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In the drama version of "Parents' Love", An Jie and Jiang Defu's respectful love story is enviable.
Jiang Defu was willing to give up his future for Anjie.
Even if Miss Jiao like An Jie went back to her hometown to farm, she firmly said that I can, and the two of them really went both ways.
In middle age, the two walked hand in hand on the beach, Jiang Defu looked at the people around him and sighed: Anjie, you are not old at all. An Jie responded: If I don't look old, it's also your credit, and it is you who make me worry-free and happy.
But don't look at the happiness in the play, but in fact, how happy the play is, how cruel the original book is.
In the original book, An Jie was forced to marry Jiang Defu, which can be said to be very reluctant.
Although she gave birth to 7 children for Jiang Defu after marriage, her heart never loved Jiang Defu.
And the same is true of Jiang Defu.
At the beginning, a couple came to the island, and the male Xu Fang was a technician who was transferred to the island.
His wife Melia is a native of Shanghai, and she is also a graduate of Tongji University, white and peugeot, in order to follow her husband, she took her 8-year-old son Xu Mengmeng to the island.
Because she and An Ming are similar in appearance and both are from the eldest lady, the two quickly became colleagues and good friends.
But the good times didn't last long, her husband Xu Fang was killed by a mine during a mission, ** At the moment before, Xu Fang asked Jiang Defu to rest, which allowed Jiang Defu to save his life.
So Jiang Defu has always felt guilty about this matter.
And he put all this guilt and self-blame on Melia's mother and son, and took more and more care of the mother and son.
But one is a married man, and the other is a beautiful widow, and when they get so close, it is inevitable that bad words will be heard.
An Jie didn't care at first, because she also sympathized with Melia and felt that her husband should take care of her mother and son.
It's just that she regretted it later.
Once Melia was sick, Jiang Defu went to visit, and at the moment An Jie entered the door, Melia deliberately put her hand on Jiang Defu's hand, so that An Jie could see such an unclear scene.
An Jie couldn't stand being betrayed, so he chose to hang himself late at night when no one was there, but fortunately, Jiang Defu found out in time.
Although Jiang Defu later repeatedly denied that he had nothing to do with Melia.
But the youngest daughter said in the original book: "I dare say that no man will remain silent in the face of the beautiful, helpless, and elegant Mei Yali." Even though he was my father, I emotionally hoped he wouldn't, but reason told me he couldn't be. ”
In other words, it is impossible for Jiang Defu not to be tempted by Melia, and if he is tempted, it is a mental derailment.
In addition, Jiang Defu is not a competent father, in the original book, he often wants to see his son have a dispute with Xu Mengmeng, and then appear as a "hero" to teach his children a lesson.
I was too young to understand and interpret my father's demeanor. When I grew up, I felt life and got close to literature, and I realized my father's demeanor after beating people—the kind of pleasure in life, which is called pleasure in literature. ”
Jiang Defu vented his guilt in his heart for the cute mother and son on his sons in this almost ** way.
even slapped his son's eardrum rupture, such a father is really incompetent.
In fact, now that I reread the original book, I found that Jiang Defu was not only incompetent as a father, but also mentally derailed, and he had never loved An Jie all along!
One,An Jie married Jiang Defu for profit, and Jiang Defu can be said to marry An Jie for beauty and cultural temperament.
The reason why the two were able to get to know each other at first was thanks to Comrade Kou, who saw such a lovely person as An Jie when he went to inspect the pharmacy, and immediately introduced him to the officer Jiang Defu after he returned.
When the two met for the first time, looking at the dignified, beautiful and generous An Jie, Jiang Defu couldn't hold back the smile on his face, and he smirked vigorously throughout the whole process.
As a promising officer, Jiang Defu is very face-saving outside.
At the same time, he felt that marrying a young, beautiful and educated wife would make him feel very satisfied and face-saving among his comrades-in-arms.
Such a wife must be knowledgeable and knowledgeable, and she must look good, and she will add glory to her face when she takes it out!
Second,The reason why Jiang Defu married An Jie was because of the desire to win, not because of love.
After the first meeting, An Jie didn't like this big guy with mud in his fingers, and Jiang Defu also saw An Jie's dislike of him after three and two pursuits.
But in the face of An Jie's rejection and dislike, he did not retreat and give up, but An Jie's actions aroused his fighting spirit.
The more An Jie looks down on him, the more he wants to conquer, in the original work, Jiang Defu said: "Lao Tzu has taken many difficult strongholds when he fights, and I am afraid that you, a bourgeois stinky lady with two long braids, will not succeed?"”
It is precisely because of this that after marrying An Jie, he was very happy, and after marriage, An Jie kept giving birth to children, he knew that An Jie disliked him, so he wanted to tie An Jie with his children.
At the end of the original work, the middle-aged An Jie's behavior became more and more like Jiang Defu in the past, and he wiped his mouth with his sleeve after eating noodles.
But Jiang Defu is becoming more and more like An Jie in the past, he can't sleep without pajamas, and he is proficient in using knives and forks when eating Western food, and he no longer chirps.
I have to sayMany people envy An Jie for marrying a lover, but good love should not make a person unrecognizable.