Marriage is a feast involving the fate of life, but behind this seemingly beautiful contract, there are countless twists and turns and bizarre stories. Recently, a couple in Hangzhou was involved in a divorce turmoil because of a bride price of 280,000 yuan, but this seemingly ordinary number carries the couple's four-year marriage process, as well as the contradictions and differences under different fate trajectories.
Kaneshiro and Irene, a pair of college classmates, once vowed to spend their lives together on campus. However, the beginning of this marriage was accompanied by a bride price of 280,000 yuan. Erin's parents made this huge request, and Jincheng had to raise money everywhere in order to marry his lover, and finally borrowed 150,000 yuan to make up this huge amount of money.
However, this is not a simple love story, but a realistic portrayal of a deeply troubled material strife and marital anxiety. Erin's parents saw the bride price as a dowry, but they did not lend a helping hand when Kaneshiro was in debt. This chilled Kaneshiro's heart, and he began to wonder if the marriage was really based on mutual understanding and support.
In this marriage, Jincheng gradually realized that marriage is not only the intersection of two hearts, but also a commitment to support each other through the wind and rain. And the huge bride price of 280,000 seems to have become a heavy obstacle in this marriage. Erin's attitude made Kaneshiro feel unacceptable, and he realized that he had no happiness in this marriage.
Perhaps, in this case, we can see the persistence of the traditional system of bride price in modern marriage. Traditionally, the bride price is seen as respect and compensation for the woman, but in practice, it often turns into a monetary transaction. Behind this transaction is the contradiction between money and love, and it is also the choice of material interests and emotional identity in the marriage relationship.
It is undeniable that the financial problems in marriage need to be faced and resolved by both spouses. However, when the traditional institution of bride price becomes a burden on marriage, when it is no longer a good wish for the future, but a trade-off between the other party and one's own family background, it inevitably triggers turmoil in the relationship between husband and wife.
For Kaneshiro, filing for divorce may be an option for him in this marital crisis. What he pursues is not only material equality, but also spiritual resonance. This philosophy of seeking common ground while reserving differences may be a healthier and more lasting foundation in the marriage relationship.
This incident triggered not only a reflection on the institution of marriage, but also an examination of social concepts. In today's society, marriage is no longer a simple love game, but also a responsibility that requires the joint efforts, understanding and support of husband and wife. Whether traditional concepts, such as bride price, still adapt to the value orientation of contemporary society, and whether they should be replaced by more reasonable and equal methods, are all questions that require our in-depth thinking.
Perhaps, we need to inject more modern elements into the institution of marriage, so that marriage is no longer a burden, but an opportunity to grow and progress together. The marriage story of Kaneshiro and Erin may be just the tip of the iceberg, representing the dilemmas and choices faced by many couples in marriage. We hope that the society will be able to face these problems in a more inclusive and rational manner, and create a more relaxed environment for the healthy development of marital relationships.
In the marriage turmoil caused by this bride price, we see the troubles of marriage in modern society, and also see the efforts of couples to seek equality and understanding in marriage. May every couple be able to move forward hand in hand in the long river of marriage and create a happy future together.
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