In life, we will always meet all kinds of people, some have become friends, some have become lovers, and some have become passers-by in life. And among these many relationships, there is one relationship that is the most elusive and the most inextricable, and that is love.
Love, sometimes as sweet as honey, sometimes as bitter as medicine. When you are deeply immersed in it, you will find that it sometimes makes you laugh and sometimes makes you cry. And between laughing and crying, you may find that the person you love is not as perfect as you imagined.
We often say that to love someone is to love him in all of him, including his strengths and weaknesses. However, if you find that he has two "hobbies", then, no matter how good he is to you, you have to learn to stop losses.
These two "hobbies", one is gambling and the other is alcoholism.
Gambling is a "hobby" that seems to make money, but in fact loses money. Many people have lost their jobs, families, and even lives because of gambling. If you find that your lover has a "hobby" of gambling, then you should be wary. Because gambling can cost him everything, including you.
Alcoholism is a kind of "hobby" that seems to relieve sorrow, but in fact adds to sorrow. Many people become healthy because of alcoholism, break up their families, and even go down the path of crime. If you find that your lover has a "hobby" of alcoholism, then you should be careful. Because alcoholism can make him lose his mind, hurt you, and hurt himself.
One might say that he only gambles once in a while, only occasionally drinks a little more, and that's nothing. However, you have to know that occasionally it can become a regular bet, a small bet can turn into a big bet, and a small drink can turn into a big drunk. By then, you may no longer be able to control him and have no way to get him back.
So, if you find that your lover has these two "hobbies", then, no matter how good he is to you, you have to learn to stop losses. Because, you can't let him ruin yourself, let alone let him ruin your life.
Of course, I'm not saying that all gambling and drinking people are bad people, and I'm not saying that all gambling and drinking people can't change. I just want to tell you that if you meet someone like that, you have to be careful and you have to be sensible.
Love needs two people to run together. If you find out that he has a "hobby" that you can't accept, then you have to tell him, let him know what you think, let him know how you feel. If he loves you, if he really wants to be with you, then, he will definitely change.
Here, I would like to say to all those who are in love, love is beautiful, but love also needs to be rational. If you find out that he has two "hobbies", then, you have to be careful. Because, your love may be slowly worn out in these two "hobbies".
Finally, I would like to say to all of us that life is like a play, and we are all actors in this play. Our roles are different, and so are our responsibilities. But no matter what role we play, we have to remember that we are in charge of our lives. Our love, we make our own decisions.
If you find that he has two "hobbies", then, no matter how good he is to you, you have to learn to stop losses. Because, you can't let him ruin yourself, let alone let him ruin your life.