That day, I did an unexpected self-challenge. On the day of the wedding, I was wearing a crisp white wedding dress and was about to walk to my father and hand it over to my future husband.
Xiaoting, look at the family you married into, did I say when it was not good?These stalls don't give you any face.
Hmph, my Xiaoting married a broken family like you, and sooner or later this will end. Not to be outdone, Mom scolded back.
The unexpected events at the wedding made me realize the seriousness of family disputes and conflicts. My mother-in-law and mother can tear their faces because of a little thing, which makes me feel extremely cold.
I felt powerless and helpless, and tears flowed uncontrollably.
After the wedding, my husband and I went to our new home. My mother-in-law treated me coldly, but my husband chose to remain silent. I felt like I was in a predicament from which I could not escape.
In order for my family to get back together, I had to find a way to resolve the conflict. I am reminded of what my grandmother once said to me: "Home and everything is prosperous."
Mother-in-law, I know that you are not satisfied with me, but as a daughter-in-law, I am willing to change myself and try to integrate into this family.
My mother-in-law looked at me, the expression on her face gradually softened, and finally she nodded and said to me, "Xiaoting, I may be too mean, don't worry, I will try my best to accept you."
My conversation with my mother-in-law gave me a glimmer of hope. Perhaps, family conflicts can really be resolved through communication.
When my mother saw the reconciliation between me and my mother-in-law, she also took the initiative to talk to me. With my sincere apology and persuasion, she finally smiled and agreed to reconcile.
Although family conflicts cannot be eliminated overnight, I am willing to use my love and patience to resolve and use my strength to maintain this family.
The unexpected events at the wedding gave me a deeper understanding of the affection of the family. I know that family is important, but a heart of tolerance and understanding is indispensable.
One day, when my mother-in-law and I were at home, a small incident happened that caused the family to fall into conflict again.
Xiaoting, your method of watering like this is wrong, you have to ...... like thisMy mother-in-law said as she began to instruct me what to do.
Mom, I water like this every time, and the flowers and plants grow very well. "I tried to explain.
If you don't understand, don't do it, these are household chores at home, and I still have to take care of them. The mother-in-law's tone became very harsh.
I felt a little aggrieved, but I held back my emotions. "Okay, I see. "I had to silently accept my mother-in-law's teachings.
I was very frustrated by this little thing, and I tried to run my family with my heart, but I was always met with some unspeakable resistance.
I went to my husband and told me about the conflict between me and my mother-in-law. "I know that my mother-in-law is an elder, but she always interferes with my words and deeds, which makes me feel very depressed.
Xiaoting, I know you have been wronged. My husband gently patted me on the shoulder. "But my mother-in-law is the elder in the family, and we have to respect her.
I was a little disappointed by my husband's words, and I thought he would be able to take my side. But I also understand that my mother-in-law is the elder of their family, and I can't be too demanding.
My mother-in-law listened to my words and was silent for a while. "Xiaoting, you are my son's wife, I hope you can integrate more into our family.
I know what my mother-in-law means, she wants me to integrate into the family, but she should also understand my feelings. I took a deep breath.
My mother-in-law nodded, as if she understood what I meant. I know this isn't the end of the problem, but at least we've found a common understanding.
Although my married life is full of challenges, I am willing to use love and tolerance to resolve family disputes and make the family full of warmth and happiness.
After the dawn of reconciliation reappeared in our family, an even bigger storm struck again.
That day, I was busy preparing dinner in the kitchen when I heard an argument coming from the living room. I quickly put down what I was doing and prepared to go and see what was going on.
Your Xiaoting is suffering from such grievances, don't you feel distressed?"I heard my husband's angry shouts.
Xiaoting!You see you are so ignorant, you lock yourself in the house all day and do some housework, and you don't think about my son's feelings!I'm really convinced!This is the angry voice of the mother-in-law.
Why are you angry at Xiaoting?How can you do this to her!"When I approached the living room and saw this, my heart couldn't help but feel heavy.
Xiaoting, look, your son doesn't want to eat this meal you made for me today!The mother-in-law pointed to the food on the table and said angrily.
I felt sad for a while, I thought that my efforts would be recognized and understood by my family, but I didn't expect that there would still be such a conflict between them.
I ......I just want to make everyone happy......My voice trembled.
My husband looked at me with a look of embarrassment. I knew he was in a dilemma, he was caught between me and his family, and he couldn't choose.
It all came so suddenly, I tried to persuade my mother-in-law, but she kept accusing me. I felt a pang of despair, as if what I had done was superfluous, and my relationship with my family was so fragile that I never realized it.
This conflict made me feel very helpless. I don't know what to do next, I need time to ease the tension.
The conflict in the family turned out to be so intractable that I fell into a deep confusion. I was afraid that these conflicts would tear our family apart again, but I couldn't solve it all unilaterally.
I knew that in order to alleviate this family conflict, I needed to face it more firmly with love and patience. I may need more effort and time, but I will never give up on this home.