Hold your breath and you'll get everything
Don't be in a hurry to win.
In the face of emotional gains and losses, unsatisfactory work, in the final analysis, it is because you can't hold your breath. If you are in a hurry, you must see the return immediately if you pay for yourself, and slowly lose your normal rhythm.
Many girls are just too anxious about work or loveI can't hold my breath, and I will have an emotional breakdown as soon as something happens, and the other party will feel like the sky is going to fall if he doesn't follow your thoughts a little. In fact, how can it be so serious, sometimes you have a player mentality and are not in a hurry to win, then you can be at the upper hand in the relationship.
Things often can't crush people, but emotions can crush people, so don't be kidnapped by emotions and learn to reconcile with yourself.
2. The gas rule is done.
When you encounter setbacks, your work is not going well, your relationship is unsatisfactory, even if the other party wants to break up with you, you have to get rid of a little wine, leave immediately without saying a word, and completely disappear into the other party's world.
Don't dwell on it for a while, and then get to the bottom of it, complain and blame each other, these are meaningless.
Remember, be sincere when you love and be crisp and clean when you leave. When you are so good to someone that you are benevolent and righteous, even if you can't be together in the end, you can be ruthless and unrighteous with peace of mind. Because you have never trampled on love, and you have never owed it to anyone.
3. Solving problems is king.
When something happens, if you just know how to vent your emotions, make a big fuss or confide in your pain. Well, you won't get anything but go crazy and feel good.
You can express your anger, but you can't express it angrily, and sometimes a single sentence can ruin everything, or even ruin all your efforts.
If the other party really provokes you because of something, all you can do is not to make noise, calm down, and if he comes to you, you have to learn to make demands, solve the problem, and tell him that there will never be a next time.
4. Calm down.
How great a person's blessing is depends on how much he can calm down.
Those who are particularly blessed rarely lose control, and rarely see his panicked side. A person who can calm down is a person with a very stable energy.
The more unfortunate it is, the more you have to calm down, and not everyone is qualified to walk on a difficult road. Only by bearing the pain of Nirvana can we be worthy of the beauty of rebirth.
5. Hide two things.
One is the heart, and the other is the ability.
Keep your heart in your heart, if your heart is not guarded, it will only be a matter of time before you get hurt. The ability to hide three points, the ability is like a sharp edge, it is a kind of thorn, it is easy to stab others.
No matter what state you are in right now, all you have to do is keep renewing yourself, actively helping yourself, and getting out of the grassroots.
Only by living the life you want on your own will you have a wider range of choices for a better spouse.
As the saying goes, static energy gives birth to determination, and it can definitely give birth to wisdom.
Many of the decisions made when emotions come up are wrong. No matter what happens, if you calm down, you will win, you can control your mouth, calm down, hide things, hold your heart steadily, catch all tricks, keep your mouth shut and don't cause trouble, and keep your heart without making mistakes.
True strength is not confrontation, but allowing everything to happen.
1.Allowing everything to happen also means maintaining peace of mind.
Calm down. When we face difficulties and challenges, it is easy to be swayed by emotions and lose our minds and calm. However, it is only by maintaining peace of mind and calmness that we will be able to think better and make the right decisions.
True strength is not achieved through confrontation, but by allowing everything to happen. When we are able to accept reality, let go of past resentment and pain, and maintain inner peace and calm, we can truly become stronger.
We live in a challenging and changing world, and we encounter a wide variety of problems and difficulties every day. Sometimes, we feel frustrated, lost, or angry about something, and we even want to fight it. But true strength is not achieved through confrontation, but by allowing everything to happen.
2.Allowing everything to happen means accepting reality and not resisting or denying it.
This is not to say that we have to passively accept everything, but to face them with a positive attitude. We can do our best to solve the problem, but we also need to understand that there are some things that are beyond our control. When we are able to accept this fact, we are better able to cope with life's challenges.