Introduction:
In the parent group, some parents are likely to have different opinions due to differences in their views. Wu Yue's mother was very dissatisfied with Liu Jiahui's behavior, and when she went to school, she even bought a gift. Zhang Xingxing's father used a special method to mediate the quarrel, and Wu Yue's mother had no way to refute it. This blow once again showed his skillful tongue. This incident shows that there are also "unspoken rules" between parents, and when parents are unreasonable, how to deal with their emotions is very crucial.
Zhang Xingxing's father's special persuasion.
Liu Jiahui traveled to Xinjiang and brought some gifts to the children, as well as some baby camels. But Wu Yue's mother was very dissatisfied with this and asked her why she didn't buy some gifts for her children. After Liu Jiahui's parents' explanation, Wu Yue's mother did not stop there, but pointed the finger at Liu Jiahui, thinking that she was an irresponsible person. Zhang Xingxing's father did not object, but stood up and asked Wu Yue's mother to return the cheese to her, and told her that next time she was going to school, she must buy something for her classmates and not let Wu Yue bring it. Such a sharp answer made everyone stunned, and Wu Yue's mother was even more dumbfounded by her actions.
Zhang Xingxing's father's special persuasion method is indeed very interesting. In this kind of place similar to a parents' WeChat group, Wu Yue's mother's condemnation is unwarranted and completely disregards the feelings of others. Parents should set an example and set an example for their children. Wu Yue's mother is obviously irresponsible and selfish in doing this, and Zhang Xingxing's father's dissuasive attitude just talks about her problem.
Moreover, it is not so simple to pull people in the middle of a group of parents. Some parents may be emotional and overly verbal. But Zhang Xingxing's father behaved calmly and rationally, which was easily convincing. This special method of persuasion can not only resolve conflicts, but also silence others. Zhang Xingxing's father once again proved his wit and wit, winning the respect of everyone.
The unspoken rule is in the parent group.
Each parent has a different life experience and background. So, inevitably, there were differences of opinion, and there were disagreements. While most parent groups are used for daily announcements and transactions, there are many times when parent-to-parent communication is problematic.
The "unspoken rules" in the parent group are a kind of tacit understanding and agreement that has been reached in a small society. For example, disputes between parents are generally not suitable for public arguments, but should be conducted in private. If you yell in this group, or just scold, it's too cheap. Be sure to be calm, send a screenshot of what happened to the class teacher, deal with it privately, and don't disturb other parents.
In addition, it is also important to protect one's own private information in the parental group. In WeChat groups, it's best not to chat or reveal your family. After all, we can't be sure who our parents were, or whether others would notice what we said and did. Therefore, you must pay attention to your private information to avoid causing trouble to yourself and your family.
Also, in your parents' circle, don't stand up unless it's something important. In the parent group, the school committee makes important announcements that we only need to look at to know about them. Too much input or small talk can give the impression that they are doing coolies and doing superfluous work. Therefore, in the circle of parents, you should keep your profile down, as long as you pay attention to those meaningful news, you can know at any time.
My own thoughts and conclusions.
This reminds me of something in social media. In the age of the Internet, each of us has the opportunity to communicate and communicate with others, but there are also many different opinions and opinions. When addressing this discrepancy, it is crucial to communicate in a calm and reasonable manner.
Zhang Xingxing's father's special persuasion method inspired me deeply. When communicating with others, you should be reasonable, and do not be emotional and quarrelsome. Whether it's in parental circles or in social media, it's important to have a calm and friendly mindset to deal with each other's differences. So, in this case, the best thing to do is to keep silent and then film the matter and dispose of it.
In addition, there are many "unspoken rules" in parents' WeChat groups, which we must follow as much as possible. Pay attention to protect your personal space, don't talk too much, don't get involved too much, and make yourself look like a "** person". The school education committee and teachers are responsible for maintaining the security of the WeChat group, and some parents who are not interested should be dealt with in a timely manner to avoid affecting other parents.
Finally, please rest assured that all new students in the parent group. After all, this kind of unreasonable is a very small part, and most of the parent groups are just issuing an announcement or something. As long as you maintain a good psychological state and follow the "unspoken rules", you can live in harmony with all parents and strive for the learning and development of your children together.