Children who are disobedient are prone to get sick, which turns out to be related to the "face" of their parents
We often hear some parents teach their children: "Give your child a good heart, don't give a good face." ”
Some parents often think that if they give their child a good face, he will kick his nose in the face.
As everyone knows, parents often keep a straight face, and their children are not only rebellious and insecure, but also affect their physical health.
In the book "Love and Freedom", the author Sun Ruixue mentioned that the long-term stable "good face" of parents is the basis for providing emotional security for children, and children are easy to adopt the same values and other behaviors as their parents.
The parents' face is the barometer of the child, and a good face makes them feel warm love, and the mood will be comfortable, so that the child can be psychologically sunny and grow up healthily.
A university in the United States followed 169 children between the ages of 5 and 10 and found that:
Parents with harmonious family relationships and gentle attitudes towards their children are educated with children who are less susceptible to epidemic diseases and communicate more smoothly.
In families where the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious, and the children often do not have a good face, the children not only have a significantly higher disease rate, but also have a paranoid and introverted personality, which affects the growth of their lives.
I once watched a gold medal mediation column on Jiangxi Satellite TV, Xiaoqian's father worked in other places all the year round, was raised by his mother, and was often beaten and scolded by his mother in his childhood.
When he grew up, in order to make up for the lack of love, his father took Xiaoqian from his hometown to himself and worked and lived with him.
But because of the difference in habits, the father always blamed him for some trivial things, and the son was miserable, which eventually led to tension in the relationship between father and son, and almost collapsed.
It can be seen that the good or bad appearance of parents is very important to the healthy physical and mental growth of children, not only related to the physical health of children, but also has a great impact on the formation of personality and parent-child relationship.
Children are sometimes naughty, which really makes parents very helpless. Only by patiently preaching and stopping, let them accept it from the heart, instead of "black-faced" scolding.
Hu Shi once said: "The most hateful thing in the world is an angry face;The most obscene thing in the world is to put your angry face on the face of others. ”
An angry face makes people look horrible, and even on a hot summer day, it makes people feel as cold as ice, like falling into an ice cave.
Children are extremely sensitive to the emotional reactions of those around them, and parents should understand as early as possible that a good face is the best immunity for their children's physical health, and it is also a catalyst for their children's cheerful personality, self-confidence and sense of security.
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