Really smart people understand: to be a man, we must open up the pattern;To do things, we must relax our mentality.
Text|Lei Lei. To be a man, when you are like a master who paints, you have your own hills and valleys in your chest;To do things, it should be like still water flowing deep, not arrogant or impatient. Life is a colorful picture, and each of us is the painter who holds the pen. What is revealed in the pen is joy, anger and sorrow, joys and sorrows, as well as various understandings of life. Really smart people have long understood the mystery: to be a man and open up the pattern;Do things and relax your mindset. This is the true meaning of life, and it is also the motto of smart people.
A big picture can make you live a little more freely. For example, the eagle spreads its wings and fights in the sky, not because of its huge body, but because its heart has already broken through the narrow space and embraced the vast sky. On the contrary, the person with a small pattern has always only seen a small piece of the world in his eyes. They are like frogs at the bottom of a well, with a small sky above their heads, and they think they have the whole world. They are confined to their own small circle, busy with trivial things, but forget to look up at the outside world.
The world is big, big and we are always subject to a lot of outside distractions. Only by looking at the world in a larger way can we determine what the crisis is and what the way out is. With the big picture, we can be like that great master, with hills and valleys in our minds when composing, and swaying freely when we put down our brushes. We know it's time to understate, it's time to understate. We won't be trapped by the predicament in front of us, because we know it's all about a better future.
Only by standing in the world with a larger pattern can we seize the opportunity and master the rhythm of our own life. With the big picture, our life is like that passionate symphony, with highs and lows, but it is always so exciting. We know when to move forward and when to back down. We don't blindly pursue those superficial prosperity and glory, because we know that real success is not about how much you have, but how much you give.
The pattern determines where you will end up and who you will become. Someone said: "Life is like a play, the important thing is not the length of the play, but how to interpret it." "Life with a big picture is like that wonderful drama, although it is short, it is full of passion and tension. They don't worry about momentary gains and losses, because they know that these are indispensable experiences and treasures in life.
So how do you cultivate a big picture?The answer is simple and complicated, and that is to relax your mindset. If the heart is relaxed, the world will naturally become bigger;If you are narrow-minded, even if you are in a vast place, you will feel cramped and uneasy. To relax your mind is to learn to tolerate, understand, be grateful, and cherish. Tolerate those who are different from us, understand those seemingly complex and difficult to understand, be grateful to those who give us help and support, and cherish those relatives and friends who spend time with us.
It is not easy to be a person with a big picture, because it requires us to constantly learn, Xi think, practice, and perceive. But as long as we experience and practice with our hearts, we will be able to gradually open up our own pattern, relax our mentality, and make our lives more colorful.
Every bit of life is the source of wisdom and the ladder of growth. As long as we perceive and experience with our hearts, we will be able to draw endless wisdom and strength from it, and make our lives wider and more profound. Really smart people understand: to be a man, we must open up the pattern;To do things, we must relax our mentality. This is not only the wisdom of life, but also the philosophy of life, but also the attitude and values of life that each of us should pursue and uphold.