In the TV series "Parents' Love", the scene of An Jie and Ge Meixia drinking coffee together appears three times.
It's as intoxicating as climbing the stairs to enjoy the blue sea and smoke from the smoke.
Years later, when several families returned to the island by boat, Ouyang Yi was very excited. In stark contrast to him is Ge Meixia, who insisted that she did not want to go back, but was exposed by Dehua: "You are not remembering, but holding grudges".
Ge Meixia didn't want to go back to her mother's house, which is understandable, because she was Yuba's daughter, so the fishermen around her didn't like her. But she wants to be the boss because she has a good husband. She is Xi to living with her tail between her legs, and has had days of picking up dung, and the past is unreminiscent.
In fact, Ouyang Yi did not have a particularly good life in the past days, and was even bullied by local residents. But when people realized his kindness, they began to care for and protect him more.
Ge Meixia often made mistakes when teaching on the island, and the students lacked respect for her, and only An Jie regarded her as a close friend.
Surprisingly, Ge Meixia does not have any nostalgia, and the coffee time she spent with An Jie, from this point of view, Ge Meixia shows a plastic sisterhood.
An Jie chose coffee as a drink, while Ge Meixia chose the flavor of a good day.
When Ge Meixia finally had the opportunity to invite An Jie to have coffee, she kept muttering that she had hoped to live such a life, adding: "It's a little late now, but at least it's already started."
When Ge Meixia first tried to wear An Jie's dress, she did have such an idea, but now frankly, she didn't get any blessings, she just felt as if she had become a reflection of others, which was really pitiful.
I still vividly remember An Jie taking an ordinary cup for Zhang Guiying, but was touched by her instincts and smiled from ear to ear, although An Jie likes to pout, her straightforwardness and cuteness are unforgettable.
Don't you think Ge Meixia's courtyard gives people a sense of déjà vu?A variety of vegetables and plants were planted to give a cheerful feeling, flowers and snacks were placed on the table, and the two of them began to enjoy coffee.
This is exactly the same setup as when I enjoyed coffee at Anjie's house before.
Fortunately, in An Jie's later years, he transformed into a female version of Jiang Defu with a powerful aura, otherwise he may feel fear and disappointment when he thinks about it carefully, and the friendship that he originally wanted to maintain may become a blind comparison.
From the perspective of an audience, Ge Meixia once sent mackerel to An Jie, and she said to herself in front of the potted plants in the yard: "Such a beautiful day is really different."
In addition, she also brought Teacher Xia to An Jie's home, which is related to the yard.
Ge Meixia and An Jie met by chance at the intersection, and she took the initiative to show them the unique courtyard design of An Jie's house, emphasizing its neat and elegant features.
Full of scheming, but seemingly careless, Mr. Xia successfully fell into a trap and became an uninvited person, which made An Jie feel very embarrassed. It can be seen that Ge Meixia is quick thinking, a master in the love field, and very concerned about her own affairs.
She had already been fully prepared for how to face An Jie, frankly expressed her love for Teacher Xia, and hoped that An Jie could support her, so that Teacher Xia could see her drinking coffee and be impressed by her.
Ge Meixia hadn't admitted it in the office that morning, but she started preparing for it in the afternoon, and she really knew how to seize the opportunity.
Despite this, she didn't take the friendship to heart, because An Jie had deliberately avoided Mr. Xia, and when he politely refused to become a model, Ge Meixia was on the scene. "I know he's good to me and I like him too!Ge Meixia's actions exposed An Jie's untruths, but instead increased her scores.
Parental Love is a work worth watching. Ge Meixia's emotional line is very extensive, but there are relatively few scenes. All things considered, after careful consideration, we can understand the deep relationship between her and Wang Zhenbiao, and why Wang Zhenbiao chose An Jie as the introducer
Regarding Teacher Xia's affairs, Ge Meixia has made full preparations, and she will never miss an opportunity.
When Lao Ding was still single, Zhang Guiying told him that at least two or three people tried to take Lao Ding, and Teacher Ge was one of them.
Clearly, Ge Meixia is always inclined to take the initiative. Therefore, the relationship between her and Wang Zhenbiao is also determined by herself.
If Zhang Guiying is still alive, the relationship between the two will become better, which is almost impossible. Because they only have the opportunity to get married after they get married. Wang Zhenbiao and Lao Ding have similarities in that although they both married wives who behaved abusively, their wives were senior leaders in the family and were able to control their male partners well.
In that particular era and professional environment, they would not have been insecured. The relationship between them is also not as complicated as we think. Wang Zhenbiao left the island after being promoted, and Ge Meixia's hatred for him gradually diminished until Zhang Guiying's death, and it is understandable that she was able to rationally seize this opportunity.
After applying **, Ge Meixia said coquettishly to Wang Zhenbiao: "You have forgotten how you pursued me in the first place." This sentence is full of information, if Wang Zhenbiao can pursue it harder, and their previous relationship will also get better, then Wang Zhenbiao may have more nostalgia for the past relationship and slow down a little. "I don't like the way he does, he's in a hurry, he's always so red. Ge Meixia is so anxious now, it is likely that she is working hard herself.
No wonder Jiang Defu really hopes that Ge Meixia can get married as soon as possible, so that she will not show up easily in front of Lao Ding. "I don't want to marry, but I want to marry him!Ge Meixia saw that Dehuadu was already a military family member at that time, and her heart must have been full of dissatisfaction. Ge Meixia chose Wang Zhenbiao as her pawn, a strategy that she silently endured humiliation, and she firmly believed that this strategy would determine victory or defeat.
Why was Ge Meixia able to solve Wang Zhenbiao's problem so quickly?Help him develop a long-term development plan. Ge Meixia only needs two methods: pay attention to his current situation;I am deeply envious of Jiang Defu and An Jie.
Whether Ge Meixia can let go of her past grievances and give Wang Zhenbiao warmth at a critical moment, recalling that he followed his wife's advice and dissolved the relationship between Teacher Ge and Lao Ding, in addition to feeling indebted to her, he also began to think that maybe Ge Meixia's destined person was himself.
Wang Zhenbiao and Ge Meixia belong to the same type of people, their personalities are both hypocritical and complex, and their methods are endless. Whenever Ge Meixia mentioned her envy for An Jie, she would drive Wang Zhenbiao even more strongly to decide to marry her.
For a while, Wang Zhenbiao witnessed the intimate interaction between Jiang Defu and An Jie on the way home, which made his eyes glow with a touch of envy.
Subsequently, Wang Zhenbiao, Wang Haiyang and Ge Meixia's family held a banquet to entertain Yafei. Ge Meixia controlled the whole situation with her skillful methods, but Wang Zhenbiao looked a little nervous. From his expression of reverence for Ge Meixia, we can infer how he was captured by Ge Meixia in the first place.
In addition, judging from the content of this dinner, Ge Meixia has a good relationship with her plastic friend, and Yafei said that this is the first time she has had dinner at their house, which also shows that she did not invite An Jie to dinner. An Jie's cooking skills are not stellar, and when he sees the sumptuous dishes made by Ge Meixia, he feels a little embarrassed and realizes that she has won Yafei's heart.
When I saw Anjie walk into her home again, she looked very nervous at the door, indicating that Anjie is usually rarely seen here. She said that he is now a retired old man and that she can talk to him when she retires. After Ge Meixia retired, she and Wang Zhenbiao were inseparable, and the demand for An Jie's friend has been greatly reduced.
In the same way, if you get Yafi from her, you can get her in reverse. Back then, she informed An Jie and his wife through an introducer that they were about to get married. "That's what I mean!Wang Zhenbiao's smile during the meal was thought-provoking, and it seemed that he admired Ge Meixia's intentions very much, because this method was indeed very effective.
From the perspective of an ordinary person, the advice of friends can only be used as a reference, and considering that she is about to enter the palace of marriage, there is no need to worry too much about the occurrence of this incident.
From Ge Meixia's point of view, this has become a difficult hurdle that must be overcome.
Although she initially developed a crush on Wang Zhenbiao, when the incident was spread, she became an old girl and had a negative impact on her. The most crucial point is that if An Jie despises her because of this, then all the effort she has put in will become worthless. She wants to prove herself in front of him and prove that she is capable of being a man. Ge Meixia tried her best, just hoping to stand on the same starting line as An Jie, and maybe even surpass him, but she must not lose An Jie, otherwise she will not be able to find a suitable partner and can only live in front of others.
Ge Meixia spent half her life tracing An Jie's life trajectory, and she was worried that An Jie might not be willing to learn Xi her scheming for the rest of her life. She wanted to make her life perfect, but she would never understand that she would never succeed in getting close to him. She tried her best to become An Jie, but she forgot the fact that she was not An Jie.
Logically, her behavior is so narrow that it is not suitable to be friends.
Although time passed, her palpable jealousy remained the same.
An Jie's attitude towards life became more and more generous, and when he thought clearly, his mood gradually relaxed. The more he thought about this deep friendship, the more uncomfortable he felt, and he could only choose to look at it a little more lightly while maintaining its beauty.
For example, Ge Meixia suggested that Wang Zhenbiao ask An Jie to be her recommender, which is very similar to how she consulted An Jie when discussing marriage with Lao Ding. In this day and age, people have more and more ways to communicate. The only difference between them is from the harmony between the eyebrows to the confusion.
Ge Meixia regards marriage as a lifesaver in her life, but how could she be willing to follow An Jie's advice?Everything she did was just to earn Anjie's respect and understanding.
There is always something irritating about those who are sympathetic, and through the following four behaviors, you can get an insight into this naïve, hypocritical Ge Meixia:
First of all, Ge Meixia had a relationship with Wang Zhenbiao, but she didn't know anything about An Jie.
Jiang Defu wanted to promote the relationship between Wang Zhenbiao and Ge Meixia, the purpose was for the good of Dehua, but An Jie had not taken this into account, he had been concerned about Ge Meixia's feelings, because he had been tortured by Wang Zhenbiao very painfully.
An Jie invited Ge Meixia to the beach for a conversation, his tone seemed very calm, and he just hoped that Ge Meixia could stay calm. Unexpectedly, she readily agreed, saying the words "listen to you, just him", which instead aroused An Jie's suspicions, making him suspect that she might just tell him like this.
Anjie is very resourceful and quickly realizes that she has been deceived.
She was relieved that she had succeeded in a difficult task and felt that there was no need to continue walking. However, when she said that she wanted to go back, Ge Meixia suddenly turned around and left, this behavior seemed very abnormal, as if Ge Meixia had completed her task, and the whole person seemed relaxed.
If this is not the case, just like the clueless attitude shown by Ge Meixia, the picture is likely to be her thinking alone, her mood is even more anxious than An Jie, and she is really sad, Ge Meixia's performance has a problem.
When An Jie invited her, her impatient attitude also revealed her love relationship.
Secondly, Lao Ding changed the locks, which made Dehua very angry and cry loudly, while Ge Meixia was reluctant to leave just to see a joke.
Ge Meixia sent mackerel to An Jie, and she always carried a gun and a stick when she spoke. "You can go to the commander's house and knock on the door, give you mackerel and stammer, and if it's not fresh, you can send it here. Although the relationship with his friends is harmonious, it doesn't sound so pleasant compared to the way Teckwah deals directly with people.
Dehua opened his mouth and said: "You are still a good person, you are about to enter the palace of marriage with Lao Ding, and I did not instigate him to change the key behind his back." Dehua's words are straightforward and outspoken, which makes people feel both funny and helpless.
Ge Meixia's eyes are not sharp, and after she finished delivering the fish, An Jie returned the basket to her, and she also mentioned Dehua's dissatisfaction, saying that she could leave.
When Dehua was drowning in tears, she slowly walked in, which made An Jie speechless, and the scene was really embarrassing.
Luckily, Dehua was just joking, and An Jie finally controlled his impatience. An Jie jokingly said: "If you are not afraid of not knowing the goods, you are afraid of comparing goods." Ge Meixia was a little unhappy, she asked, "What kind of goods am I?" It was a second chance to leave, but she decided to stay anyway.
Since she didn't want to meet Lao Ding, An Jie found a reason to leave after giving Lao Ding a **, but she didn't leave for the third time.
She didn't leave early or late, but chose to leave when Lao Ding was about to arrive, which is really a calculation of time. Even Dehua couldn't bear it anymore, blaming her for not mentioning anything before, why she suddenly said something now.
Although their relationship has ended, they still remember to leave a good image of Lao Ding. When they met at the door, Ge Meixia looked nervous and angry, and her mood changed rapidly, while Lao Ding's face was full of guilt and affection.
Obviously, Jiang Defu's view of Ge Meixia is accurate.
His judgment of people is very accurate, he said: "An Jie is indeed a little bad-tempered, but there is no bad Xi", this sentence is very accurate.
The third point is that Mr. Xia's many words to An Jie and Ge Meixia are displeased.
Although Ge Meixia has a crush on Teacher Xia, An Jie reminds her that Teacher Xia is actually a married person. Ge Meixia did the opposite, pierced the hidden facts, and made it clear that she noticed that Teacher Xia had a good impression of An Jie, but she was not interested in her.
An Jie politely refused, in order to avoid arousing unnecessary suspicion, but she was willing to become a spreader of rumors in order to satisfy her own selfish desires. "I mean, it's not right for you to strip naked. "What could be harsher than taking it off completely" Comparable to Dehua's speaking skills, Dehua even knew to use a questioning tone, and knew that it was false.
Ge Meixia embarrassed An Jie in front of everyone, she exaggerated, claiming that dedication to art is worthy of respect, isn't this a big event that happened for entertainment.
Fortunately, Jiang Defu made a decisive decision and did not show a friendly expression to Teacher Xia, if they were allowed to continue drinking coffee and chatting, Teacher Xia would really be in trouble. When An Jie meets a cunning and sinister girlfriend like Ge Meixia, he will finally understand her husband's true intentions. She is a very honest person, but also a very sensitive woman. It's not about face, it's about protecting her purity.
Fourth, the relationship between Flaunting and Yafei is like that of mother and daughter, which makes An Jie very angry.
An Jie loves Ya Fei like a treasure, and Ya Fei is angry with An Jie like her own mother.
When Ge Meixia celebrates her 66th birthday, Yafei chooses to give her mother-in-law a knife of meat. It was supposed to be given by her biological mother, but Yafei called ** to ask her mother, wondering how much the knife was"Mom, do you know if I've eaten too much?An Jie expressed her dissatisfaction with "a knife is a knife", but when she bought more than 20 catties of meat, Ge Meixia shared it with her very sincerely.
If Ge Meixia is really humane, she can express it with words like "Yafei is filial to us, I only know that your 66 is also made up for a knife of meat", but she uses words like "Our family can't eat, and you have a lot of family". She said, my "meat" is her "meat".She said that people eat meat and they eat soup, how can they not compare?seized the opportunity to show off without scruples, and her relationship with Yafei was closer than that between Yafei and An Jie.
An Jie's losses are often reflected in her words, her heart is difficult to hide, not easy to show, only by carefully reading certain fragments, she can really understand, although she may have a little temper, but what she says is true.
An Jie's appearance gives people a sense of aggressiveness, but his heart is soft and cute.
No matter how Ge Meixia takes the advantage, she can't be An Jie, she lacks kindness and pattern, and her scheming makes people feel scared.
In the face of such girlfriends, we should learn how to grow Xi, otherwise we may be hurt.
This also explains why An Jie's love for Jiang Defu has deepened, and time has not diminished his strengths, and he has always taken care of An Jie selflessly.