Title: The man came to get engaged and pulled a cart of gifts, netizens were worried: My son is too expensive!
The issue of bride price has always been a big and difficult problem, and for many ordinary families, in the face of today's high bride price, they can only smash the pot and sell iron to their sons to marry their daughters-in-law.
This is also a helpless thing, after all, there are more men and fewer women now, and there are too many older young people left, and it is not easy to marry a daughter-in-law, so what do you care about whether you have money or not?
The current situation is that as long as there is a suitable girl and son, the man's family will be stubborn and smash the pot and sell iron, and empty the wallet to be on top. Otherwise, if there is anything left, it will be really embarrassing, and if you are too old, it will be even more difficult to marry.
Recently, a small couple in Henan got engaged, and the man's family prepared a lot of things, and pulled a lot of gifts in the car, including gifts, as well as a lot of pork, live sheep, and live chickens, which made people dazzled.
Seeing such a scene, many netizens have said that it is really a problem to have a son now, schooling, medical treatment, food and clothing all cost money, and when the child grows up, he also needs a bride price, a car and a house, how can ordinary people afford such a heavy burden?
If there is a boy in the family, he can still deal with it, but if there are two or more, he is likely to be beaten as a single, after all, girls nowadays do not like to marry two boys in the family.
Netizens are right, the cost of raising children is too high now, and the cost of marriage is also outrageously high.
Let's just say that this little couple is engaged, this car of things, I'm afraid it will cost a lot of money, two pork, equivalent to a live pig, let alone a few thousand yuan, a live sheep, look quite big, but also a thousand yuan, plus a group of big roosters, also a lot of money, as for gifts, tobacco and alcohol are indispensable, these two together are thousands of yuan, plus other gifts, such a car of things, it seems to cost almost 20,000 yuan.
You must know that this is Shangqiu, Henan, which is the place with the highest bride price, and it is not easy for ordinary families to pay a bride price of one or two hundred thousand yuan at every turn. plus the three gold were sent over together, this time, it was really bleeding.
Although it's just an engagement wedding, there is a lot of hard work behind the in-laws!However, when getting married, you can't just look at money, after all, it's not easy to marry a daughter-in-law now, and most people are still happy to do what you can do with money.
The most uncomfortable thing is that those families are prepared, but they can't find suitable girls, which is really uncomfortable.
Looking at this engagement scene, it is really impressive. Nowadays, the cost of marriage is indeed getting higher and higher, and it is really a big burden for ordinary families. However, we also can't measure the value of a marriage solely in terms of money. After all, the most important thing in marriage is the affection and mutual support between two people.
Of course, as parents, we all want to be able to give the best for our children, including when it comes to getting married. However, we also need to understand that money is not everything, and sometimes, excessive pursuit of material things can make marriage lose its true meaning.
Therefore, for those who are preparing to get married or have already married, we should cherish our feelings for each other more and not be swayed by money. At the same time, society should also promote the concept of healthy marriage and return marriage to its essence. Only in this way can you truly enjoy the happiness and joy that marriage brings.