Most people usually want to have a good love.
Of course there will be this type of love, and there will always be people who are very serious about feelings.
Some people may be like this, but there are also many people who are not sincere about feelings, take it as a kind of entertainment, and just want to try to start a relationship with more people and have more emotional experiences.
And, even if some people aspire to have a good love, they don't necessarily treat you sincerely.
In other words, to have a good love, you first need to have a pair of keen eyes and have the ability to recognize people.
One should neither doubt the opposite sex you meet, nor blindly believe it.
You must first observe carefully and make a judgment, because whether a person is serious or not can indeed be seen through observation.
Are you curious and want to show off your strengths?
If you're with someone who doesn't have any interest in getting to know you, doesn't care about how you look in front of you, only focuses on yourself, keeps mentioning your ex, and often doesn't pay attention to tidying up, then that person probably doesn't mean anything to you at all.
Because the other person never really cares about you, no matter what kind of person you are, what you like or dislike, the other person doesn't care at all.
I have no real affection for you, and I only see you as a partner to pass the time. I'm very relaxed in front of you, I don't care what I say, I don't care about my image.
If a person really likes you and seriously wants to have an outcome with you, he will not always ignore your existence so casually.
Because of your sincerity, the other person will unconsciously become more interested in you, want to know more about you, such as your interests, taste preferences, and usual resting styles, and may also inquire about your expectations for the future.
Any detail related to you will not be overlooked, and the other party wants to grasp everything and not let any little thing be lost.
By working hard to get to know you more fully, while presenting your best in front of you, taking care of your image, consciously hiding your shortcomings and showing only your good side.
I want to be able to use the good and strong points in myself to attract you and make you want to be with me.
True respect requires action to prove.
There are always people who will show that they are dissatisfied with us, always suppress us, and behave badly towards us, as if we are frivolous.
And he boasted a lot, did a lot of big things, said it beautifully, but in reality he didn't really put it into action.
It's just some hypocritical words, and I always refuse to spend, and I always don't want to spend my effort and time.
It's as if only when the other person is in a good mood will they interact for a while, and show enthusiasm, other times they are colder, unpredictable, and somewhat elusive.
When someone makes you feel that the other person lacks respect and substantive dedication to you, you have to cater to them in order to match the other person's pace, and you must treat the other person well when the other person needs you, and you should not bother the other person, which is obviously abnormal.
What you experience is real, and in fact the other person doesn't like you at all and doesn't show the most basic sincerity. You only joke with each other once in a while, and at most kill time.
Those with sincerity will never behave presumptuously in front of you, nor will they be duplicitous, just talk but not do. They will be more cautious and pay special attention to their words and deeds, fearing that you will misunderstand what they mean. Because they care about you very much and want to prove their sincerity with practical actions.
This person is very generous, always takes the initiative to find you and be there for you, and also spends some money for you appropriately.
When needed, it is important that the other person is attitude and responsible.
People who lack a serious attitude will lack patience with you.
All along, only taking care of your own position and only thinking about your own interests, the other party can manipulate you at will, use you, and get something from you, but the other party does not have the heart to be responsible for you.
When you're struggling, feeling down, or upset, others may not come directly to help you, and they may worry that they will cause you trouble or make you more sad. As a result, they will try to show concern and support in other ways than directly helping to solve the problem.
I have no interest in putting my heart and soul into you, and I don't care about your happiness or not.
When a person is serious about you, the other person will see you as a part of themselves, which is the exact opposite.
When you are in trouble in your life, or something happens, the other person will automatically take an interest in it and immediately show a very caring and nervous attitude. They will take the initiative to rush to your side without your request and face the difficult situation with you.
When you're surrounded by someone, you'll truly feel grounded and at ease, knowing that you're not alone.
The other party not only always wants to take care of you, but also cares about your work and rest, hopes that you will rest early, don't stay up late, pay attention to your health, hope that you can always stay happy, strive to make you feel happy, and carefully plan your future.
How a person treats you, whether they are good or evil, serious or not, can often be traced.
As long as you don't deceive yourself, you will be able to see clearly.
When you realize that there is someone who is very serious about you, you should be equally committed to taking the other person seriously.
As long as two people are serious, there is a good chance that there will be a happy ending and the realization of each other's love dreams.
As long as you feel that the other person is not serious enough, just perfunctory, impatient, and disrespectful, you don't always have to make excuses for the other person. If it's time to leave, be sure to leave quickly.
If you don't take it seriously at the beginning, it will be difficult to be serious in the future.
You don't meet the other person's expectations, and the other person can't be your future.