Mom is coming to stay in the city for a few days, and you have to take good care of her!Wife: I'm an outsider, so I'm not going to accompany me for the time being
In recent times, the performance of the factory has been poor, with scarce orders and a lack of supply. In order to alleviate the situation, the factory leaders decided to give the employees a few days off and wait for orders to pick up before returning to normal work.
Yuqing returned home and told her husband the news of the factory holiday. The husband was ecstatic and smiled from ear to ear: "Great!".Great!You can take a good rest during the holidays. Some time ago, your factory was too busy, and you had to work overtime every day in order to urge the goods. Seeing that you are tired, your face has lost weight, and your chin is pointy, I really feel distressed!Tomorrow you go to the market to buy more delicious food, and you can raise fat at home in the past two days!”
The next day, Yuqing deliberately slept a little longer and didn't get up until nine o'clock in the morning. When I was about to go to the bathroom to wash my hands, my husband Junjie's ** called: "Yuqing, just now my mother called ** and said that I want to come to the city to live for two days." In the past two days, she has not been feeling well and her blood pressure is a little high. The doctor suggested that she rest for two days, my sister's child is small and can't take care of it, can you work hard and help me take care of my mother?”
As soon as Yuqing heard her husband mention her mother, a wave of anger suddenly surged in her heart. Recalling all the bullies her mother-in-law had given her before, her eyes couldn't help but redden. Facing the phone screen, she suppressed her anger and responded: "You want me to serve your mother?".There are no doors!Have you forgotten how she treated me before?How can the original grudge be easily forgotten?She did it to herself, she chose a path, and she didn't expect me to bear it for her. She lives at your sister's house, let your sister take care of her!I'm not her obligatory pensioner, so what does her illness have to do with me?”
Yuqing hung up the ** without hesitation, still angry and her chest rose and fell violently. She couldn't suppress the crying in her heart, remembering the unborn child, it was an eternal pain in her heart!
Yuqing and her husband Junjie met through a mutual friend's introduction, and the villages where the two families live are not far apart. At the beginning, Yuqing worked in a supermarket, and Junjie succeeded his father in a state-owned enterprise. Junjie's father is a veteran employee of the state-owned enterprise and is very popular, and when he retired, he arranged for his son to work in the unit.
The relationship between the two was well known to the two parents, and at that time, Junjie's family conditions were not particularly good, and he could only be regarded as ordinary in the countryside. However, Junjie's mother has a different view, she believes that her son is a state worker, receives a state salary, and has a stable job. In her eyes, marrying her son is Yuqing's honor.
When Yuqing and Junjie got married, Junjie's mother was only willing to pay a bride price of 10,000 yuan. She said to Yuqing: "Junjie's conditions are good, so I don't have to worry about finding a girlfriend." I have rejected several family proposals, you two like each other, and I can't stop you. Our family can only pay a bride price of 10,000 yuan, so you and Junjie should get married as soon as possible. ”
Yuqing believes that the amount of the wedding bride price is not an important thing, the most important thing is the relationship between the two. She is deeply in love with Junjie, and Junjie is deeply in love with her. Leaving Junjie for some bride price issues will be a lifelong regret for her, missing out on happiness and true love.
After entering her mother-in-law's house, in order to integrate into her husband's family more quickly, Yuqing often buys clothes, daily necessities and gifts for her mother-in-law and sister-in-law. The two were not grateful, and after accepting these things, the mother-in-law also reproached her from time to time: "Remember, the family's money is not blown by a strong wind, you must save a little, don't spend all the money you earn and my son's money, and know how to live a thrifty life." ”
The sister-in-law is even more jealous of her sister-in-law, who used to like to buy fruit when she came home, but now she always saves the best for her sister-in-law. She complained in front of her mother: "My brother married an outsider and alienated our whole family. ”
The mother-in-law did not treat her daughter-in-law as her own in her heart. The daughter is reluctant to call, and the daughter-in-law not only has to do housework and cooking, but also has to help with the work in the fields, which is not like a family at all.
When Yuqing was pregnant, due to severe pregnancy reactions, she had a sour mouth, couldn't eat, and sometimes was a picky eater. But her mother-in-law didn't care about this, regardless of Yuqing's physical condition, and only cared about her own family's affairs. She obviously doesn't have much sympathy for her daughter-in-law and sees her as an outsider. Seeing her daughter-in-law squatting on the ground and spitting sour water, she even said: "I was like this when I was pregnant with Junjie, but I was not as squeamish as you." I was doing everything, harvesting wheat in the field, and I was cutting wheat in the field with a sickleDon't always think that if Junjie is here, you have to take special care of you. I can't do that much. ”
After Yuqing gave birth to her son, her mother-in-law refused to serve her confinement on the grounds that she was busy with the fields, thinking that eating a big pot of rice was enough, and it was too troublesome to cook a separate meal. Yuqing didn't even dare to make any requests, and her mother-in-law was very dissatisfied when she saw her dark face, and she didn't want to worry about her more. If you talk too much, you are afraid that your mother-in-law will be angry, and she may even not cook to make her hungry.
After her son's birthday celebration, her mother-in-law suddenly proposed to separate her from the young couple. She said that she was old and frail, with back pain and leg pain, and could not take care of so many people. A part of the field was also given to Yuqing, who was more relaxed and no longer helped with his grandson. Yuqing not only has to take care of the children and do housework every day, but also has to work in the fields, and sometimes she doesn't even have time to eat, and her mother-in-law is indifferent to this. Sometimes the child cries hoarsely, and she pretends that nothing happened. However, in front of outsiders, the mother-in-law is good at pretending, holding the child and saying "good, good", and blaming Yuqing for not taking the child.
After the sister-in-law got married, her mother-in-law accompanied her with a dowry of tens of thousands of yuan. When the son-in-law came, the mother-in-law's attitude towards him changed 180 degrees and she was hospitable, for fear that the son-in-law would no longer treat her as a mother-in-law. She often visits her daughter's house to help with housework, even if her daughter is wronged, she would rather endure it.
Yuqing is pregnant with her second child, and it is the busy farming season. Junjie took two days off work to help her harvest her crops. Junjie moved the threshed corn to the roof of the second floor to dry, and then went to work.
Yuqing and her mother-in-law's residence are only separated by a wall, and they can talk to each other while standing on the roof. The mother-in-law also dried the corn on the roof of the building, and the sister-in-law's field was in charge of the mother-in-law, so she didn't need to worry too much about it, and occasionally came back to help her mother-in-law.
After lunch that day, Yuqing felt a little tired and lay down in bed to take a break. Suddenly, a thunderclap woke her up. She immediately remembered that the corn drying on the roof had not yet been collected, and hurried upstairs.
Upstairs opposite, the mother-in-law and sister-in-law had already packed up their corn and were sorting out the farm tools. Seeing that the rainstorm was coming, Yuqing was worried that her corn would be soaked by the rain. She stood upstairs anxiously and shouted to her mother-in-law: "Mom, come and help me, it's going to rain soon!."”
The mother-in-law answered the voice, but did not move, and was still unhurriedly tidying up the bottom field. Yuqing saw that there was no hope, so she could only hurriedly take the bag and fill the corn by herself. She scrambled to finish and hauled the corn to a sheltered place from the rain. Heavy raindrops began to fall on the roof of the building, and the field that was not treated in time was soaked by rainwater. At this time, the mother-in-law came over with an umbrella.
Yuqing was exhausted, and her stomach ached. She watched the scene of her mother-in-law neatly tidying upstairs, and she didn't know when she and her sister-in-law had gone downstairs, and her mother-in-law didn't come over until this moment. I feel that God has eyes, at least her corn was recovered in time.
She felt dizzy, sprained her foot when she went downstairs, and sat on the stairs with her butt on the steps. Suddenly, a stream of blood flowed out of her lower abdomen, and there was a cramping pain in her stomach. She was so frightened that she didn't dare to move, felt the blood on the steps, and muttered, "My child." Then she broke down and burst into tears. The mother-in-law hurriedly called her son ** and asked him to rush back.
Yuqing's lips turned pale, and the cramps in her lower abdomen flare-up from time to time, and the pain spread throughout her body in an instant. She knew that the child could not be saved, and the blood stains and blood clots clearly indicated that the child had been lost.
The mother-in-law found someone to take her to the hospital, and the doctor told her that the child had been lost and that she had to be sent home because of the incomplete formalities. Yuqing's heart was like ashes, but her mother-in-law showed concern: "You are still young, and you will have a chance to have children in the future." Yuqing was so angry that she burst into tears and roared loudly: "You go away, I hate you!".”
Since then, Yuqing has stopped dating her mother-in-law, and she has not considered having children anymore. When her son was a little older, Yuqing sent him to school, and the family's crops were rented to others to grow. She rented a house in the city, got a job, and struggled with Junjie for a living!
Junjie is young and promising, and has recently performed well in the unit, and has even been promoted to leader. The couple quickly settled down in the city, bought a spacious house, and lived happily ever after.
After Yuqing left her hometown, her sister-in-law also welcomed her own child, and her mother-in-law has been helping to take care of her grandson at her sister-in-law's house. As time passed, the sister-in-law's children had already gone to early education classes, and the mother-in-law had become old and faltering. The sister-in-law was worried that the responsibility for the elderly was too heavy, so she decided to send her mother-in-law home.
As soon as the mother-in-law arrived home, she began to miss her son and longed to go back to his son's house. This is the second time I have called my son, and last time Yuqing refused without hesitation. This time, it is estimated that Junjie thinks that she is on vacation and can take care of her mother by the way.
How could Yuqing forget the pain of losing her child back then?Back at that time, if one of the mother-in-law and sister-in-law had stayed on the roof to help her clean up the cornfield or come over to help, she would not have been in a hurry, drenched in soup, and would not have been tired and flustered. She went downstairs dizzy, slipped on the soles of her feet and fell down the stairs, losing her unformed baby.
In the dead of night, Yuqing often dreamed of that painful experience, and tears soaked the pillow towel. If the fetus could be saved, it would be a teenager by now. She has always dreamed of having a daughter, growing up with her son, and being a happy mother with both children and daughters. Now that dream has been shattered, the sadness and helplessness of that time are still deeply engraved in her heart. At that time, she resolutely decided not to have children, and now she works hard to get her mother-in-law to change her opinion of her, just to gain a little respect. Even though she has everything now, the loss of the child is still an eternal pain in her heart.
Her resentment towards her mother-in-law will never be forgotten. The mother-in-law never cared about her, and in her heart, her daughter-in-law was an outsider and was not worth caring about at all. If you let your mother-in-law come to live here, face her every day, and think of that child, you will simply live in constant pain and torture.
Although Junjie wanted to practice filial piety, Yuqing did not stop him. After all, the love between mother and son is deep, and blood is thicker than water. The city is only a few kilometers away from home, and it can be reached in ten minutes by car. In the future, if her mother-in-law is unable to take care of herself, she will ask Junjie to hire a nanny to take care of his mother, which can be regarded as fulfilling her obligations. But it would be unacceptable to kidnap her morally as a daughter-in-law and ask her to take care of her elderly mother-in-law. How can the pain of the year be easily relieved!