In the long years, we will always encounter all kinds of problems, including love. Someone once said: "When a man has been single for a long time, his standards are getting lower and lower;A woman has been single for a long time, and her standards are getting higher and higher. What is the meaning of this sentence?
Whether it is a man or a woman, after being single for a long time, their desire for love will become stronger. Behind this desire, however, their standards show a very different trend.
For men, who have been single for a long time, they gradually realize that perfect love does not exist in the process of finding a partner. As a result, their standards began to gradually lower and they no longer pursued those seemingly perfect conditions. They begin to understand that true love does not begin with perfection, but with tolerance and understanding. Therefore, in the process of finding true love, they pay more attention to the other person's character, conduct, and interiority.
On the contrary, after women have been single for a long time, their standards are getting higher and higher. This is not to say that they no longer believe in love, but that they cherish their worth more in the days they live alone. They are looking for a partner who can resonate with their souls, not just those who meet social standards. In the process, they constantly reflect on themselves and constantly improve themselves, so that their standards are constantly improving.
However, this seemingly contradictory phenomenon actually hides the same truth behind it: whether men and women, who have been single for a long time, what they are pursuing is a sincere relationship, a partner with whom they can spend the rest of their lives. It's just that in the process of searching, they constantly adjust their standards according to their own experiences and perceptions.
In these fast-changing times, we often neglect our true selves in search of true love. After being single for a long time, we may feel lonely, but it is also a kind of growth. Because in this process, we learn to be independent, learn to introspect, and learn to cherish.
Therefore, whether it is a man or a woman, when we have been single for a long time, we should not rush to lower or raise our standards, but return to our hearts and find our true selves. Only in this way can we find the person who is compatible with us and spend the rest of our lives together.
In this world, every person is unique. May we all find the partner with whom we support and care for each other and spend a good time together in the long years of being single. Be single or happy to be married