q1
What did you learn after listening to this lesson?
Understand the nature of relationships from a quantum perspective.
q2
What are some of the things you're most impressed with?
The four types of graphs determined by relationship intimacy have different intersection parts and different distances. I don't know why this graphic impression made me so impressed and made me reflect on myself. Sometimes I am touched by some people's behaviors and have emotions, and I should first judge what the relationship between this person and me is, whether it is worth my emotional response or clear communication, and what I want to gain. This helps me define my own boundaries, and when I interact with others, I figure out which of my boundaries are ** and the other party's boundaries are **.
Why the tighter the intimacy between two people, the easier it is to have contradictions, from a quantum point of view, the explanation is really amazing, and that chart also makes it clear to me at a glance. I never thought that I could learn the concept of boundaries in intimacy from scientific icons. "Semi-sugarism" is real and important, and I've thought more about my recent breakup.
q3
How will you change after listening to this lesson?
First of all, when I am in interpersonal communication, I will take the lead in distinguishing the social relationship between this person and me, the degree to which I give a **, and how much area of intersection overlaps. If it's a stranger, or just a work-related person, I'll try to take nothing personally. Putting the comfort of chatting and feeling respected in a less important position, I just went to exchange some information interests. Of course, I must have a stable kernel in order not to be shaken.
Secondly, 7 billion people have their own metaverse, and I also have my own, so whoever will be my partner must be the one whose Yushen and my Yuan Yushen are the most willing to get close to each other. If there is such a big intersection between us, it must be a high degree of compatibility between him and me. This is a good idea for choosing a mate.
q4
What action are you going to take?
Maybe I have a Xi habitual idea that I hope that people who have been in contact with me, or who have communicated for a long time, will like me, but recently there are a few people who make me not very comfortable, and their tone and attitude make me feel that I am not being treated very gently, or even a little disrespectful. But they're not my friends, and I don't know what to do with my feelings.
After the class, I analyzed their place in my life and found that I just got some information and services from them, they are not really that important, even if they don't like me, I don't need to care. So yesterday's lesson helped me realize that. I just focused on the information and services they provided, and I felt a lot easier.
q5
How will you ensure that your actions take place?
It happened already.