Love is the details, and neither is love

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-01-29

Article Debut Challenge People who treat you sincerely are hidden in subtleties, people's hearts may deceive, but details will not, love is like this, and so is indifference.

In countless moments when you need me, I chose to guard silently, you have not understood my sudden silence, how can you understand the pain behind me.

Whether you truly love me or not is all written in the details. When I express my needs, you meet them, and that love loses its preciousnessWhen I make a request and you ignore it, I devalue it in your heart.

The candy you give on your own initiative is very different from the sweetness and taste you voluntarily gave me. In the bits and pieces of life, you can get a glimpse of the true meaning of love. When you and I work together to spend the wind and rain, it is the most beautiful appearance of love;And when we hurt each other in subtleties, love drifts apart.

Love is the details, and neither is love

Countless moments when I need you, I have chosen to shut up, you don't understand my sudden silence, how can you understand the sadness I don't want to say. Sometimes, I really hope that you can take the initiative and fill the void in my heart with your care and care.

That day, I said you wanted to eat hot pot, and you took me without saying a word. However, I forgot to tell you that when I said I want to eat hot pot, it is actually to make you happy. You don't know, how much I hope that at that moment, you can read my mind, and then smile and say to me: "Then let's eat hot pot today to celebrate the anniversary of our acquaintance." "But you didn't, you just silently ordered the dishes I liked, but I didn't know that what I wanted in my heart was your active care.

I said you only do it, and it becomes cheap, and I say you don't do it, and I become cheap. I remembered that time when I was sick. I wished you could put down your work and accompany me to the hospital, but I couldn't help but say nothing. Because I know that if you really care about me, you will definitely take the initiative to perceive my pain. However, you don't. At that moment, I felt like a speck of dust, cheap and small.

The sugar you asked for was not the same as the sugar you gave me voluntarily. On the day of our anniversary, I was expecting you to prepare a surprise for me, but you forgot. That night, I couldn't help but complain to you, and you suddenly realized that you gave me a compensatory gift. It's my favorite sugar, but it doesn't taste as good as it used to be. Because I know that you didn't forget it on purpose, but you didn't take it to heart.

Adult feelings, not just liking is enough, you can never grow up, but I can't be insecure forever.

In this world of lies, details have become the evidence I trust the most. I hope you can learn to pay attention to the bits and pieces of my life and read my inner world. No longer let me choose to be silent when I need you, no longer let me feel that cheap and small. Because I love you, that's why I care so much about the details.

Because love is the details, and neither is not love. We work together to let the details witness our love and make each other the warmest support in each other's lives. No more silence is a gulf between us, no more neglect is a source of harm.

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