Sometimes love doesn't last long, hormones come when it's love, and when it's gone, love will go away. Everyone wants to have a lasting love, but we can't predict whether we will love someone for a long time, let alone someone else!However, when we love someone, we should love with all our heart and mind, and be single-minded, which is respect for ourselves and others.
In reality, not everyone is as we wish, and some people love you while hiding others in their hearts. They are unfaithful to the relationship, but they are not willing to part with you. This behavior hurts you, it's just that they choose to remain silent. However, a man who has someone else in his heart often shows obvious signs, even when he tries to hide it. If we look closely, we can see the problem. And such people tend to say the following four sentences:
1.I can do it, you decide.
A man has you in his heart and will think seriously and express his opinion when communicating with you. But if a man has someone else in mind, he won't care about your point of view, no matter what you say, he always answers: "I don't care, you just decide".
This kind of practice, which appears to be respectful and cares about you, is actually indifferent. When Xiao Li and her boyfriend were together, the company proposed to let Xiao Li be transferred to work in other places. Xiao Li felt that he would be separated from his boyfriend when he went to other places, although he was unwilling, but he didn't want to miss such a good opportunity. So she decided to discuss the matter with her boyfriend, and when Xiao Li told her boyfriend about the situation, her boyfriend said lightly: "I don't care, you just decide." ”
Hearing her boyfriend's words, Xiao Li thought at first that her boyfriend didn't want to affect her development, but later found out that her boyfriend didn't really love her. Because the boyfriend never gave any personal opinion. A man who truly loves you, and when he discusses issues with you, he will definitely weigh the pros and cons, think from your point of view, and express his thoughts.
Because they care about you and don't want you to take a detour. But if a man doesn't care about you and has someone else in his heart, then no matter what you say, he will acquiesce, this is not respect, but indifference and indifference.
2.Don't ask me anything.
I don't know if you've ever had the experience of sometimes encountering a tricky matter, feeling entangled and hesitant, and hoping for someone to analyze and advise you with. However, when you tell the other person about your confusion, the other person says, "Don't always come and ask me these things. ”
How would you feel when you heard that?Maybe it's sad, maybe it's sad. After all, someone who genuinely cares about you will try to help you when they see you struggling, rather than sitting on the sidelines. Only those who don't have you in their hearts, who already have someone else in their hearts, will be so impatient with you and don't care about your feelings.
3.You really don't trust me at all.
What is the most worrying thing about a man who has someone else in his heart?In fact, it is discovered by you, and at this time they will try to dispel your suspicions by means of rhetorical questions, so that you do not find out. Such men often say, "You really don't trust me at all." ”
When Xiaomei and her boyfriend were together for more than 3 years, Xiaomei noticed that her boyfriend's love for her was not as good as before, and even her boyfriend always avoided his mobile phone, for fear that Xiaomei would see it. Xiaomei's intuition tells her that her boyfriend must be doing something sorry for herself. So Xiaomei asked her boyfriend with apprehension: "Do you like others anymore?"”
When her boyfriend heard Xiaomei's words, he had an angry expression and said directly to Xiaomei: "You really don't trust me at all." The boyfriend did not answer Mei's question directly, but tried to make Mei feel that she might be wrong.
In fact, a man who has someone else in his heart is afraid of being discovered by you, so he will ask you in this angry way. If we don't notice it, it's easy to be fooled by the other person.
4.How are you such a person.
When a person loves you, you are impeccable, and no matter what you are, he will love you with all his heart. However, when he doesn't love you anymore, he will be disgusted with anything you do. If a man often says to you, "How are you such a person", then you should understand that he no longer loves you. He already has someone else in his heart, and compared to it, he thinks that you are not good enough, so he will judge you with such words again and again.
In the world of love, a person's feelings for you are evident, whether they love or not. With just one look, one word, we can feel his true feelings. If a man often says the above four words to you, you have to be careful, maybe he has long stopped loving you, and he already has someone else in his heart.