Wen Wan said in a mood**All works are original"The back waves of the Yangtze River push the front waves, and one generation is stronger than the next. When it comes to the wealth of children and grandchildren, many people think of factors such as genetics, fate, and feng shui. But in fact, what really determines whether the offspring is rich or not often depends on some important characteristics of the ancestors. This is not superstition, but wisdom that has been proven by history. First, the spirit of struggle of the ancestors: ** The times are ahead, not behindIn my grandfather's generation, the family was so poor. But his old man has the strength to not admit defeat, getting up early and working greedily at night, and insisting on making the family's life better and better. By my father's generation, the family already had good savings. He inherited his grandfather's fighting spirit, caught up with the good times, started a small business, and the family's life went to the next level. In my generation, although I am not rich and expensive, I also have no worries about food and clothing, and I rely on the hard work of my ancestors.
Second, the ancestral educational philosophy: it is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fishMy second aunt's house is a prime example. Their ancestors were not wealthy, but they attached great importance to education. The second aunt often said: "It is better to leave the children with gold and silver, it is better to let them learn the ability to earn money." "They did everything they could to send their children to school, and as a result, all three of them went to good universities and now have stable jobs and good incomes. Although the second aunt's family started late, it has enough stamina, all because of the ancestor's emphasis on education. 3. The inheritance of the family style of the ancestors: the family and everything is prosperousSpeaking of family heritage, I have to mention my friend Xiao Wang. His family was wealthy, but he never showed off. He said: "The reason why our family is prosperous is not because of a lot of money, but because of a good family style. Their family motto, which has been passed down from generation to generation, is, "Be diligent and thrifty, and live in harmony." Under the influence of such a family style, Xiao Wang and his brothers and sisters know how to cherish and be grateful, and they have also made good achievements in their careers. Fourth, the social wisdom of the ancestors: one fence and three piles, and one hero and three gangsMy uncle was a businessman, and his success was not only due to his own efforts, but also to the social wisdom passed down from his ancestors. He often said: "In the business field, there are no eternal friends and no eternal enemies, only eternal interests." But that doesn't mean he's unsentimental. On the contrary, he is very good at maintaining relationships and making friends from all walks of life. At critical moments, you can always get help and support from your friends. This social intelligence has built a solid foundation for his career. Fifth, the innovative spirit of the ancestors: dare to be the first in the worldIn this era of rapid change, the spirit of innovation is particularly important. My cousin is a man who dares to eat crabs. He saw the business opportunities in the Internet industry, and resolutely quit his stable job to join the tide of entrepreneurship. Although there were many difficulties at the beginning, he relied on the innovative spirit and enterprising spirit inherited from his ancestors to make the company prosperous. Now his net worth has exceeded 100 million, and he has become the pride of the family.
Conclusion:Whether children and grandchildren have money or not is not a matter of fate, but can be influenced and changed through the spirit of struggle of the ancestors, educational philosophy, family style inheritance, social wisdom and innovative spirit. These qualities, like seeds, take root in the soil of the family, blossom and bear fruit, and finally give birth to abundant fruits. Therefore, if you want your children and grandchildren to be rich, you have to look at these points of your ancestors, not superstition, but wisdom verified by history.