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I believe that there are many friends who are extremely concerned about their future health and retirement life in daily life. The reason is that this life is too short. If you can't put your mind down and enter a state of slow life when you are old
Then many people will feel that their lives are meaningless. From morning to night;From young busy to old;From seeing off your parents to welcoming your grandchildren. It seems that this is the case for this life. In fact, there are other ways to live.
If people have reached middle age, then the most conservative and effective state of slow life can undoubtedly be summed up in one word. The word is: hidden. Specifically, zang can refer to a specific state of life;A way of life for people;
and a life choice that actively avoids the distractions of the world. To put it simply, hiding means taking the initiative to stay away from those complicated things. The simpler the thinking in the brain, the better, and the less complicated your life is, the better. Why do you say that?
In fact, just give an example of a causal cycle to fully understand. In the classic fantasy ** "Reckless Wasteland" created by the platinum god I eat tomatoes, the sword immortal Tonghe Tianxian is to hide the way to avoid the entanglement of various cause and effect.
One of the sentences goes like this: If I don't say I'm dead, many old friends will contact me. After going back and forth, it becomes a lot of complex and entangled cause and effect. As the saying goes, if there is a cause, there must be an effect, and if you want to have no effect, you must first cut off the cause.
Some friends may put forward many opposite examples when they see this title: for example, China is a humane society, visiting relatives and friends is completely unavoidable, not connecting with the world is equivalent to being abandoned by society, and so on. But what we should see more is the state of life.
In short, if you want to have a simple, lazy life, you have to avoid the so-called connections mentioned above. Just like drinking tea, from the beginning of tea washing and tea making, you must fully enter the state of tea tasting, otherwise you will not feel that drinking tea is a very wonderful thing.
From this point of view, Tibet's state of life is undoubtedly indifferent and indisputable. This kind of indifference and indisputability is manifested in daily behavior, and only in this way can we avoid those traps of luring interests. The state of hiding is to adapt to the slow pace.
After all, when people get old, their body functions and thinking speed will decline significantly. At this time, if you can't adjust your slower lifestyle as soon as possible, then there is no need to talk about longevity. In other words, impatience cannot support a person to fight death alone.
In the ancient traditional culture of our country, the longer the life expectancy of the elderly, the more it is worth celebrating and rejoicing. Therefore, the cultural gene connotation reflected is that people adapt slowly to nature, and this state of longevity can also play a role in encouraging people.
When it comes to living in the world, countless people must have their own unique answers in their hearts. So the way of life here is not a macro narrative in a broad sense.
It can only be a vague guideline. Specifically, the Tibetan way of life is to adapt to the slow pace of everything, and to find the best path after peeling back the cocoon. Just as the legislation is supposed to prove that the damage it causes to the interests of citizens is necessary and reasonable
This way of life requires a break from the inherent habit of self-centeredness. In everything, you should think more about and think about others, so as not to bring unreasonable and unnecessary harm to yourself. This is the way of life that can be summed up by the word Tibet.
It is worth mentioning that Zang is not deliberately encouraging people to remain indifferent and cowardly. Rather, it is about trying to reduce the amount of trouble, or rather, to reduce the likelihood of it. Then make your life more peaceful and smooth. For example, when a person reaches middle age, it does not mean that he or she can act bravely, but that he or she should carefully consider whether the consequences of his situation and actions can be fully bearable. If you don't think about it clearly, then the impact of the aftermath is very great.
In fact, this sentence is also very reasonable in the process of interpersonal communication. That is, you can afford to respect your friends who may sometimes come uninvited;Friends you put the effort to socialize with are likely to not lend a helping hand when they are suffering.
I believe that many people have a deep understanding of this situation and feeling. When people enter the state of middle age, they should actually stay away from these worldly disturbances. Because when people reach middle age, unfavorable factors in various aspects begin to appear and gradually expand.
For example, social marginalization under unemployment;Decentralization of family status is insecure;the weakness of the loss of prestige in front of the children, and so on. In this situation, if you still have to gamble wholeheartedly, then it is very likely to win a very painful ending.
For middle-aged people, they are already halfway through the course of their lives. The remaining half has to be well planned and intended. Because children also need an independent growth environment and space to start a family. I won't accommodate my parents anymore.
And if people don't wake up until they reach old age, it's already too late. Therefore, the main secret of longevity and health after entering middle age is not to worry about it, not to take it to heart, and to avoid those trivial things as much as possible.
Someone once said that most of the meaning of life is concentrated in the second half of the period. Because during this period, we already had an understanding of the overall rules of social operation, and also understood what human beings and individuals should do. And only when you know can you do it well.
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