In the early days, the parent group was established to facilitate communication between the school and parents, to facilitate the transmission of various notices and information, and to solve problems and communicate. Over time, parents will also form a group without a teacher in order to communicate more conveniently. However, as the group expands, the perceptions and values of different parents also begin to diverge, leading to constant conflicts and controversies.
Expanding: With the rise and popularity of social networking, the parent group has become an important channel for parents to communicate, parents can learn about the latest news and arrangements of the school anytime and anywhere in the group, and can also share parenting experience and experience with other parents. However, as the size of the parent group expands, the perceptions and behaviors of parents also begin to diversify, and the differences gradually become prominent. Some parents will express their opinions and opinions in the group, but due to differences in concepts and emotional conflicts, conflicts and disputes will also occur.
Zhang Xingxing's father is a witty father in the parent group, he is good at persuasion and uses a unique way to resolve conflicts. Rather than calming both sides down, he is better at leaving the unreasonable side with nothing to say. He puts his point of view in a humorous tone, putting the vexatious in an embarrassing position.
Expanding: Zhang Xingxing's father is famous among parents for his unique humorous language style and witty way of responding. No matter what situation he faces, whether it is a quarrel or a dispute, he can always solve it in his own unique way. Sometimes he would use a sarcastic way to "scold" unreasonable people, so that they would be embarrassed when they had nothing to say. This persuasion method not only effectively resolves the contradictions, but also brings people an entertaining and relaxed atmosphere.
In the elementary school parent group, there was a controversial incident related to gifts. Liu Jiahui, a member of the class, traveled to Xinjiang and brought gifts to her classmates when she returned, including cheese and camels. However, Wu Yue's parents expressed dissatisfaction with this and asked for a gift for their child. Liu Jiahui's parents explained that the gifts were chosen by the children themselves, but Wu Yue's parents did not accept the explanation and continued to express their dissatisfaction and criticism. They felt that Liu Jiahui's leave trip was irresponsible and would affect other students' Xi attitudes and distractions. At this time, Zhang Xingxing's father came forward to support Wu Yue's parents, praised her reminder, and asked Liu Jiahui to return the cheese, and said that he would not bring gifts to Wu Yue when he brought gifts to the whole class in the future.
Expanding: This controversy has exposed the differences in perceptions and behaviors between parents. Wu Yue's parents believe that Liu Jiahui's behavior is a sign of irresponsibility to other students, and they are worried that other students will be distracted by envy and affect the quality of Xi. Wu Yue's parents even said that such behavior was very bad, and thought that they were a kind reminder. Liu Jiahui's parents argued that this was the child's own choice and hoped to understand and accept it. However, Zhang Xingxing's father, who couldn't accept Wu Yue's mother's behavior, came out to support Wu Yue's mother and asked her to return the cheese to warn other parents not to do similar things. This behavior caused a lively discussion in the parent group, and various opinions and voices were intertwined.
There are some "unspoken rules" in the parent group, and these rules include the rules of behavior and how people get along with each other in the parent group. Understanding these rules and responding appropriately can effectively avoid unnecessary conflicts and disputes.
1.Responding to unreasonable parents: Parents sometimes encounter some unreasonable parents in the parent group, who make unreasonable remarks, blame others, etc. The best way to respond to such parents is to remain silent and not respond. Because they have lost their sanity and grace, arguing with them will only lead to fruitlessness and a waste of time. In addition, you can take screenshots of their remarks and chat them privately with the teacher for the teacher to handle.
2.Protect personal privacy: In the parent group, try to avoid exposing your family's situation and personal privacy too much. Although the parent group is a communication platform between parents of students, it is not possible to determine whether there are other strangers in the parent group, and it is important to protect personal privacy.
3.Avoid small talk in groups: Most parent groups are mainly used to deliver notifications and solve problems, so try to keep small talk in groups as little as possible. If you want to chat, you can add friends to chat privately.
4.Keep a low profile: Don't come out too often in the parent group and try not to talk too much. Parent groups are usually formed by parent associations, where they post announcements and messages, and most of the time they just need to keep reading.
Author's message: Parent groups play a great role in conveying information and solving problems, but there will also be some problems and controversies. In the parent community, we need to understand and respect the views and opinions of others, and avoid vexatious and conflict. At the same time, the parent committee and teachers also have responsibilities and obligations in maintaining order within the group. For parents who are not sensible, you can ask for a private chat outside the group to solve the problem so as not to cause trouble to other parents. Parents should keep their minds steady when participating in the parent group and try to keep a low profile when there is nothing to do. Finally, I hope that every parent can get along harmoniously in the parent group and jointly create a good communication atmosphere.