, the construction site life that is too tired to move, and the cold wind of getting up in the middle of the night to work the night shift.
Then ask him, are you willing to become a screw because of carelessness?
Parents have seen the consequences of poor grades. Then try your best to make the child learn.
Please, take the results of what you have seen and bring your children to experience.
This is more effective than studying 10,000 sentences.