In family education, strict mothers and loving fathers and strict fathers and mothers have always been topics of great concern. Recently, Professor Li Meijin gave her opinion, she believes that "strict mothers and loving fathers" are more beneficial to children's growth.
First of all, Professor Li believes that mothers should not be too loving when educating their children, because this will make them lose their rules and principles. A good mother should be firm and decisive, correct the child's wrong behavior in time, and give the child enough love and care, so that the child can feel the warmth and support of the family.
Secondly, fathers should not be too strict in family education. Overly harsh fatherhood can undermine a child's self-confidence and self-esteem, making the child feel oppressed and unsafe. A good father should be a combination of loving and rational, able to give his children enough support and encouragement, and at the same time be able to guide their children to establish correct values and outlook on life.
So, how to be a "strict mother and loving father"? First of all, fathers should play a loving role in family education, build a close relationship with their children, and give them advice and support. At the same time, it is also necessary to be gentle and delicate, pay attention to the emotional needs of children, and communicate and communicate effectively with children.
Secondly, mothers should play a strict role in education, correct their children's wrong behaviors in a timely manner, and at the same time give their children enough love and care. The mother's attitude and requirements should be strict, but it is not to treat the child in a rough way, but to make the child understand the importance of principles and rules.
Finally, the ideal model of family education is "strict and benevolent". Parents should share the responsibility of education and cooperate with each other so that children can feel the warmth and support of the family. At the same time, it is also necessary to carry out targeted education according to the child's personality and needs, so that the child can receive comprehensive attention and support in the process of growth.