Whether it is a man or a woman, once you enter into marriage, there will be some potential worries;
Women are worried that men are spending all day drinking outside and are irresponsible to their families, and men are even more afraid that their wives will "cuckold" themselves and make themselves lose face in front of outsiders;
For men, it is a great shame for a wife to betray herself and cheat on other men, and many men can't swallow this bad breath;
However, there are some women who are emotionally empty and unfaithful to their marriage, and their husbands also have some responsibility;
After learning about several cases of women cheating, I found that men who are easy to be cuckolded have one thing in common:
That is, to be obedient to his wife and to regard himself as a provider of his wife.
After listening to an emotional program, a man often wanders outside, because he knows that he doesn't have much time to accompany his wife, and he loves his wife very much, so he chooses to be obedient to women, so as to compensate and comfort his wife;
However, the wife cheated on other people, even if the man is very responsible for the family, works hard outside, earns a lot of money to supplement the family, and usually shushs his wife;
However, the woman betrayed him "without hesitation", and he did not do it;
However, after gaining a deeper understanding of the interaction between the two of them, the emotional host told him that marriage needs to be managed, and it is not just to be good to his wife if he obeys her words;
On real matters of principle, men should not indulge women, nor should they fail to correct women's wrong ways of thinking;
If a man puts women first in everything, does not dare to have any of his own opinions, and is even willing to be good to women at all costs, then men actually regard women as their own accessories;
Just imagine, when a man wanders in society and sees the world, his wife is responsible for taking care of the housework at home, like a canary in a cage, unable to be self-reliant, and inevitably spiritually empty;
If the husband only gives his wife satisfaction in terms of money and material, but does not really interact with her, then the woman will actually feel bored and bored in this marriage
Men suppress their needs and blindly please their wives will actually make their wives feel lonely inside;
It will also make his wife "look down" on herself to a certain extent, feeling that they are pleasing and catering to themselves everywhere, and they cannot have spiritual resonance and flow with themselves.
Therefore, a man who is obedient to his wife will give a woman comfort, but he may not be able to give a woman happiness.
Women are very eager for love, and if men don't care about their women, they may let men outside "take advantage of it";
Some marriages are based on money, and some are based on love;
However, no matter how different women's "original intentions" are in the face of marriage, they crave the thoughtfulness and love of men during their long married life;
This kind of love is not material abundance, but spiritual harmony;
They do not want to be reduced to worthless "accessories", but hope to participate in social activities like men, and become people who can take charge of themselves
If a man just cares for a small pet, let the woman teach her husband and children at home, and become a safe family logistician, but he rarely communicates with the woman and does not care about their deep-seated needs, believing that the woman's heart will be very lonely and empty;
Therefore, love is not indulgence, but restraint;
Even if a man feels sorry for his wife, he is not unprincipled in pampering;
In marriage, only two people who are of equal strength and in love can ensure the greatest probability that they will grow old and wait for each other
For the sake of the happiness and harmony of marriage and family, please let women go, to bear what they should bear, to change what they need to change, to let them be independent, to realize their own value, instead of letting their spiritual world be very lacking, resulting in their own marriage being a mess.
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