In a word, words are not more valuable, and being good at expressing one's own views in a way that others like is the embodiment of wisdom. People who have lost friends, customers, or opportunities because of inappropriate language should learn how to speak in a flattering way. Speaking style is a person's passport, to be able to get a variety of opportunities, to get the appreciation and love of others, but also in the workplace to get the boss appreciation, subordinates support, colleagues like, friends to help, lovers intimacy is a necessary condition. Humorous eloquence is the most popular form of verbal expression, so humorous speaking is a booster that propels a person to success.
People with humor, like a sunny morning, are full of energy and irresistible. They are good at using the charm of language to pursue progress, to ignite the light of hope, even if they encounter small troubles, they are like a breeze blowing across the lake, gently carrying by, leaving no trace. And those who are not good at talking, like a dull cloudy day, make people feel depressed, and it seems that they can never get rid of that invisible bondage. Their words often leave the impression of low ability and lack of knowledge, and no matter where they are, it is difficult to get to the front of the interpersonal front and gain enough respect and appreciation. However, having excellent speaking skills is not a far-fetched dream. The rules of the language are basic, and the skills can be mastered. As long as we persevere in our efforts, we will definitely achieve something!Learning to speak in a likable way is both easy and not easy. It's easy to say because each of us can speak, we all know how to speak, and we have to be likable, and we strive to get thereIt's not easy to say because it's hard to grasp the psychology of others, and most of the time it's instantaneous, and you can't think about it carefully. Lin Daoan once said: "A person can't speak, that's because he doesn't know what the other person needs to hear." If you can see through the mental activity of the other person like a scout, you will know how powerful it is to speak!This sentence is like a beacon that illuminates our way forward, making us understand that if we want to speak to make people like, we must first understand the needs and psychology of the other person;Only by seeing through the mental activity of the other party can we exert the great power of speaking. We, mortals, immerse ourselves in the ocean of language every day, and devote a lot of time to communication, in various forms: face-to-face conversations, ** exchanges, online forums or correspondence. And in this diverse way of communication, speaking, occupies an overwhelming position, as high as 80%. So, how to speak and what to say can make people happy and become the key to successful communication. 
If a person can master language in a witty and humorous way, then he will undoubtedly show infinite charm. Whether it is to gain a foothold in society or to be comfortable in interpersonal interactions, this ability will be strengthened, and it will also win more opportunities and tangible benefits for an individual's life. A word can become an enemy, and a word can also be blessed. The power of words is endless. Saying the wrong thing can often destroy the positive interaction in interpersonal relationships, make people feel guilty, and even plant the seeds of resentment. And a decent word is like a spring breeze, which makes people happy and appreciated. This is the art of speaking, and it is also the wisdom of life. 
Humorous words, even better. Humorous words can make people laugh and laugh, but they can also make people happy and dispel their troubles. Humorous words are not just funny and funny, but also need to be based on time, place, person, and event, so that people can feel your funny personality and superb communication skills. 
In the intricacies of speaking situations, the secret to likability lies in being good at reading words and feelings, and understanding people's hearts. When you can accurately grasp the opportunities and say the words that make people happy, you will undoubtedly win more opportunities and obtain greater benefits. At this moment, your words have become a sharp sword, cutting through obstacles and carving a path to success. Therefore, we must learn to constantly improve ourselves in the art of speaking, and use the charm of language to conquer people's hearts. As the ancients said: "Words are the voice of the heart, and deeds are the expression of the heart." "May we all become masters of words who are good at expression and witty words, sway freely on the stage of life, and win full applause!