Slow life regulates oneself, orderly, modest, and thoughtful

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-01-31

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In the TV series "Flowers", Wang Mingzhu has been careful and conscientious in her work.

However, because of a pair of earrings given to her by Bao, Wang Mingzhu encountered the first twist and turn in her work.

In the fast-paced flow of work, in the pursuit of work performance, Wang Mingzhu relaxed the constraints on himself.

So, she attracted reports from others and made a mistake at work.

There is no doubt that fast will bring benefits, but fast will also make people relax their vigilance, bring loopholes, and bring hidden dangers.

So, slow down at the right time to allow yourself to think and have a choice.

Life is more rational and clear.

In "Flowers", the Foreign Trade Bureau has clear regulations on the work of employees, and two employees must negotiate with businessmen together.

Such a stipulation is not only a rule, but also a kind of transparency and constraint on work.

When Miss Wang was talking about business with Bao, because the section chief Jinhua had no time, it was often Miss Wang who contacted Bao alone, which left a big loophole.

Only by self-restraint and compliance with the rules can we avoid suspicion and gain trust.

We have an old saying:Don't be deceived in the dark room.

That is, even without any constraints, without any supervision, to follow the rules and not to transgress the rules.

As a virtuous minister of the country, Lu Boyu is very trusted by Wei Linggong.

However, when the car passed through the palace gate of Wei Linggong, even at night, there was no one around, and Yu Boyu must get out of the car and walk through the palace gate to show his respect for the monarch.

Obeying the order and following the agreement is a respect for the rules, and more of a constraint on oneself.

Orderly, the more to follow, the more standardized;Transparency, a little more openness, a little more introspection.

When the rules are deeply rooted in the heart and become a kind of self-restraint, life will be orderly, clear and free.

Ms. Wang is very enthusiastic about her work and puts a lot of energy into it.

However, there is a big problem with Miss Wang, that is, work and life penetrate too deeply.

Because there are too many emotional factors mixed in her work, Miss Wang will invest a lot.

And because the work relationship has penetrated into her life, the earrings that Po gave her will directly affect her work.

When you slow down and control yourself, let yourself have a choice and a little detachment.

After years of silence, singer Li Jian once again entered the public eye with a song "Legend".

As a result, Li Jian received many opportunities to perform and participate in competitions.

However, Li Jian did not lose himself because of the arrival of a large number of opportunities.

Li Jian will carefully choose the program he wants to participate in.

Li Jian will also stop at the right time, precipitate himself, and focus on his own creation.

Having moderation and a little more rational choice in your work will reduce blind involvement.

With a moderate amount of detachment and a little more independent space in life, the mind will be freer and life will be easier.

Mencius once said:You can't have it both ways.

In life, when faced with many opportunities and being able to gain a lot of things, perhaps the first question we have to ask is: what can I give up?

When we can think, give up, prioritize, and choose, we understand what we really want.

In her career, Ms. Wang has mixed the gifts that Po gave her with her work, and the gifts with her own emotional investment.

Miss Wang forgot, slowed down the tense rhythm a little, and asked: What do you want?

Everyone is their own ferryman, slow down the pace, think more about life, make more choices from the heart, there will be less delusions, and there will be less blind obedience.

For us, the outside world may be complicated, and the pace of life may be fast.

In such a fast-paced life, we need not to get involved, not to get lost, and to have the opportunity to slow ourselves down.

A little more moderation and following the rules will make us more calm;One more choice, don't lose yourself in blindness;Think more, learn to fight, and learn to give up.

Slow life is not to blindly slow down, but to seek your own space in the fast pace, to be able to think independently, and to have your own choice.

There is a slow in the fast, so that the life is relaxed;Fast and slow orderly, let life be made appropriately;Fast and slow are appropriate, so that life is delicious.

Just like the food we need every day, there are quick stir-frying and slow cooking, so that life will be richer and more delicious.

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