We all know that in the adult world, there are too many helplessness, and many things are beyond our control.
But even so, as a psychologically mature person, after experiencing some things, you must understand what kind of life you should live.
Especially after middle age, you have to learn to put away your "these things" in order to keep your money and keep your blessings!
Put away the fake generosity
Some people in life, whether they are poor or rich, will value face more than anything.
Such a person is most likely to become a fake and generous person.
It's not easy enough to live your own life, so why spend all those idleness, do some hypocritical things, and pretend to be generous?
There are some things that you don't have the ability or time to help, so you have to do what you can.
Don't do it for the sake of face
And suffer from the loss.
Put away the excessive kindness
In fact, sometimes, other people's attitude towards you is not good, and you are used to it.
Because you are too kind, you will suffer these bad things.
Not all people accept your kindness.
In the eyes of some people, your kindness may turn into weakness.
You have no obligation to help everyone.
So,
Put away your excessive kindness,
Protect yourself first.
Put away inappropriate grievances
As you get older, you will have more and more things on your mind.
The grievances suffered will also gradually increase.
However, some people ignore the reality and casually tell others their grievances.
Everyone has their own pain, you tell others, maybe someone will comfort you, someone will listen, but after all, you can't bear it for you.
There is no way to explain the grievances of adults, so you can only digest them slowly.
Instead of complaining constantly,
It's better to laugh every day.
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