On August 4, 2009, Zhang Guoli and his wife, Guo Degang, Zhang Tielin and other well-known artists, as well as hundreds of people gathered at a cemetery in Babaoshan, Beijing, to say their final goodbyes to their old friends.
The crowd was dressed in black with solemn expressions on their faces, and they were deeply grieved.
At this moment, there was a commotion in the crowd, and many voices shouting "Deng Chao" were heard, and the voices gradually approached from a distance.
Deng Chao went to the memorial service to bid farewell to his mentor and see him off.
At that time, Deng Chao became popular, and the fans' obsession with him turned the mourning event into a star-chasing frenzy, which was really unexpected.
Zhang Guoli couldn't stand it anymore, so he stood up without hesitation and scolded loudly in front of **: "Leave immediately!."”
Deng Chao felt helpless, and left the scene after hurriedly completing the worship ceremony.
The inappropriate behavior of fans at the memorial service is even more intolerable, after all, their behavior is a kind of disrespect to the funeral of the old drama bone Li Ding.
Li Ding's departure plunged his wife Jia Jiuxiao into 57 years of sorrow, but this was only the beginning. In 2020, she experienced the death of her son again!
Jia Jiuxiao lost her husband and son in her later years, what is her living situation?
Li Ding is short of water because of his fate, so he has the name of "guarding the sea".
He was born in 1926, a time of poverty. However, since his father was a businessman, he grew up living a worry-free life.
It was often his father who took him to the opera garden to listen to the opera, and although he couldn't understand what the actors were babbling and singing, Li Ding developed a strong interest in acting.
After entering middle school, Li Ding organized a rehearsal of the drama "Tragedy on the Lake" by his classmates, which was his first foray into the field of acting, and he also served as a director.
At the age of 20, Li Ding joined a theater troupe in 1946 and devoted himself to theater performances, and spent the next dozen years shuttling between repertory troupes across the country.
In 1956, he joined the ** Experimental Drama Theatre, but the good times were short-lived. Because he was in that special era, he got into trouble because of his always upright personality.
Li Ding eventually lost the opportunity to continue to shine on the stage, and was sent to work on farms in the Qinghai area.
He has been through more than ten years, and even if he is engaged in the dirtiest and most tiring work every day, he will study whenever he has free time.
Despite the long bleak years, this did not make him lose faith in life.
People with firm beliefs will not be disappointed in the end, and in 1979, Li Ding, who had experienced a life of wandering, finally stepped back on the stage.
Although he usually plays some "ordinary roles", he can always interpret the joys and sorrows of these little people to the fullest.
Especially the actor who played Master Xu in "Fugui".
In Fugui", Master Xu is known for his strong financial resources and has lived in a wealthy family since he was a child.
When he was young, he was a gentleman, but after his son became wealthy, his discipline became extremely strict. This behavior may be that he wants to make up for the shortcomings of his youth. The slight changes in his expression are deeply rooted in people's hearts, as if they are really happening in front of their eyes.
Li Ding fully showed the atmosphere of the market in "Fugui", and his works also included many TV series such as "Prime Minister Liu Luoguo" and "Kangxi Weifu Private Interview".
However, Li Ding is more remembered by the audience for his name in the play, and people usually refer to him by the character's name, but he never feels embarrassed, and even has a hint of joy.
In 1992, he starred in the movie "Heaven's Reply", in which he played the role of a kind and generous grandfather.
With this film, he won the Best Actor Award for a Canadian Mosky Film and was nominated for Best Supporting Actor at the 13th Chinese Film Golden Rooster Awards.
This is the most affirmative affirmation for the elderly.
The first half of Li Ding's life was full of wind and frost and suffered endless suffering. It is often said that hardship comes sweetly, and the second half of Li Ding's life is full of happiness and joy, and his spiritual support is his wife Jia Jiuxiao.
In 1949, Li Ding and his friend ** played an opera "Sugar Girl" starring Jia Jiuxiao.
When Jia Jiuxiao first came into contact with acting, her innocent temperament was later borrowed by Zhang Ziyi in "My Father and Mother", and she worked hard to create a similar style.
Offstage, Li Ding was attracted by this rural girl.
It's a pity that Li Ding had a marriage at that time, which was established under the arrangement of his parents and matchmakers. However, although their marriage exists in name only, there is no emotional bond between husband and wife.
They tried to nurture a relationship, but as time went on, both parties decided it was wasting their time and eventually parted ways peacefully.
Subsequently, Li Ding gradually fell in love with Jia Jiuxiao and began to pursue her, even at the expense of some small tricks, in order to get the beauty.
Jia Jiuxiao didn't like Li Ding very much at first, and she firmly believed that there were prerequisites for love. Of course, this precondition is not the requirement that the other party is one meter tall, as the layman thinks.
8. Criteria such as career success.
He has to have the qualities that appeal to me, that is, his charisma is what I want.
As long as the other party is outstanding in a certain sense, Jia Jiuxiao is willing to tolerate any shortcomings of the other half.
Jia Jiuxiao intuitively felt that when Li Ding walked into her field of vision, although he looked cold on the surface, he was full of feelings deep inside.
After Li Ding and his ex-wife divorced, for the sake of each other's future, he also supported his ex-wife to go to college, and the two have always maintained a close family-like relationship.
Jia Jiuxiao saw these things in her eyes, for a little girl who had no mother since she was a child, she cherished Li Ding's kindness to her, so the two naturally got together.
They had a grand wedding on Chinese New Year's Eve in 1952, and when the moon was under the moon, they solemnly vowed to support each other and share weal and sorrow until they grew old.
When Li Ding fell into a low point in his life and went to the farm to farm, the people around him advised Jia Jiuxiao: "You are still young, divorce, he can't live his life." ”
Jia Jiuxiao only said one word about this.
By his side, I am his wife, and as long as he is there, I am not afraid of anything.
Jia Jiuxiao would go to see Li Ding on time every night from 11:30 to 12 o'clock, which was after a busy day.
The next morning, she always had to put on makeup before she left home. At that time, makeup was very rare among women, especially women with strong paintings, which always caused others to talk about it. Why did Jia Jiuxiao choose to do this?
Jia Jiuxiao actually endured unbearable pressure and pain for countless late nights, but the next day, she would always go out carefully dressed and refreshed, not wanting others to see the pain in her heart.
Every time he talked about Jia Jiuxiao, Li Ding was full of emotion, he saw it in his eyes and knew that his wife had paid a lot for it.
I often wonder if my wife would still exist in this world if my wife wasn't Jia Jiuxiao.
Jia Jiuxiao felt a little embarrassed when he heard it, and felt that you were too exaggerated.
Li Ding stressed again: "Indeed!”
Jia Jiuxiao and Li Ding's personalities are completely opposite, Li Ding is a chatterbox, but Jia Jiuxiao is like a half-deaf and dumb person, only saying three sentences a day, including even "ah". In life, they are very different.
Jia Jiuxiao ushered in her 70th birthday, and on this day, Li Ding and her two children held a birthday banquet for her. At the feast, Li Ding took out a piece of paper on which he wrote a poem for his wife.
I have a round of sun, and it gives me warmth;I have a bright moon that guides me in the darkness......Without you, I wouldn't be where I am today.
50 years have passed, and I don't want to say anything flowery or commemorate, but I just want to say from the bottom of my heart: thank you, my dear.
Husband and wife were originally like birds in the forest, but they flew apart in the face of great difficulties.
However, Li Ding and Jia Jiuxiao, an eternally young naughty boy, a calm and calm person, they have survived the wind and rain for 50 years, the years have nothing to do with the years, you will always be the person I love the most.
Unfortunately, all the gatherings will eventually come to an end. In July 2009, Li Ding felt unwell and his family took him to the hospital for examination, which showed that he had advanced colon cancer and was dying.
Li Ding died on July 29 of the same year at the age of 83.
Li Ding held the children's hands before he passed away and said: "I owe too much in this life. He hopes that his wife will face life positively after his death.
Jia Jiuxiao never expected that his grief had just begun.
After Li Ding's death, Jia Jiuxiao was 77 years old, and it was indeed difficult to live alone, so he could only live with his two children.
The first of the couples is considered to be liberated, and those who remain suffer the pain. Jia Jiuxiao didn't like words, and after her husband died, she was even more silent.
Fortunately, the mother received meticulous care from her two children, so that she gradually came out of the pain of losing her husband.
However, in December 2020, there was another unfortunate news from the Li family!
Li Ding's son, Li Xiaoding, died at the age of 67 due to a sudden heart attack.
88-year-old Jia Jiuxiao ushered in his old age that year, but lost his son again.
Li Ding will not feel lonely in heaven, because his son has gone to accompany him.
However, Jia Jiuxiao on that day was the saddest person in the world, first sending away her husband, and then her son, no one could understand the pain in her heart.
However, the person who has passed away is a thing of the past, and we always have to look forward. Jia Jiuxiao is now old, and he must have seen through many things. What is the current state of her life?
Jia Jiuxiao's personal situation is currently not available on the Internet, but it can be confirmed that she has a child, and considering the extensive circle of friends of the old drama bone Li Ding during her lifetime, it can be determined that she will not be treated unfairly by the widow of her old friend.
No one can control life and death, life is limited, but Li Ding has left a deep mark on the entertainment industry with his limited life, and has also brought endless happiness to everyone.
Many people describe Li Ding as this: spending his life with him is not to die of old age in the end, but to enjoy life.
I believe that Jia Jiuxiao will face life positively and bring the happiness left by Li Ding to her heart!
I hope that everyone can "have fun in time", because the order of tomorrow and the unexpected will be unpredictable, so don't leave regrets!