In recent years, the contradictions caused by the bride price in the society can be said to be countless, such as the example I want to tell you today, on the one hand, the bride is beautiful and moving, smiling, on the other hand, the groom and his family are expressionless, such two expressions can be said to form a sharp contrast, it is understood that in order to get married, the groom's family paid a bride price of 300,000 yuan, therefore, in this wedding, the two sides showed two completely different expressions, for such a phenomenon, I will talk about my personal views through ten aspects。
First, we need to understand the meaning of the bride price. A bride price is a traditional Xi that is given by a man as a gift to show his gratitude and respect for the woman's family. However, with the development of society, the meaning of bride price is gradually changing. Some believe that the bride price is a form of respect and gratitude to the woman, while others believe that the bride price is a "purchase" of the woman, i.e., the woman is seen as a commodity. This change in concept has also led to the continuous increase in the amount of bride price, which has led to some social contradictions.
Second, we should recognize the contradictory nature of the bride price. In some areas, the constant increase in bride price has become an unhealthy competition. Some families will show their status and wealth by asking for a high bride price, while others will show their nobility and independence by rejecting the exorbitant bride price. This kind of competition will not only lead to the waste of social resources, but also cause contradictions and conflicts between some families.
Third, how should we resolve the contradiction between the bride price?First, we need to change the way we think about bride price. We should think of the bride price as a way to show gratitude and respect, not as a business transaction. Second, we need to strengthen the supervision and management of the bride price. Regulations and policies can be introduced to limit the amount of the bride price, and penalties for violations can also be strengthened. Finally, we need to raise public awareness and quality. We should strengthen education and publicity to the public, so that everyone understands the meaning and role of the bride price, and at the same time, let everyone understand the harm and consequences of the high bride price.
Fourth, we need to recognize the nature of marriage. Marriage is a union of love, not a business transaction. We should respect each other's choices and freedoms, rather than treating marriage as a business transaction. Only in this way can we truly understand the meaning and value of marriage.
Fifth, we need to pay more attention to family education. Family education is an important way to cultivate children's values and moral values. We should strengthen the investment and management of family education, so that children can understand the correct values and moral concepts, so as to reduce the occurrence of conflicts caused by the bride price.
Sixth, we need to improve the social environment. The social environment is one of the important factors that affect people's behavior. **Relevant policies and regulations can be introduced to improve the social environment, such as strengthening the supervision and management of commercial transactions, strengthening penalties for violations, etc. Only by improving the social environment can we effectively solve the problem of the contradiction of bride price.
Seventh, we need to promote cultural exchange and understanding. People from different regions and cultural backgrounds will have different views and ways of dealing with bride price. Therefore, we need to promote communication and understanding between people from different regions and cultural backgrounds, so that they can understand each other's culture and Xi, so as to reduce the occurrence of conflicts due to cultural differences.
Eighth, we need to raise awareness of women's status and rights. In some regions, women's awareness of their status and rights is still weak. Therefore, we need to strengthen the publicity and education of women's status and rights awareness, so that women can understand their rights and status, so as to reduce the occurrence of conflicts caused by bride price.
Ninth, we need to strengthen the importance and management of marriage. Marriage is a long-term commitment and responsibility that requires both partners to work together. **Relevant policies and regulations can be introduced to strengthen the management and service of marriage, such as strengthening the management and service of marriage registration, strengthening publicity and education of marriage and family, etc. Only by strengthening the importance and management of marriage can we effectively solve the problem of bride price contradictions.
Tenth, finally, we need to recognize the importance of social progress and development. Social progress and development are the key to solving various social problems. Only by promoting social progress and development can we truly solve the problem of the contradiction of bride price and other social problems, so as to make our lives better and happier