I said I'd go next year, but I'm worried that he won't go next year!A mother's counseling is that the child is depressed and does not go to school, which is the case, and the child does not eat tablets or consult, so the mother does not know what to do.
I said that in fact, in this state, the mother needs to be the child's mentor, don't be in this state and you don't care, see that his state is getting better day by day, so it's okay, in fact, it's like a wound on the surface, but he is not good inside!This mother still has to go through 3 steps in a solid way!
The first step is to sort out your parent-child relationship so that your child can trust him and you can get close to him.
The second step is for the child to open up to the question of why he doesn't want to go to school anymore and how he positions himself.
He wants to take the first test, always about 30 people in the test, hard work is useless, classmates evaluate him, the teacher said that he, and he himself does not recognize himself, in the second step is that parents want to help him adjust his mind and mind, help the child recognise himself and reposition himself!Until the third step, he will be able to go to school next year, otherwise, you will watch the child just wait for a day, and next year he may go for a day and come back the next day, or directly to that time or not, parents must work in a solid manner, and the child can really return to school next year!
The ideology of parents is to raise children as pets, the school is to raise children to be problem-making machines, and the society is to raise children into wasteI just let parents have a high-dimensional cognition, see clearly the chaos of the family, school, and society, and use the true educational logic of doing things to upgrade the dimension, so as to completely solve the problems of depression, lying down, hating school, not going to school, etc.!