Rebellious, sexually ignorant ......For boys and girls in the rainy season of puberty, it is a necessary way, but there is one thing, only when children have experienced it, can they be considered truly mentally mature, that is, they have grown up.
1. Crush is the highlight of adolescence.
Adolescence is a period of rapid changes in the child's physiology and psychology, in terms of physiological characteristics, with the appearance of the second sign and the secretion of hormones, in the process of contact with the opposite sex, it is easy to have good feelings for the opposite sex. From the perspective of psychological characteristics, adolescence is also the formation stage of children's world view, outlook on life, and values. Children's minds begin to mature, and the hazy mystery of the opposite sex often makes many children have crush tendencies. Therefore, the process of crush is actually a process of mental and physical maturity.
Second, a crush is a person's, and girls are even more so.
During this period, especially girls, they are even more ashamed to speak. Their feelings for the opposite sex are hazy and simple, and they think that love is very sacred and beautiful, so it is good to enjoy this feeling quietly.
In addition, their cognition of love is relatively superficial and superficial, and they have not made in-depth and realistic analysis, so they dare not communicate with outsiders, so they can only silently bear the sweetness and heartache given by the other party, but this sweet and painful feeling is the catalyst for the rapid growth of the child's mind. Therefore, for girls, crushes are more and more of a person's.
3. Crush is also a tough battle for parents.
Adolescence is an important stage in forging children's three views, including love, so their parents' practices have a profound impact on them. My parents are also from the past, so I am familiar with the feeling of a crush. However, as the saying goes, "the authorities are obsessed with bystanders", and when parents change from the status of the authorities to the bystanders, how does the attitude towards crushes change?
Adolescent children, the rebellious blood in the body is flowing, if parents find that the child has a crush on someone else at this time, the solution is extremely important, carelessly may awaken the child's inner rebellious factor, but cause the opposite effect,