How cute is the "Broken Friendship Book" for elementary school students?Signed handprints, only three words a day!
There are many people in your life, but very few can truly become friends. If you can find like-minded and sympathetic friends, it can be described as a valuable asset.
Friendship as a student is especially precious because it is not bound by interests, it is pure and clear. In the adult world, conflicts between friends may be resolved through rational dialogue, and a single meal may solve the problem. But for elementary school students, friendships can be broken in an instant because of an eraser or a game, or even a "broken letter" will be written.
How cute the "Broken Friendship Book" for elementary school students is!With signatures and handprints, it is limited to only three sentences per day. The children's minds are simple-minded, and small conflicts and frictions are resolved in the way of minors, in this way to show their attitude and let the other party realize their determination. Although the children's words reveal simplicity and cuteness, they can't help but laugh.
Elementary school students are in the stage of naivety and ignorance, and when faced with things they don't like, they don't handle things like adults. In their world, there is nothing black and white, only right and wrong. For a classmate, not licking the cap of a yogurt bottle is an unacceptable behavior for him, and it seems that his parents taught him to cherish food and not waste it. Judging from the description, he also knows a lot about idioms, and tyrannical things are at least the vocabulary of junior high school students.
This letter is simple and direct, concise and to the point, with only four words in the subject: "We are finished";But are you sure the other person can understand what you mean when they see it?Especially at the end, he specially added a sentence "Say up to 3 words a day", it seems that he is still reluctant to this friendship. Although the boat of friendship can be overturned, it can sail again after a few words.
Who is your best friend?This is a question that can be difficult for adults to answer, especially in front of friends, who can offend people no matter how they answer. In the concept of friendship among elementary school students, there can be many friends, but there are often "small groups" in which each other are best friends, and once someone leaves, "mutiny" becomes a foregone conclusion.
A classmate was dissatisfied with his two former best friends because of his proximity to another classmate, so he wrote a letter of renunciation, and even used words like "cheating".
It is normal for students to have conflicts with each other, and parents should avoid being too extreme to avoid adverse effects. Primary school students are not yet mentally mature, and conflicts are commonplaceHowever, today's parents pay much more attention to their children than they used to be, and do not want to see their children wronged at school. As a result, some parents may take drastic action when they learn that their children are in conflict with their classmates, and deal with the problem in the same way as an adult, often with the opposite effect.
It is often said that children do not hold grudges after fighting, even if they are still fighting just now, and after wiping their tears, they can play happily together. In their cognition, there is no such thing as "suffering", and the so-called suffering is mostly the idea of parents. Although every parent has an instinct to love their children, taking a strong approach to problems may help their children on the surface, but in fact it may be counterproductive.
For example, two boys in the third grade "kick the butt" and "trip and wrestle" each other during recess, and one of them goes home and tells his parents. For children, it may just be sharing interesting things in school, even if they feel aggrieved at the time, but it does not affect the interest of going to school.
As a result, the two parents quarreled in the group, and even developed to the point of a fight, and even alarmed ** and the Education Bureau the next day. However, the head teacher described that while the parents clashed, the two students had reconciled.
Students still have a long way to go, and interpersonal communication and relationship handling are also a compulsory course. As a parent, you should be careful not to interfere too much, just make sure that your children are safe, and you don't need to take the problems between your children too seriously.
If your child is overprotected and doesn't allow for a bit of conflict, it will only limit your child's space for movement and opportunities for exploration. In the long run, other students may isolate and reject contact with him, which will undoubtedly do more harm than good to the child's development.
Second, stay relaxed. After your child has expressed his or her emotions, he or she should accept them and adopt a helping attitude to help them deal with them. Don't rush to criticize right and wrong, and don't impose your own opinions on your children. Encourage children to think on their own about how to get along with others, so that they can have a growing experience in conflict and disputes.
Author's Message: Students have their own rules for getting along with each other, and even if they face problems, they have their own ways to solve them. Eager intervention by parents can deprive children of opportunities to grow. Giving children enough security and space for self-processing is the most important thing parents should do.
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