A very hot topic has been discussed before: "Does the premise of being loved have to be beautiful"?
The fact that beauty does not necessarily win love is proven.
The three actresses Hao Lei, Wang Luodan and Yin Tao, they have all been hurt by the same person, although they are all beauties, but none of them have been spared.
It wasn't until he was close to 40 that he married a much younger 12-year-old girl.
How did he have such a huge charm that he was able to attract so many goddess-level artists?
Who is he?
Li Guangjie is the man who grew up in a small village in Henan, his parents were coal mine workers, and they struggled to raise him and his younger brother.
Li Guangjie has understood since he was a child that only by studying hard to Xi can he leave the countryside and pursue a better life by going to university. After unremitting efforts, he was finally sent to the acting department of the ** Drama Academy with his excellent appearance and excellent grades.
However, becoming famous is never easy. He plays tricks on the crew every day, just to win a chance to be on camera.
In 2001, Li Guangjie, who was only 20 years old at the time, ushered in the first benefactor in his life, director Zhang Li. At the invitation of Zhang Li, he played the role of Emperor Guangxu in "Towards the Republic". Although Li Guangjie did not become popular all over the country in the following days, with this drama, his resources have also been greatly improved.
It wasn't until the appearance of a woman that Li Guangjie's life changed.
Hao Lei is his first wife.
Hao Lei participated in the filming of the movie "Secret Order 1949" in 2005, and since then her love-hate relationship with a man has begun.
At that time, Hao Lei quickly attracted a large number of fans for her outstanding performances in "Young Wong Fei Hung" and "Young Son of Heaven" and her charming appearance, and she was quickly loved by many directors and audiences, and quickly gained a firm foothold in the entertainment industry.
At that time, Li Guangjie was just an unknown rookie actor, and he and Hao Lei played a couple in the play. The two often discuss scripts outside the play, and as a veteran actor, Hao Lei often mentors Li Guangjie, teaches him how to act, and sometimes demonstrates in person. In such an exchange, Li Guangjie was not only impressed by Hao Lei's excellent acting skills, but also attracted by her charming appearance.
Hao Lei was experiencing an emotional trough at that time, and she had not yet shaken off the pain caused by her breakup with Deng Chao.
At this time, Li Guangjie stood up and cared about Hao Lei, giving her full care and warmth both in and out of the play. After being treated so gently, Hao Lei's heart was also shaken, and the two started a relationship and quickly fell in love.
In 2007, Li Guangjie proposed to Hao Lei, which moved Hao Lei deeply, and they got a certificate to get married that year.
However, Li Guangjie was just an unknown actor at that time, with no wedding dress, no wedding ring, no wedding, and even a hand-painted marriage certificate.
People inside and outside the circle were very surprised, how could she have such a hasty and simple wedding?This popular female star actually chose flash marriage and naked marriage?
Many people claimed that Li Guangjie just wanted to use Hao Lei's resources, but Hao Lei at the time did not think so. She is convinced that she is very happy, the two are truly in love, and she firmly believes that Li Guangjie must be a good man, so she will choose to marry her.
Hao Lei did not hesitate to give up her career after getting married, and fully supported Li Guangjie, established his studio and served as an agent. She used her network resources to introduce Li Guangjie to important film and television sets.
With Hao Lei's support, Li Guangjie finally got his first film "Lichun". With this movie, Li Guangjie became famous in one fell swoop, got rid of his identity as a dragon actor, and opened a new chapter in the entertainment industry.
During her marriage to Hao Lei, Li Guangjie's worth doubled**, and she successfully transformed from a trickster actor to an actor.
In the 2008 "Lichun" interview, Li Guangjie said: "I plan to hold a grand wedding for Hao Lei. ”
Hao Lei was deeply moved by these words, and she believed that she had made the right choice, because she believed that Li Guangjie was a person worthy of her life.
However, before the wedding was held, the news came that the two were about to divorce.
Li Guangjie was photographed by reporters holding the hand of a mysterious woman in the dark night of May 2009. Li Guangjie claimed that they were just friends, and the ** angle caused people to misunderstand, and there was absolutely no improper relationship.
Li Guangjie originally thought that he could get through this matter safely, but he didn't expect that Hao Lei would suddenly give him a real hammer next.
The scene of Hao Lei crying on the street was quickly filmed, and the "hand-holding door" incident had just subsided.
According to rumors, the two began to separate as early as April 2009, and soon after, Hao Lei's Weibo was emptied, and no trace of Li Guangjie could be found in it. All this seems to indicate that Hao Lei has decided to divorce Li Guangjie.
Although they are divorced, Li Guangjie still wants to make full use of Hao Lei's last value, and deliberately buys press releases to smear her, such as spreading negative news such as "Hao Lei has a new boyfriend" and "Hao Lei goes home late at night", which triggered condemnation from netizens for a while.
Hao Lei is not the kind of person who is easily bullied, and she posted 30 Weibo posts in a fit of anger, in which she insinuated Li Guangjie and emphasized that someone was slandering her.
Hao Lei's marriage experience is really impressive, as her name indicates, this marriage really makes her feel "so tired". She worked tirelessly to plan a bright future for others, but in the end, she became a foil to their backgrounds.
Li Guangjie's intentions are actually very clear, he is now popular and no longer needs Hao Lei's help, so he no longer attaches importance to this relationship.
Li Guangjie's "ingratitude" led to the end of their marriage that lasted only three years.
After Li Guangjie became single again, he was accused of being a "scumbag", but he did not change everyone's opinion through practical actions, but consolidated this impression through his own behavior.
Although Li Guangjie broke up with Hao Lei, he still lived happily. His excellent looks and acting skills made the divorce not have any negative impact on his work.
Li Guangjie fell behind for a while, and then entered the crew non-stop.
At the filming site of this play, Li Guangjie talked about his second girlfriend.
At the filming site of "Du Lala's Promotion", Li Guangjie and Wang Luodan played a couple role, which gave the two a lot of opportunities for intimate contact. It can be said that Li Guangjie is very good at continuing the emotions in the play to real life.
On the filming site, the two characters in the play gradually sprouted love in the quarrel, and after work, they always chatted and laughed with each other, and the relationship between them was so close that even the crew would consciously leave when they saw them together.
Although some people claim that their intimacy is just to promote the new drama, it is clear that the TV series has been completed, and the two still snuggle up and walk intimately.
Although they have not officially announced their relationship, their intimate behavior has already attracted everyone's attention.
After the filming of "Durala's Promotion" was completed, the two worked together to star in "The Love of the Hawthorn Tree".
The two couples are working together for the second time, and they are always close together, both in and out of the play. Many have confirmed that the couple has established a relationship.
Just when everyone was expecting these two people to have an open relationship, they suddenly became strangers to each other. Many netizens speculated that it was because Wang Luodan was rejected for confessing to the other party, so the two chose to go their separate ways.
However, the root of the truth lies in the scandal between Li Guangjie and another beauty**.
In the performance of the drama "Romeo and Juliet", Li Guangjie met Yin Tao, a beautiful lady.
At that time, Yin Tao won countless fans with her excellent acting skills because of a "Chicken Feathers Fly to the Sky", and she was known as "the peach in the world", which shows how beautiful she is.
During the filming of the play, there were many passion scenes, and the actors' performances were so realistic that the audience was immersed, and each performance caused the audience to shout, "Are they really together......”
Li Guangjie performed so emotionally on stage that it almost made people wonder if he was in love with the drama again. In an interview, he affectionately stated that he was completely emotionally invested in the filming and did not use any technique.
The two have such a frank conversation that people can't help but feel that they have long been caught in the whirlpool of love.
Soon, just like Wang Luodan before, in the revelations of **, the two of them frequently dined together, went in and out of high-end hotels together, and behaved gently and intimately with each other.
thought that Li Guangjie would restrain this time, but he didn't expect that the two would never contact each other again soon after.
Afterwards, the reporter interviewed him and Yin Tao about it, and he just replied lightly.
Part of an actor's job is to work with the publicity.
After that, Li Guangjie focused more on his work and finally stabilized his career. Although the development is not particularly fast, he has been actively involved in filming.
It wasn't until the news of Li Guangjie's official marriage announcement came out that he once again attracted the public's attention.
Li Guangjie met his current wife, Sui Yumeng, in 2017.
Two like-minded philanthropic enthusiasts met in a charity event and talked happily with each other, as if they should have met a long time ago. They left *** and agreed to meet again at the next charity event.
Sui Yumeng's pure and clean image attracted all of Li Guangjie's attention, and as the two interacted more.
Sui Yumeng is averse to socializing and does not pursue a career very much, preferring to travel or stay at home to read and write and enjoy life. This mentality and lifestyle deeply attracted Li Guangjie, and soon after, he fell in love and hoped to start a relationship with Sui Yumeng.
Li Guangjie is mature and steady, good at handling emotional affairs, and considerate everywhere, and soon Sui Yumeng also has a good impression of him. Although Li Guangjie has been married, Sui Yumeng does not mind, and she believes that this man who cares about her will become an excellent husband and a qualified father in the future.
Then the relationship between the two went very smoothly, and in 2018, Li Guangjie and Sui Yumeng were photographed holding hands and dating, and then it was revealed that they returned to their residence together, which let everyone know that Li Guangjie was in love again.
Did he really pay attention?Or is it another hype?Thinking of what Li Guangjie did before, people can't help but have such questions.
When many netizens were nervous about Sui Yumeng, Li Guangjie announced the news of their marriage through Weibo on July 3, 2019. At the age of 38, he married again and married Sui Yumeng, who was 12 years younger than him.
A year later, when they got together again, everyone was surprised to find that Li Guangjie was holding a cute baby in her arms.
It was only at this time that netizens dared to believe that the family of three was happy, and now Li Guangjie has really taken care of it, and the happiness of his second marriage has also drawn an end to his emotional event.
Netizens expressed the hope that the full stop at this time can be maintained and will not change.
Li Guangjie has now shifted the focus of his life to his family, and this return has earned him a surprising reputation and a new level of career.
In "The Wind Blows in the Summer" broadcast in 2022, he played Zhao Lei who was praised by netizens, and now Li Guangjie can be called a winner in life.
Why Li Guangjie finally chose Sui Yumeng over several other more famous female stars is a question that many people are asking.
For Li Guangjie, Sui Yumeng is actually his most suitable partner at present. After meeting Sui Yumeng, Li Guangjie no longer needed to rely on other people's fame for profit.
Moreover, Sui Yumeng has a gentle temperament and is willing to put down his career and devote himself to his family. Now Li Guangjie has everything, he just needs to find a person who shares his life with the same interests and the right person.
When it comes to choosing a life partner, there is a saying that says, "The right match". While it's important to find your perfect partner, it's also good to listen to the advice of others.
The economic gap between men and women is too great for such a marriage to last. Li Guangjie once stood at a disadvantage, in the face of Hao Lei's love, he felt more oppression and necessity, in front of the public, he always needed to rely on his wife's support to make progress in his career, which made him feel unwilling.
Although he has been trying to improve himself, he still faces huge gaps and pressures. In the long run, even if there is a good relationship between them, it will inevitably cause a rift and eventually come to an end.
Maybe Li Guangjie's love life in the past may be blamed, but now that he has a happy family, I hope he cherishes this happiness.