"Mom, when Dad was dying, he told you to live a good life and strive for happiness. ”
In 2016, the seventh year of Luo Jing's death, when the news of his wife Liu Jihong's remarriage to a wealthy man caused a lot of criticism, his son Luo Shutong used this sentence to support and encourage his mother's decision to remarry.
Now, it is the 14th year since Luo Jing's death, Liu Jihong's approach is still tearful, and her relationship with Luo Jing is understood by everyone who understands.
Luo Jing, who was born in 1961, is 5 years older than Liu Jihong, and the two read the radio at different times, but for special reasons, the two still met.
Luo Jing's parents are intellectuals, and they grew up in a strong cultural atmosphere since they were children, and their grades are very good, but they have never thought of engaging in the broadcasting industry, and they have never thought of applying for the Beijing Broadcasting Institute.
At that time, it was his good buddy who wanted to apply for Guangyuan, and he was too nervous on the day of the interview, so he pulled his good buddy Luo Jing to give himself courage.
The result of the interview is that the person who wants to take the test is not admitted, and the person who accompanies the test is admitted.
After being admitted to the Guangzhou Academy, Luo Jing felt that he could not waste such a good opportunity, so he chose to enroll.
In 1979, he was admitted to the Broadcasting Department of Beijing Broadcasting Institute.
Before he was admitted, he had almost no contact with broadcasting knowledge, so much so that after entering the school, he worked hard every day to study Xi.
His hard work has made his grades outstanding and has been unanimously recognized by his teachers.
In 1983, the year he graduated, he rejected the invitation from Shanghai TV, accepted the olive branch of CCTV, and entered CCTV.
Since then, he has had a busy but brilliant career.
When he first entered CCTV, it was when CCTV needed high-achieving students, he was entrusted with an important task and was arranged in the position of "News Network", becoming the face of CCTV, and was called "national face" by the audience.
And his professional achievements have become the object of praise from the teachers of his alma mater to his younger students, and many of his younger students are willing to become his fans, including Liu Jihong.
Liu Jihong was born in a cadre family, has loved broadcasting since he was a child, and his ambition since childhood has been to engage in broadcasting.
After being admitted to Beijing Broadcasting Institute, Luo Jing's name was like thunder to her, and because she often saw him on "News Network", she was very familiar with his appearance.
When Liu Jihong was studying in Guangyuan, with her identity as a "disciple of the big courtyard", she was undoubtedly able to get more opportunities to learn Xi than others, for example, she could often go to Professor Li Gang's house with questions to ask for advice.
Professor Li Gang is not only Luo Jing's mentor in broadcasting, but he also bothered to guide Luo Jing, and Luo Jing often returned to his teacher's home to visit after becoming the "face of the country".
Once, when Liu Jihong visited Professor Li Gang, he found that CCTV's "national face" was also in the teacher's home.
After some contact, Liu Jihong found that Luo Jing not only did not have the shelf and pride of celebrities, but was very humble when talking to teachers and teachers, and was also very concerned about teachers and teachers, and was patient and gentle when communicating with her, a younger sister, and her appearance and image were even more gentle and elegant than on TV, which couldn't help but make Liu Jihong's heart beat faster.
After meeting each other and getting along with each other at the teacher's house several times, the wife was more sure that the two of them appreciated each other very strongly, so they decided to help the two young people they liked.
When her wife quietly asked Liu Jihong if she liked Luo Jing, although she was shy, she still told her that she was attracted to Luo Jing.
Similarly, Luo Jing also confessed that he liked Liu Jihong very much when his wife asked.
Don't look at Luo Jing, who is articulate and eloquent in the news broadcast, but he is ashamed to speak when facing feelings, but fortunately, it was his wife who instigated him to confess, so he successfully held hands with Liu Jihong.
After confirming the relationship, like other young couples, there is sweetness at the same time, but also an essential run-in.
Liu Jihong, who was still studying on campus at the time, found it difficult to understand Luo Jing's busyness, and felt aggrieved that the two were obviously very close in terms of geographical distance, but they had very little time to meet.
finally ushered in the date time, but Luo Jing always returned to work quickly because of the leader's **.
Even, sometimes it is clear that the appointment has been made, but Luo Jing fails to make the appointment because of a sudden mission.
After a long time, Liu Jihong gradually felt left out and was very aggrieved.
Luo Jing saw her psychology, so he wrote her a "love letter" for a long time, and won her support and recognition.
He did not say sweet words in the "love letter", but shared his work routine in more detail, so that Liu Jihong could know more specifically what he was busy with.
And the reason why this record similar to the work schedule is regarded as a "love letter" by Liu Jihong is because she feels that a person shares his life with you, although he does not mention love, but he is full of love for you.
The understanding of Luo Jing's work not only made the relationship between the two more stable, but also made Liu Jihong further strengthen his decision to work at CCTV.
After graduating from Beijing Broadcasting Institute, Liu Jihong successfully entered CCTV work.
and Luo Jing went from brothers and sisters to lovers, and then to colleagues in the same unit, so that the daily topics between the two of them are always highly consistent, and they feel that they can't talk enough.
In 1988, the two got married and lived in a small house assigned by CCTV.
At the beginning of their marriage, both parents were very worried about whether it was suitable for two "career-oriented" people to be together.
Until the parents of the two sides met, Liu Jihong practiced several dishes in advance, Luo Jing was busy with her, and the young couple worked together to make a sumptuous meal;After the meal, Liu Jihong just stood up to clean up the dishes and chopsticks, Luo Jing hurriedly seized the position of washing the dishes, and the young couple worked together to complete the cleaning after the meal.
After the parents of both sides saw the performance of the two, the worries in their hearts also disappeared, one was gentle but not arrogant, helping his wife to do housework, and the other was born in a cadre family without the squeamishness of the eldest lady, and Zhang Luo was well organized inside and outside the house.
After marriage, the two worked together in their careers, Luo Jing sat firmly in "News Network" with a sufficiently professional level, and Liu Jihong also shined in his own post.
In 1995, in the seventh year of marriage, the two finally welcomed their son Luo Shutong.
After the birth of her son, Liu Jihong's life focus has been adjusted, and she has devoted more energy to taking care of her son and family, and can be called a good wife and mother.
In terms of the comments of CCTV old-timers, Liu Jihong is really Luo Jing's beloved, after marriage, work and housework are shoulder-to-shoulder, never quarreling or making emotions because of Luo Jing's busyness and disregard for the family, no matter how late her husband comes home from work, she will always make tea to moisten her throat and wait for him, and then talk about work and daily life, there are always endless words, which makes colleagues very envious.
thought that this couple who knew and loved each other would love each other until they were old, but they didn't expect that the feelings in this world are often tribulations.
In 2008, when she learned that her husband Luo Jing was suffering from lymphoma, she cried uncontrollably.
At that time, she really couldn't make up her mind, whether to let her husband know the condition for the first time and be able to better cooperate, or hide it first to avoid the illness from crushing his mentality.
She decided to hide her illness from her husband first and unfolded **, but unexpectedly, Luo Jing learned about the real condition through the doctor.
During that time, Luo Jing, who had learned that he had advanced cancer, was most worried not about his body, but about whether Liu Jihong could stand up when he lost him.
It was also during that time that Luo Jing felt that the biggest regret in his life was that he could not fulfill many promises to Liu Jihong because of his work, and he did not accompany her to see poetry and distant places, and I am afraid it would be difficult to accompany her to old age.
When Luo Jing accepted **, he always maintained a very positive attitude, and even deliberately concealed the true feelings of his body from his wife, and sometimes when the pain was unbearable, he didn't want his wife to know.
But how could Liu Jihong not know, she just didn't want to destroy her husband's kindness and decency, so she pretended not to know, and she didn't shed tears behind her back.
At the time of the 2008 Beijing Olympic Torch Relay, he was one of the 140 torchbearers who successfully carried the Olympic flame.
After that, he returned to his former job and introduced the news related to the Olympic Games to the audience and friends with the familiar spirit and professional broadcasting level.
The audience thought that Luo Jing's body had improved, but they didn't know that he was holding on to the severe pain in his body, and in his own way saying goodbye to his work and audience friends.
On June 5, 2009, when "News Network" broadcast the news of Luo Jing's death, not only his colleague Wang Ning choked up several times during the broadcast, but also the audience lamented it.
After Luo Jing passed away, Liu Jihong cried and fainted several times;When waiting for the ashes to come out in the crematorium, she was supported by her son throughout the whole process to be able to stand.
Luo Jing, who died at the age of 48, is a typical old and young, Liu Jihong was so sad that she almost couldn't get up several times, but when she thought of Luo Jing's entrustment when she was dying, she continued to stand up strongly.
Because Luo Jing told her with guilt before he died that he had not repaid his relatives and unfinished raising his son, he hoped that Liu Jihong could take care of him, but he didn't lose the ability to pursue happiness because he missed him, and he hoped that someone would accompany her for the rest of her life.
Even though Luo Jing is no longer there, she not only takes good care of her in-laws and son, but also goes to his grave every year to talk to him on his death day, from the parents to the current news, she will tell him one by one.
Her mourning for her deceased husband caused many viewers who paid attention to her to tears for a while, calling her a dedicated and affectionate woman, hoping that she would get out of the haze of middle-aged widowhood as soon as possible, and wishing her a happy life.
But later, when I heard the news that she had remarried a wealthy businessman, some people began to make completely opposite evaluations, thinking that her deep affection for her husband before was a bit like attracting attention.
But in fact, when she decided to remarry, not only was it the 7th year after the death of her ex-husband, but the object of marriage had already been found to be a suitable other half after a long period of investigation.
During 2014, Mr. Sun took the initiative to contact Liu Jihong, the purpose of which was because he admired Liu Jihong's deep love and quality, and hoped to help her in life.
Liu Jihong, as the first generation of people, she treats people with both tradition and courtesy, and in the process of contact with Mr. Sun, she appreciates the strength of the other party very much, and is a high-level businessman.
And Mr. Sun also found that she was a person worth pursuing as a partner in his relationship with Liu Jihong, so he bravely pursued her.
Liu Jihong rejected Mr. Sun several times, not because he was not good enough, but because she still missed her ex-husband in her heart;And his son Luo Shutong has gradually grown up, and he really doesn't want his mother to be alone for many years because of the loss of his father, so he mentioned his father's will to his mother again.
After nearly two years of getting along, whether it is her in-laws or son, they are very satisfied with Mr. Sun, and feel that Liu Jihong is a person worthy of trust, and the family has tried their best to promote the marriage of Liu Jihong and Mr. Sun.
Liu Jihong, who remarried in 2016, still has not stopped supporting Luo Jing's parents, and will still go to his grave to talk to him on June 5 every year, and will bring some things he loved to eat before his death.
Now in the 14th year of Luo Jing's death, the person he loves shows up at his grave every year to talk to him, his parents and children are well cared for, and he hopes to find a happy wife again with someone to be with, and I hope he can rest in heaven.