Linlin is a love brain, and she decided to quit her job shortly after marrying her husband Chen Fang. She quit her job because she was worried that the stress of her job would affect her pregnancy plans.
Chen Fang was very supportive of her decision, and he told Linlin to rest at home and look for a job when she wanted to go back to work.
However, once the mother-in-law learned about it, the situation became a little complicated. The mother-in-law thinks Linlin is a lazy woman.
In less than half a month, my mother-in-law called countless **, some asked Linlin if she had found a job, and some asked when she planned to have children. After all, Linlin's previous reason for resigning was to prepare for pregnancy.
Linlin directly told her mother-in-law that the main reason for her resignation was not to prepare for pregnancy, but to rest.
Such an answer does not meet the expectations of many old people. They thought that Linlin couldn't endure hardship, and always advised her to find a job as soon as possible. They believe that the family cannot be supported by Chen Fang alone.
If it weren't for the fact that Linlin was really pregnant after two months, I am afraid that her mother-in-law would have personally urged her to find a job.
In the early stages of pregnancy, Linlin's mother came over to take care of her for a while. However, it was not very convenient to stay at the house of her daughter and son-in-law, so the mother returned home half a month later.
Before leaving, her mother told Linlin to pay attention to protecting her body.
In the second trimester, perhaps because of the different physiques, Linlin began to experience a belated pregnancy reaction, with no appetite all day long, and wanted to vomit when she saw food.
Chen Fang didn't know what to do, so he asked around, so he could only make some light food for Linlin, such as boiled noodles.
Fortunately, the pregnancy reaction lasted for a while and then disappeared, and Linlin's life returned to normal.
In the late stages of pregnancy, Chen Fang began to worry that Linlin would not be able to take care of her body, so she asked her mother to help.
Her mother-in-law also came to take care of Linlin, but she always pointed at her and educated her. She said that Linlin is eating so well now that she compares it with when she was pregnant. She thought that Linlin didn't need to eat beef and chicken soup at all, and it would be good to eat more Chinese cabbage, and said that Linlin couldn't eat before, just because her life was too good.
These words angered Linlin, and she had a fight with her mother-in-law with a big belly, which almost caused fetal gas.
Subsequently, Chen Fang coaxed his mother to go back to her hometown, which made Linlin's mood much better.
It didn't take long for Linlin to give birth to a child. Originally, she didn't let her mother-in-law take care of her confinement, but I don't know why, a few days ago, her mother-in-law suddenly came by herself, saying that she was coming to see the child.
The couple couldn't refuse directly, so they could only agree to let her stay. At first, they thought it was just a few days, but they didn't expect that after a few days, it caused a conflict again.
One day, Linlin was concentrating on breastfeeding, but she didn't expect her mother-in-law to suddenly push the door in and start scolding her without even saying hello.
There are so many guests waiting outside for dinner, and you are hiding in your room alone with the kids?Hurry up and put down the kids and go cook!The dishes are ready!"
After getting along these days, Linlin has fully understood what kind of person her mother-in-law is. She completely ignored her mother-in-law, did not answer, pretended not to hear, and concentrated on taking care of the child.
I'm tired and need a break, so please get out. "
Linlin waited until the child fell asleep before she had time to invite her mother-in-law out.
Are you tired?It's just taking care of a child. What's so tiring about?You're just pretending to be sick!"
I'm pretending to be sick?I'm still in confinement, my body is already weak, and I still have to take care of my children, isn't this tiring?"
I was able to go to the ground 20 days after giving birth, and I was able to take care of my family. Now you're just cooking a meal, are you so tired?You should learn more and be careful that your son doesn't marry a lazy woman!"
The mother-in-law's words stimulated Linlin. Since giving birth, her mother-in-law has ignored her. At first, my mother-in-law agreed to come.
took care of her confinement, but she didn't achieve anything, all the housework, taking care of the children, and cooking were all undertaken by Linlin alone.
Occasionally, Chen Fang helped, and her mother-in-law would say that men couldn't cook and do housework. If it weren't for Linlin's mother offering to help take care of her for a few days, Linlin would have returned to her parents' house long ago.
Now, Linlin's mother has returned to her home. She won't be coming over these days. Chen Fang also goes to work now, and there are only three people left at home: her, her children and her mother-in-law.
The mother-in-law invited a large group of relatives to come to the house as guests, obviously to cause trouble for Linlin.
That's you, you volunteered to be a slave, you can!Don't pull me!"
After saying that, Linlin pushed her mother-in-law out of the door, ignoring her mother-in-law's knock on the door. Then she called Chen Fang ** and asked him to deal with her mother-in-law.
Creative Inspiration Center After receiving the **, Chen Fang knew that Linlin was embarrassed by his mother again, so he hurriedly apologized, hoping that Linlin would not be angry. He hurried to finish what he was doing and returned home from work.
Chen Fang knew that his mother was very strong. At first, they did not agree with the mother coming to help take care of the confinement child, but the mother still came. Linlin didn't express strong objections, so they let her mother stay. Now, it seems, that wasn't a good idea.
By the time I got home, my relatives had left, but I was left in a mess. The living room floor was covered with melon seed shells, and the coffee table and dining table were littered with food scraps and cups and bowls.
The same goes for the kitchen, the dishes and chopsticks used at noon are not washed at all. Mother and Linlin were in their rooms.
Chen Fang had to clean up the kitchen and living room by himself and wash the dishes and chopsticks. Then he went into the bedroom to find Linlin to apologize and promised to persuade his mother to return to her hometown tomorrow.
He then went to his mother and told her that Linlin had worked so hard to take care of the child that she could no longer spare energy and time to entertain guests. He also said that if his mother did it again, they would disown her.
In the end, he persuaded his mother to go back to her hometown to rest for a while, and wait for Linlin's body to recover before visiting the child.
Chen Fang's attitude was firm, and when his mother saw him like this, she also knew that she couldn't encroach on Linlin's time and space too much. So, she agreed to leave for a while and promised to respect their decision.
Since then, the mother-in-law has never interfered too much in their lives and no longer brings people to the house at will. Linlin and Chen Fang's lives gradually returned to calm, and they continued to support each other and take care of their children together through the rough days.