In episode 39 of "The World", after Zhou's father passed away, Zhou's mother summoned her three children into the house to discuss matters. Although she said that Zhou's father was an old Communist Party member and did not have to stick to the rules of guarding the spirit, in fact, she had already made her own decision in her heart. After the children fell asleep tiredly, Zhou's mother put the family heirloom box on Zheng Juan's pillow, clearly expressing her recognition of Zheng Juan's dedication to the Zhou family and her satisfaction with her youngest son's filial piety.
Although Zhou's mother is sometimes delirious, she knows her dependence on Zheng Juan and her dedication to her youngest son. When Zhou's father returned from the hospital, the conflict at home began to intensify. The eldest son, Bingyi, blamed his younger brother Bingkun for not informing him in time that his mother-in-law sent his father to the hospital. Daughter Zhou Rong complained that her father scared her, and even blamed Bingkun, if something happened to her father, she and her younger brother would not give up.
Although Zhou's mother didn't say a word, Zhou's father explained it to Bingkun, and even joked that if he was gone, Lao Pimple would serve them every day, and he would be blamed to death by the promising children in the family. Zhou's mother felt sorry for her youngest son, but she didn't want to talk about the two children, because they both had their own difficulties.
Zhou's father educated his daughter and said, "Rong'er, this is your fault. Dad is the father of the three of you, not Bingkun alone. You can't blame him for everything that happens to my younger brother because he has been staying by his parents' side. Although he defended Bingkun, he also tolerated his daughter's willfulness. Seeing his daughter's tears in her eyes, he was reluctant to blame, and instead comforted her.
In the end, Zhou's mother sat next to Zhou's father, smiling and watching all this. She knew in her heart that if her wife passed away, she would become a burden to her younger son. This text is about the emotional exchange and farewell of a family before facing the death of their father, Zhou Zhigang. It describes how family members support and care for each other, as well as how they evaluate and appreciate their father.
At night, the family of five lies on the wide kang, and the atmosphere is solemn and warm. Zhou's father seemed to be making a final farewell, and he said to his children earnestly: "Bingyi, don't just see your own shortcomings, but also look at your own advantages, so that you can be more confident in doing practical things for the people." And Zhou Rong vainly asked her father how she was. Father Zhou smiled and said: "My daughter is the best, a great intellectual, a great professor, and she has won a lot of glory on my father's old face." Zhou Rong smiled with satisfaction, and Zhou's mother quietly listened to his wife chatting with her children.
When Bingkun asked his father: "Dad, let me ask you something, you said in your heart, who is the best between us sisters?"Zhou's mother's eyes lit up, she knew that Bingkun was the best on this issue. Bingkun asked this, just to let his father be able to say his good in front of his brothers and sisters, which is a recognition of himself. However, Father Zhou did not directly answer which child was the best, he did a tai chi. He said, "Bingkun, you're testing me!."The three of you children are all in my heart. When your sister and your brother are not at home, I will tell you, "Bingkun, you are the best". When you and your sister were not at home, I said to Bingyi, "Bingyi, you are the best." When you and Bingyi were not at home, I said to Rong'er again, "Rong'er, you are the best." Father Zhou's answer made Bingkun a little disappointed. However, Zhou's mother on the other side of the kang has already given Bingkun a high score in her heart.
When Zhou Zhigang died suddenly, Zhou's mother sobered up. She understands that the wife she has been thinking about day and night has left her. She knew that she would have to live with her three children in the future. There is a high probability that he will still follow Bingkun and Zheng Juan to live. Zhou's mother's mind is getting deeper and deeper, and she feels that she has dragged Zheng Juan Bingkun and them for many years. But because of Bingkun Zheng Juan, he has such a happy and happy old age. Now his wife has left himself alone, and he continues like this. Zhou's mother has an idea in her heart, and she understands that her existence will only drag down her children, especially Bingkun. She decided to die with Zhou's father to give her children relief. Zhou's mother knows very well that although she has the mayor's son and the daughter of an associate professor, her fate is the same as that of other old people, destined to be born, old, sick and die in this place, dragging down her children. She didn't want her children to be burdened by her death, and she didn't want them to face the same maintenance problems as other families.
Zhou's mother has already figured out what is going on after her death, she wants to accompany her wife, and she doesn't want him to spend it alone in that cold place. She will leave this world with her wife, which is her interpretation of the love of her parents. She sat there, unconcerned, holding her wife's hand tightly, as if to pour all her emotions into it.
The death of the Zhou family's parents made the three children deeply realize that their parents are here, and there is still a place in lifeWhen your parents go, there is only one way back in life. In the original work of "The World", after Xiao Guoqing's father passed away, Chang Jinjin once said to Guoqing: "A good father is the most reluctant to be a drag on his children. "In the freezing season, the uncle made his own choice, which is how he loves his children deeply.
Parents in the world want to contribute to their children during their lifetime, and once they feel that they have become a burden to their children, they may make extreme decisions. This is the last affection that parents have for their children. We only have the fate of this life with our parents, and no one knows whether we will meet again in the next life. Therefore, filial piety should be expressed as soon as possible, even if it is just a **, a small gift. Every passage can bring spiritual comfort to parents.