said that he would go back to school, but my mother was very worried about what would happen if he still didn't go when the time came!A mother consulted her child at home when he was out of school, and when she saw him, she was more worried about his mental state and asked me what to do
I said that you just keep worrying about Hu anxiety here, in fact, there is no essential meaning, your child must come step by step, where has he gone now, has he opened his heart to you, has he talked to you, has he said his heart, these have not been said, the child is alone there in the same place, when the time comes, he will definitely not go, now he has opened up with you, has said his confusion, his anxiety, his pain, you have to dare to poke him, dare to face the problem to burst this bubble, not that he agreed, his state itself is not good, when the time comes, he will definitely not goļ¼Open your heart, he is anxious and worried, you also help him solve it, his heart is constantly solid, he can really go, not you are here to repeatedly worry about blowing a bubble, and finally blowing up, there is no essential meaning, so do a good job step by step, the child can really return to school!
The ideology of parents is to raise children as pets, the school is to raise children to be problem-making machines, and the society is to raise children into wasteI just let parents have a high-dimensional cognition, see clearly the chaos of the family, school, and society, and use the true educational logic of doing things to upgrade the dimension, so as to completely solve the problems of depression, lying down, hating school, not going to school, etc.!