How cute is the "Broken Letter" of elementary school students signed by handprints, and only three sentences a day?
In a person's life, there will be many people who have passed by, but only a few of them have become true friends in the end. If there are like-minded people who cherish each other and share the same mind, it can be described as a valuable asset.
Between friends, especially the friendship of the student days, it is the most precious, without the impurities of interest, clear and pure. In contrast, conflicts between adults are more rational and can be easily resolved in an open and honest way. But for elementary school students, their friendship is not so strong, because a piece of eraser and a game can cause conflicts, and even evolve into writing a "broken friendship letter".
How cute is the "Broken Friendship Book" for elementary school students?With a signature and handprint, speak a maximum of three sentences.
Elementary school students are simple-minded, and even if there are small contradictions and frictions, they will deal with them in the way of minors, such as writing a "letter of renunciation". This not only allows the other party to express their position, but also allows the other party to perceive each other's "determination". However, children are children after all, and their words always reveal innocence and cuteness, which makes people laugh.
Elementary school students are in a period of naïve ignorance, and when they encounter intolerable things, they will not handle them as tactfully as adults. In their world, it's black and white, and there is only right and wrong. For Li in the article, not licking the yogurt bottle cap is an unacceptable behavior for him. It seems that his parents must have told him in his daily life to cherish food and not waste it. And judging from the text description, he is not ignorant of idioms, and the word tyrannical things is at least at the junior high school level.
This letter of renunciation is simple, direct and domineering, concise and to the point, and the subject is only four words: "We are finished". It's just that are you sure that the other person can understand what you mean after seeing it?
The cutest thing is that the end is specially added with a sentence "Say up to 3 words a day", it seems that I am still reluctant to give up on this friendship. Although the boat of friendship is said to be overturned, after a few words, it may be able to set sail again.
Who is your best friend?This is a question that can be difficult for adults to answer, especially when asked by friends, and whoever answers seems likely to offend someone. In the concept of friendship among elementary school students, there can be many friends, but there are often "small groups" formed, in which each other are best friends. Once someone breaks away from the "organization", it is considered a "mutiny".
Because of his proximity to Zhang, this classmate Wang attracted the displeasure of the original two good friends, so he wrote a letter of renunciation, and even used words like "pit meng abduction".
It is normal for students to have conflicts with each other, and parents must not act aggressively to avoid adverse effects. Primary school students are not yet mentally mature, and the contradictions between them are normal, who did not cross the 38th line on the desk when they were young?However, today's parents pay much more attention to their children than before, and they are reluctant to let their children suffer a little grievance and loss at school.
Therefore, once they learn that their child has a conflict with their classmates at school, some parents may react aggressively and think and deal with it from an adult's perspective. However, the results may not only fail to help the child, but may backfire.
It is often said that children do not hold grudges after fighting, even if they are still arguing just now, they may wipe away tears and play happily together. In their cognition, there is no concept of "suffering", and the so-called suffering is only the idea of parents. Every parent has the instinct to love their children, but if they take a tough approach, it seems to be an outlet for their children, but in fact it just satisfies their own competitiveness.
Take the example of two boys in the third grade who "kick their butts" and "trip and wrestle" each other during recess, and one of them went home and told his parents. For the child, it may just be sharing interesting things in school, even if he feels a little aggrieved at the time, but it does not affect the mood of school.
However, the result was that the parents of both sides had an argument in the group, and even prepared to confront each other, and the next day they also alarmed ** and the Education Bureau. However, the head teacher described that the two students had reconciled when the parents clashed.
Students still have a long way to go, and interpersonal communication and relationship handling are also a compulsory course. As a parent, don't interfere too much, as long as you can ensure the safety of your children, you don't need to pay too much attention to the problems between children.
If you protect your child too well and don't allow any collisions, you'll only sacrifice your child's space and opportunities to explore. In the long run, other students will isolate and exclude contact with him, which will definitely do more harm than good for the child's development.
Although parents are not encouraged to intervene in conflicts between students, parents should also intervene in a reasonable way to help them grow up physically and mentally. Parents should remember the principle that no matter what happens, parents are the strongest protection for their children. When a child has a conflict at school, the first thing to determine is whether the child is joking or being bullied. If it's just a normal fight, you can remind your child to pay attention to the scale and not to hurt vulnerable parts, such as the head and eyes. However, if it is obvious school bullying, parents must communicate with teachers to fight for the legitimate rights and interests of their children.
The second is to relax the mind, after the child has expressed his emotions, he should accept them and help them deal with them with a helpful attitude. Don't immediately criticize right and wrong, and don't impose your own opinions on your children. Encourage him to think about how to get along with others on his own, so that the child can enhance the sense of experience in conflicts and disputes.
Author's message: Students have their own rules of survival, and even if they encounter problems, they have their own ways to deal with them. If parents are eager to interfere, it will deprive them of opportunities to grow. Giving children enough security and space for self-processing is the most important thing parents should do.
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