After marriage, femalePregnancyGiving birth to a child is a very special period, and this stage is undoubtedly a great test for the husband and the in-laws. In life, we can often see all kinds of things aboutMaternityContradictions and conflicts with her husband and mother-in-law. On November 28, a section of ** in Henan Province attracted widespread attention, and the woman in ** had returned to work on the fourth day after the caesarean section, and when he left, he handed over his wife to her mother-in-law to take care of her. The woman was so sad and angry that she couldn't help but cry. This scene is thought-provoking and can't help but make us think about being a husband and mother-in-lawMaternityWhen they need care and comfort the most, should they stand by their side and give more support and care?
In this **, the woman's emotions were excited, tears kept flowing, and she called her dissatisfaction. She said that on the third day of her caesarean section, her husband hurried to work, and she felt very puzzled and aggrieved. She thinks that her husband has been missing this amount of time to earn money these days?The mother-in-law said that her husband was under a lot of pressure from work, and she didn't know that the woman would quarrel like this, and even verbally provoked, saying that if the woman quarreled again, her husband might jump off the building. Such remarks undoubtedly made the woman even more angry, and she even said that she could jump off the building with her mother-in-law. This fierce quarrel has never been able to solve the problem, making the outside world continue to dispute this **.
According to information revealed by people in the same ward, the woman's husband has a precarious job, and the arrival of the child has brought more to the familyEconomyPressure. As a result, he took only three days off and hurried back to work. The woman, on the other hand, believes that it is not convenient for her mother-in-law to take care of herself, while her husband is able to understand her situation better. Because the mother-in-law is more conservative and her words are inappropriate, she always makes the woman feel bad. So, the woman angrily vented her dissatisfaction to her mother-in-law. The heated argument drew people inside and outside the ward.
For this **, there is a lot of discussion on the Internet. Some netizens believe that the husband is hereMaternityIt would be irresponsible to choose to go back to work when he needed care the most, and he should prioritize his wife's emotional and physical needs. There are also those who believe thatMaternityWhat is needed at this time is understanding and support, not just care, and the mother-in-law's words and actions are undoubtedly exacerbatedMaternityThe pain and anger that increased her afflictionPostpartum depressionrisk.
On this issue, my point of view is that the public says that the public is reasonable, and the mother-in-law says that the mother-in-law is reasonable, but this moment is rightMaternityIt is the most difficult time, the moment when the family needs the most care and love, especially the husband. The husband doesn't careMaternityThe need to be unable to understand her emotions will undoubtedly makeMaternityChill in the heart. If the husband does have a need for work, he should also communicate with his wife before going to work and take care of himGood wifeAt the same time, communicate well with her mother-in-law, and take care of her patiently and carefullyMaternity。This is a basic responsibility and obligation as a husband and mother-in-law.
Looking at this issue calmly and objectively, it is not difficult for us to find that inMarriageDifferences between classes and conflicts of interests are often highlighted at certain moments, especially in the familyEconomystressful situations. The husband's job instability and the arrival of the children made family life more difficult. The husband has to bear itEconomyThe responsibility of providing for the family, but at the same time, it is also necessary to understand the care and attention that the wife needs after giving birth. As an elder, the mother-in-law should be more tolerant and understanding, both to give her husband appropriate pressure and support, but also to be considerateMaternityto create a harmonious atmosphere for their family.
Overall, the heated discussion caused by this ** makes us reflect on the responsibilities and roles after marriage, especially the love and concern during special times. As a husband and mother-in-law, inMaternityWhen care and care are needed most, we should stand by their side and give them more support and understanding. At the same time, in the familyEconomyIn the face of pressure, we must also learn to understand and tolerate each other, face difficulties together, and create a harmonious and happy family.