In "Do You Know", Hua Lan is the eldest daughter of the Sheng family, she grew up in thousands of favors since she was a child, and is the most noble daughter of the Sheng family.
Later, her marriage Sheng Hong naturally attached great importance to it, saying: "I don't expect Hua'er to climb the dragon and the phoenix, I just hope that she can marry a responsible man, the husband and wife are harmonious, the piano is harmonious, and she will have children in the future and have a safe life." ”
Sheng Hong selected Yuan Wenshao, the second son of the Earl's Mansion of Zhongqin, and specially asked about his character, thinking that it was reliable, so he decided that this family affair Hualan was a high marriage, although the Earl's Mansion of Zhongqin was a neglected Earl's Mansion, but it was also an Earl's Mansion, compared with the Sheng family's family, Hualan was considered to be a high marriage, after all, at that time, Sheng Hong was only a local governor, not a Beijing official.
Hua Lan and Shili Hongxiang married to the Earl's Court, and she didn't live very well after getting married, because she had a thin mother-in-law and a foolish husband.
After Hua Lan got married, her mother-in-law gave Hua Lan the power of housekeeping, but she did not lift her up, but took care of the mess for her. ”
Although the Yuan family is in the Earl's Mansion, there are already a lot of shortcomings, plus Hua Lan's mother-in-law took out a large amount of money to supplement her mother's family, and the Yuan Mansion is thanks to the silver, and the housekeeper power is handed over to Hua Lan.
Therefore, if Hua Lan wants to gain a foothold in the Yuan family, she must use the dowry to fill the loophole in the Yuan family. His bride price was sent out, and his mother-in-law had been worried about his bride price, and then slowly snatched his relatives directly, and Hualan's husband was also a foolish and filial man.
Later, the old lady of the Sheng family knew Hua Lan's current situation, and asked her to get rid of the housekeeper power to take care of her body, and invited the old lady of the He family to take care of Hua Lan's body at home, and asked her to take care of her body according to the prescription and give birth to children.
Because Hua Lan thought of the Yuan family well, it was just to make wedding dresses for others, after all, the family was separated, and the Bofu returned to the big house, and Hua Lan had no chance.
So Hua Lan left the housekeeper's affairs behind, but her mother-in-law would often take her dowry, but she endured it, because she had no one to rely on, so she could only endure it now.
finally gave birth to a son, but the grandson brought by the vicious mother-in-law was not well cared for.
After a lot of hardships, Hua Lan was pregnant, and her mother-in-law used Hua Lan to take her son as a concubine under the pretext that she was pregnant, but fortunately, Hua Lan opened her face for the girl, got a room for her husband, and blocked her mother-in-law's mouth, but this also led to the eldest son, Hua Lan's first child was her daughter.
After giving birth to a son after a lot of hardships, Hualan was also pregnant with three children, at this time Hualan was the weakest time, her mother-in-law came to make trouble again, and raised Brother Shi'er to raise herself in her own home, and her mother-in-law pretended to be sick again, insisting that it was Brother Shi'er's eight characters and was vigorous, and she had to take the child out, Hualan was helpless, and she buckled a "filial piety" hat, Yuan Wenshao couldn't stand it.
Therefore, during that time, Hua Lan was worried all day long, and she couldn't raise her children with confidence, even if she knew that Mrs. Yuan was not necessarily bad for her grandson, but if there was really a case, you would not let your grandmother pay for your grandson's life, but a word of negligence, this will only make you eat this dumb loss.
Something really happened a few days ago, but the mother-in-law went outside to drink tea and chat, leaving Brother Shi to take a nap alone, no one was left at home, poor Brother Babashi wanted to climb the stairs, he woke up and crawled around all over the bed, there was a smoker next to the bed, the children didn't know, the smoker overturned, the ashes in the furnace fell on the head of Brother Shi, and rolled under the bed, pity the life of the parents in the world, crying and wiping tears, no one answered for a long time.
Fortunately, my sister Sister Zhuang often thinks about her brother, so he will sneak out to see her brother, and that day Sister Zhuang slipped out to see her brother again, and heard her brother crying, and saw her brother rolling to the ground and crying, and his face was full of hot blisters!The child couldn't hold his brother, so he brushed away all the ash from his brother with both hands. In order to save her brother, poor Sister Zhuang burned a few blisters on her hands.
And there was a redness and swelling on the corner of the real brother's forehead, which should have fallen down, down the right eyebrow to the bottom of the cheek, rows of fine dark red burns, and the most thrilling place was right at his right eyelid, and if there was any case, I am afraid that the eye would be wasted.
When this happened, Hualan's mother-in-law did not feel a little guilty, and said that Sister Zhuang knocked over the smoker and injured her brother, and punished Sister Zhuang. Hua Lan's father-in-law was very angry when he heard this, and wanted to send Hua Lan's mother-in-law to Zhuangzi to recuperate.
It turned out that Hualan's mother-in-law didn't know the tricks she learned from **, so she found a rope to hang up, and kept saying: "There is no reason in the world to wait for a daughter-in-law to send a wife slowly." Hua Lan's father-in-law was almost so angry that he fainted, and the matter could only be written off, but fortunately, Hua Lan's son was about to return.
When Yuan Wenshao learned of this later, he angrily handed over his mother to his concubines, and chose the two eldest people to beat fifty boards each, and threw them out of the gate of the Earl's Mansion in Zhongqin halfway through, and the other two stripped off their clothes and knelt in the courtyard overnight, and fell ill the next day, and then sent out of the mansion.
Hualan's mother-in-law learned of this and came to ** again, this time Hualan was forced to die, saying that she wanted to take the child out, committed suicide on the spot, and went to beat her son, scratched Yuan Wenshao's face, and couldn't go out for days.
I really don't know when this day will end, so that Hua Lan couldn't raise the fetus well when she had the third child, and her body bones have lost a lot of weight, and the babies below are very weak.
Minglan offered a plan to ask Hualan's father-in-law to take a concubine, and Hualan slowly improved this day.
Minglan saw that her eldest sister was living like this in her in-law's house, and she was heartbroken when she saw Sister Zhuang and Brother Shi'er.
gave Hua Lan a bad idea, that is, to let Hua Lan's father-in-law take a concubine, and to accept a concubine, Hua Lan's mother-in-law can't sell a noble concubine, so Hua Lan's mother-in-law can only devote herself to the battle of her wife and concubine, and she has no energy to embarrass her daughter-in-law.
But the daughter-in-law couldn't take a concubine for her father-in-law, this problem was very tricky, so Minglan originally wanted Hualan to find Mrs. Shoushanbo.
Mrs. Shoushan Bo is the eldest sister of Hualan's father-in-law, the most noble elder of the Yuan family, and Master Yuan has always respected this eldest sister, so the eldest sister is justified in taking concubines for her brother.
And for Hualan's father-in-law to take a concubine, not for Hualan, but also for the Yuan family, but also for his mother's family, Minglan asked Hualan to complain about the difficulty when she saw Mrs. Shoushanbo, and handed over the injured child to Mrs. Shoushanbo, and also talked about Zheng Zhuanggong and Gongshu Duan.
During the Spring and Autumn Period, Gong Zheng Zhuang and Gong Shu Duan were the same mother, but due to the partiality of Empress Dowager Wu Jiang and blind favoritism towards Gong Shu Duan, the brothers were cut by Zheng Zhuang Gong. In this way, the whole event was raised to a new level of family unity.
Therefore, Mrs. Shoushan Bo is a clean and self-righteous poor woman, beautiful and gentle, and has a clear mind, so she knows that the second room is her helper. When the eldest sister sends her brother who is in poor health to serve in the concubine's room, as long as the uncle personally agrees, no one is qualified to make irresponsible remarks, if Mrs. Yuan wants to make trouble, then she is guilty of "seven outs".
Later, Mrs. Shoushan Bo really found a girl in her twenties, which was from the rules of the family, due to the death of her parents, she delayed the wedding in order to support her brothers and sisters, so she dragged it to her 20s and did not get married.
Uncle Shoushan's selection is really good, after all, Uncle Zhongqin is old, and his nature is rigorous and solemn, of course young people and girls can't be eyed, on the contrary, it is such a woman with life experience, gentle and strong, it is more suitable. Besides, if you can delay your marriage in order to raise your younger siblings, your good conduct will not be bad, and you won't really spoil your concubine and kill your wife in the future.
Later, Hualan's beautiful life slowly began, Yuan Wenshao didn't know that he would have an obedient and reliable cousin in the future, and Mrs. Yuan's painful life had just begun.
After Hua Lan endured this wealthy marriage for ten years, she got her husband's sincerity, a sweet married life with her husband for the rest of her life, and got rid of her evil mother-in-law.
Of course, there are also the reasons for the growing development of the Hou Sheng family, as well as the reasons for Minglan's thoughts about Hualan.
I have to say that Lan's rank is indeed very high, and he helped Hua Lan resolve the entanglement of the evil mother-in-law with one move. In ancient times, what if you met a woman with a foolish man and an evil mother-in-law in modern times, did you swallow your anger?How many more decades can a woman endure?
I hope that the women in this world will never meet an evil mother-in-law, nor will they meet a foolish husband.