This article takes the true story of Qiu Ya's mother as a clue, keeps it true, does not exaggerate, does not make up, and restores the customs and culture, living environment and family trivialities of the older generation in the rural areas of Northeast China.
The little widow sat alone on the kang and stared at the two swallows on the telephone pole outside the window.
From time to time they chase each other, flying and playing, and from time to time they snuggle up and whisper.
She suddenly felt ** nervous, her whole body was hot, and she stared at the door anxiously, knowing that the big donkey would not come back, but she was still looking forward to it.
The little widow was a little irritable, and supper was ready, and the rice was cooked, and a few dried pickle gnocchi and muchila were on the table, but the big donkey had not yet returned from work.
In their twenties, the demand for sex is very strong, and it is easy to be stimulated, and once there is a craving, it is difficult to suppress it anymore.
She began to scold in her heart: Damn, I must have gone to Liangdong again, I don't know how that slut ** him?Leaving his soul there, and not going for a few days is like a thorn, and he is uncomfortable ...... deathThe little widow vented for a while, her body relaxed, and she felt much better, but she felt sad again: although she married a man, what is the difference between this and the original widow?Instead, there is more housework, but fortunately, I can get by in terms of spending money.
Otherwise, he took his son alone, became both a mother and a father, and had no income, only guarding a few acres of thin fields, and his life was really bad, which is also the reason why he swallowed his anger and stayed in this family.
It's been more than a year since I got married, and the two of them were really enthusiastic at first, and at that time he said that he would be good to him for the rest of his life, but after only a few months, he became cold, and the life in his mouth was really short!Since Liu Guiying made a fuss last autumn, he has been absent-minded, and he went to Liangdong to find Liu Guiying in three days, and he made an excuse at the beginning, but he didn't explain it after a long time.
Less and less intimacy and communication, so that the relationship between the two people is more and more estranged, and the husband and wife only have occasional drunken impulsive behavior, as long as there is interest, even a sow he does not dislike.
Because he couldn't control the big donkey, the little widow often quarreled with him, and the two of them became more and more fierce, and he became more and more lazy to go home, and liked to go to Liu Guiying to enjoy.
Therefore, after getting off work today, the big donkey naturally went to Liu Guiying's house.
Liu Guiying planned to marry the little widow into the door for her son, and knew that she had to pass the test of the big donkey, so during this time, she tried her best to be gentle and considerate to the big donkey.
She knew in her heart that she had a lot of dreams at night, and she had to marry her son and the little widow as soon as possible, otherwise in another year and a half, the big donkey would have no interest in her, and no matter how good she was to him, it would be useless.
At night, as soon as she fell asleep, Liu Guiying couldn't wait to push the strong arm of the big donkey, and said in a gentle tone: "Hey!."Big boss, I have something I've always wanted to discuss with you, can I say it's okay now?"What's the matter?".The big donkey asked in a deep voice, he was a little alert, whenever Liu Guiying spoke like this, he must have asked for him.
Hmmm......What do you think of giving the little widow to Zhijie?"What?What are you kidding?So how's that going to work?This is unacceptable ......The big donkey was embarrassed to say the following words.
Why not?The kids are willing too. ”
Liu Guiying became more and more coquettish.
Your son is willing, right?Not necessarily a little widow. ”
You ask her why she doesn't want toHow does she know?" "Hmmm......Not really, it's just. "The big donkey always makes excuses to refuse.
Hmph!You just don't treat us as **, what's wrong with my son?It's not that he lacks arms and legs, he has a good physique, is hardworking and capable, and is a good partner.
Liu Guiying pushed the big donkey away, although she was angry in her heart, but her tone was mixed with squeamishness.
Seeing that the big donkey was silent, she continued to persuade: "Brother Lai has lost his mother since he was a child, and he has not enjoyed any blessings, only I treat her as my own daughter." ”
The big donkey scratched his head and said helplessly, "That's ......."Alas!I. I still don't think it's appropriate. ”
Why isn't it appropriate?Can't you explain it to me?Can you find someone more comfortable than me to marry her?Liu Guiying raised her voice with some dissatisfaction.
Not really. ”
The big donkey didn't want to continue the discussion, and after saying that, he pretended to close his eyes and sleep.
Liu Guiying turned around angrily, turned her back to the big donkey and said indignantly: "It's better to find someone who is good to her than to find someone she can't controlAt least with me, she won't be angry.
Think about it yourself, there's nothing particularly outstanding about your brother.
What kind of person are you looking for?The big donkey didn't want to amuse her, and muttered to himself: "This wife is really thoughtful, and cares not only about her father, but also about her daughter, but I really have no reason to refuse at the moment."
That's right!It should start with my brother, and if she doesn't agree, I have something to say. ”
The two no longer communicate with each other and fall asleep sullenly.
When she got up in the morning, Liu Guiying glanced at the big donkey with her spare eyes and found that his face still had the emotions of last night.
The big donkey only cares about tidying himself up, and anyone who talks to him, he just copes with "uh-huh, oh-oh".
Liu Guiying pretended that nothing had happened in a low voice, and continued to serve the big donkey to eat and drink very patiently, and then sent him to work.
The big donkey was a little moved and thought: To be honest, this woman is really good to me, what a rare wife.
In the evening, the big donkey came home from work and found the gate open, rode his bicycle directly into the yard, and did not stop until it was under the windowsill.
The little widow, who was feeding the pigs, came up with a bucket of swill and mocked, "You've been fed again!"Came back idle and idle?The big donkey did not defend himself, and felt that the little widow had some point, after all, she would not pester herself for pleasure.
After dinner, when there was no one, the big donkey tentatively said to the younger brother: "Daughter, what do you think of Aunt Liangdong's family?"Pretty good!It's been more than ten days since I've been back, and I'm planning to stay for a while!As soon as Liu Guiying's home was mentioned, the younger brother immediately became excited.
You don't understand what Dad means, I mean you should be able to stay once in a while, but you will definitely get tired of staying for a long time. ”
So what to do?I always stay there, don't they get annoyed?The younger brother looked very sensible, but felt that his father didn't know the depths.
Alas!Let's be honest. Let me tell you something. Your Aunt Wang wants you to marry Zhijie, we can't agree, right?In the future, you have to find a capable son-in-law. ”
The big donkey is obviously guiding his daughter, hoping that she is unwilling.
Zhijie is very capable!He can do anything. ”
Brother Lai said casually.
The big donkey accentuated his tone and stared at his younger brother: "Are you Zhijie's sweetheart?"Would you like to marry him?"Why not?".If I hadn't found it a little inconvenient to stay at his house every day, I wouldn't have come back!is watched by his mother every day, and he even has to be careful when eating. ”
After speaking, he glanced through the window at the little widow who was standing at the gate chatting with others.
When you become his daughter-in-law, it will definitely be different, and it is impossible to receive the same treatment every day. ”
The big donkey further analyzes the stakes and tries to dispel her thoughts.
The younger brother was a little unimpressed, and asked, "Will there be a gap in that way?"Feel like a family anymore?The big donkey sighed: "Alas!."You're still young, and there are some things you don't understand yet. ”
The younger brother said loudly: "There are children in the village who are about the same age as me. ”
When the big donkey heard this, the younger brother was already in a hurry to get married!If you forcibly block this family business, you can actually do it, and the younger brother can't change the status quo.
But she and her stepmother often had conflicts, quarreled frequently, and ran to Liangdong Liu Guiying's house when she got angry, she was more diligent than herself, and she didn't want to come back when she got there.
Even if she is still young now, she can wait another two years, and it is estimated that nothing will change by then.
I also discovered that the two children are already sensible and often play with each other, coupled with Liu Guiying's help, sooner or later it will become a reality!It's better to be favored, Liu Guiying is happy, and she is also worry-free.
Now my brother is 100% willing, and he didn't send his daughter to the door to please Liu Guiying, so he was at ease.
Besides, Liu Guiying is right, even if you can marry someone who is Gao Pan, can you get someone else?With her temper, she will be sent back in two and a half days, and she has a bad relationship with her stepmother, and when she gets married and goes home often, it will be different, and the family will still have a miasma.
The younger brother had already identified Wang Zhijie in his heart, and felt that he would become his wife sooner or later.
Every time the father and daughter lived together with Liu Guiying, because the weather was warm, the younger brother slept in the warehouse with Wang Zhijie's sister, and gave the Westinghouse to her father and Liu Guiying, she felt that Liu Guiying was more qualified as a mother than the little widow, at least she was good to herself and her father.
And the father seems to prefer to sleep with Liu Guiying, but never to the little widow.
I lived there and got up every morning and sang little songs happily.
Wang Zhijie finally did not fulfill his mother Liu Guiying's wish to get a primary school diploma.
Originally, his father Wang Li felt that he was not yet an adult, and wanted him to study for another year, at least he had a graduation certificate, so that he could prove that he had studied and exercised at the same time.
But Wang Zhijie didn't go anyway, he had his own reasons, and he argued with his father anxiously: "Originally, I was already older than my original classmates, and if I repeat a grade, carry a small schoolbag all day long, and go to and from class with children who are three or four years younger than me, it's like an extra quail in a bird's nest, it's not shameful enough!."”
Liu Guiying also helped beside him: "That's it, just recognize a word!."It's useless to read it at any time, and I can't eat it as a meal, so it's better to come down and help the family do more work, and I can be more relaxed. ”
Mother, didn't you say that you would find me a daughter-in-law after graduation?Wang Zhijie's mind is actually like this.
Liu Guiying chuckled and said, "Alas, my son, he is really useless, and he is bent on finding a daughter-in-law." ”
Wang Zhijie was not embarrassed, and said confidently: "Marry my brother back, and we will help the family do things together, won't we have an extra labor?""How much can I help?"We're used to pampering her, and if you suddenly let her do this and that, be careful that she is playing tantrums with you.
Moreover, after marrying, you will have children, can you afford it, young man?Although Liu Guiying wanted to treat her brother as her own family and worry about it, she still gave her son a warning.
Wang Zhijie patted his chest and said confidently: "Mother, don't worry!."I'm not afraid of being tired, doing some work is a small thing, and my brother is not lazy, and my parents, so many people, the work is enough to do. ”
Don't be in a hurry to promise, wait for the next time my brother comes, you coax her well, as long as she is willing to enter the door, it will be about the same, I see that your father has also changed a little, I beg him again, I guess we can prepare to marry. ”
With Liu Guiying's unremitting efforts, after weighing the pros and cons, the big donkey finally agreed and confirmed the marriage of his brother and Wang Zhijie.
The little widow is anxious to let her brother marry out, although she is unwilling to marry her to Liu Guiying, but if she doesn't marry into that family, I'm afraid she will have to wait a few years before she can be sent awayBut she also has a trace of worry, her brother hasn't had a period yet, so it stands to reason that she shouldn't beThe little widow had mentioned this to the big donkey in private, and he seemed embarrassed to talk about his daughter's private affairs, and only said in a vague way that as a father, he should avoid suspicion.
The little widow thought to herself: Maybe Brother Lai secretly solved it himself?Anyway, she is not close to herself, and she will not take the initiative to tell herself anything.
Since it was time to talk about marriage, she felt that she still had to participate in it, and she couldn't easily send away a girl who had not yet married.
So she proposed to the big donkey: "Marriage is a lifelong event, you can't act hastily, even if the man doesn't find someone to match, the bride price is also necessary." ”
The big donkey didn't say anything, Liu Guiying kept persuading him, but he couldn't speak.
If you want a bride price, if it is less, maybe Liu Guiying can get it, but if it is more, then he has to subsidize it, right?Most of his current salary is handed over to the little widow, and the whole family has to eat, drink, and Lazar, and he does not have much private money, and he cannot borrow money from others to pay the bride price for his daughter.
Seeing that his father did not respond, the younger brother stood aside and asked dissatisfiedly, "What kind of bride price do you need?"Who will spend this money back on?Because Liu Guiying had already said a lot to her in advance: "Your stepmother will definitely ask for a bride price, think about it, after the door, we are a family, but the bride price money has to be taken away from her, why?."You three sisters, she was not born and raised, and when we all get married, the bride price money saved together will be enough for her son to marry a daughter-in-law. ”
The little widow said patiently, "What girl doesn't give her in-laws a bride price when she gets married?"Don't give the impression that your in-laws are worthless. ”
Only when there is a mother can there be a home, and my mother's home is in**?Oh, now that I'm getting married, I feel like I'm worthy!The little widow calmly told her brother, "You are so crooked before you have passed the door?"People are treating you well now, so you can't tell who is an insider or an outsider, do you think you won't suffer in your in-laws' house in the future?Then you will feel the importance of your mother's family. ”
The younger brother gave the little widow a blank look and replied disdainfully, "Hmph!."I want to live, not to threshing the grain, and in the event of a famine, will I also have to suffer together?"Ignorant things, have your father with me!How could I be bad to you?"The little widow is really in a hurry.
The big donkey knew that his relatives and neighbors were suspicious of him, and for the sake of a poor household, he married off his own daughters.
So he was embarrassed to organize a wedding banquet for his daughter.
The younger brother had an argument with the little widow because of the bride price, sorted out a few clothes, and ran to Liu Guiying's house with a small burden to live, no matter what, it will be her person in the future.
Liu Guiying didn't plan to do things in a big way, she rarely interacted with people, and she knew that few people would come to her house to pay her respects.
When the date was set, she invited relatives and a few people in the village to hold two tables of banquets.
It was the time when the farm was slack, Liu Guiying asked Wang Zhijie to drive a donkey cart and took her and her younger brother to the street several times, and the younger brother chose two sets of clothes and two pairs of shoes.
One pair is the plaid cloth-soled shoes he wears now, and the other is the black leatherette cotton shoes he wears in winter.
She also bought her son Wang Zhijie a new set of clothes and a pair of yellow rubber shoes.
She also made a new set of bedding, re-pasted the Westinghouse with newspaper, pasted the bed circumference with patterned paper, and pasted a headshot of a fat doll on the bedside.
Wang Zhijie asked: "Mother, make a new house for me and my younger brother in the Westinghouse, it will be cold in the future, my uncle will come, and you will live in **?"Liu Guiying replied with some regret: "Tidy up the warehouse in front, will he always come?"You ......Liu Guiying said hesitantly, she was a little embarrassed to say the following words, she meant, 'Do you still expect me to be a mother and always be a sweetheart?''……I hope that interested friends will like, favorite, and follow after reading.
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